Impressive blue pill example: guy buys drinks and behaves like a perfect gentleman, gets nothing but a pat on the back.

insoucianc · 2016-10-02T12:54:14+00:00

I'm sure he'll find a nice girl to appreciate him eventually.

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-10-02T12:09:27+00:00

It's called a covert contract, NMMNG is good for understanding the concept

Momo_dollar · 2016-10-02T15:16:31+00:00

Tbh, if he drove them home you don't know what happened after.

danddrox · 2016-10-02T19:11:16+00:00

This is what I do as a gay guy to intentionally steer girls clear xD

Baylien2 · 2016-10-02T16:28:23+00:00

The key here is from what position you are treating women in this matter. If this guy as you say always does this to impress women, then that's beta. But if he is giving to everybody like this because he genuinely likes being hospitable for the sake of it, then that's not beta at all.

FWIW I'm not like that naturally. I used to do that shit to impress girls and they could see the desperation a mile away. Now I don't really do much for anyone else in general because I stopped caring about outcomes and people started treating me better. With that said people have a 6th sense that call detect the intention behind your actions.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2016-10-02T20:40:36+00:00

I have to ask- OP, did you fuck any of those girls that night?

MattyAnon · 2016-10-02T23:43:22+00:00

Of course they appreciate...

Appreciate in what way... genuine gratitude? willingness to repay the favour? thinking highly of him??

One of the bitter truths of The Red Pill is that women do not appreciate male sacrifice. (Because it's beta - so she pretends to appreciate it and be attracted to is, but secretly she despises it).

The best you can hope for from women is their respect, and women respect selfish. The best that a man and a woman can hope for is that she respects his selfish wish to be with her.

That's as close to "love" as it is going to get - respect. Respect for being selfish. Live your life accordingly.

clarkdanie1 · 2016-10-02T15:14:32+00:00

Don't be so quick to judge. I've known handsome , nice guys who constantly go out of their way and get great looking ass on the regular.

zboo1h · 2016-10-02T16:05:35+00:00

Some guys get off on having their nuts stomped on.

rhuffq · 2016-10-03T02:24:52+00:00

That's why I wish I had discovered the redpill when I was in college. I think my experience would have been better. I was always taught "just be nice to her and she'll like you" which in many minds (including mine back then) translates into the "the nicer, the better". There is a fine line between being nice and coming off desperate, and unfortunately many men do not know how to identify it.

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2016-10-04T14:45:38+00:00

"He is a handsome man, I can say that. But he behaves like a fucking pussy to such an extreme I couldn't believe it"

Sounds like a guy with potential, if he could wake up and shed the blue-pill chivalry shit.

Give the man some guidance and try to at least send him down the right path, ideally by showing him your experiences and why gentleman = failure with women.

PeluzaHT · 2016-10-02T15:27:13+00:00

I don´t necessarily think it´s like this. It´s not bluepill at all to be educated and polite. Hell, this guy could even bring a glass of water to you too. Not everything people do socially is to fuck some random bimbos at a bar. I insist: you can be that guy, if you want to... as long as your SMV is high enough, you´ll get pussy anyway.

Is being educated and polite a requisite to get pussy? Of course not. Does it lower your SMV? If you´re an average, frustrated dude... probably, or at least, won´t help you at all. Go out, lift, get money, dress well, that´s gonna help you tons more.

If you´re Brad Pitt, and you bring a glass of water to a group of random women... hell yeah they are going to fuck you anyway. Hell, it can even help you! I insist. YOU CAN BE THAT GUY AND GET WHAT YOU WANT. It´s just that the majority of guys that are like this, are generally trying to compensate their lack of SMV doing that somehow.

Please don´t fall in the category of being polite equals being beta.

squidracer · 2016-10-02T22:42:58+00:00

Maybe he roofied the drinks

manifesto18 · 2016-10-02T15:21:44+00:00

Dudes still buy hos drinks?? Bad investment....

GC0W30 · 2016-10-02T15:26:53+00:00

Impressive blue pill example: guy buys drinks and behaves like a perfect gentleman, gets nothing but a pat on the back.

Seriously, the second, third and fourth times I went into a bar I saw this or was the beta in the story.

I'm not certain why you posted this.

Was it for the under-21s?

beltwaytr · 2016-10-02T23:17:39+00:00

From the way he is described it sounds like this guy is the prime example of a man who has been raised in a feminist society. Taught to believe that it's a privilege to spend your resources on women and if you're really lucky you might get one as a girlfriend.

While I get it might be funny to a few guys in the community, I actually feel bad for the poor bastard. It's bad enough that the women are taking advantage of him and laughing at him. Let alone to have a reputation at a specific bar as bar bitch.

Hjalmbere · 2016-10-03T05:42:21+00:00

In younger years I sometimes bought drinks for women I met in bars, and it NEVER worked. Buying drinks when you're on a date doesn't hurt though, especially if it allows you to throw in some innuendo like 'Ever tried Sex On The Beach?'. Even better you can buy rounds for each other.

LESSON LEARNED: Do not supplicate. Ever.

sezamus · 2016-10-03T22:09:46+00:00

keyword for newbies: domination. OP's storyguy is submissive. Submission is opposite to masculinity. Imagine dominating woman, behaving like a man. Not a very feminine picture, don't you think?

DonnyPunani · 2016-10-03T22:14:54+00:00

I mean he seems overbearing anyways lol. too nice in my opinion. Fawning over a woman you don't know makes you look desperate.

kondziu160 · 2016-10-03T23:37:37+00:00

So this guy sits with us and suddenly brings the ladies glasses full of water to hydrate without being asked to do so

I had to walk around my room for a minute, this level of awkwardness is beyond my endurance

cashmoney_x · 2016-10-02T15:36:59+00:00

Jesus Christ someone needs to sit that dude down and go through the logic.

ayyyyyylmaoooooooo · 2016-10-02T18:23:55+00:00

Some dudes just don't get it. Acting like that just shows people what you are truly looking for. SEX. You need make women think that is the last thing in your mind. It has worked for me, and women initiate with me. Still...I am very wary of AWALT.

yomo86 · 2016-10-02T20:20:11+00:00

The nice guy behavior works if you do it from a power position - and it feels good. Let's say you ask the ugliest ie lowest in the SMV hierarchy in the circle of girls if she wants something to drink or she looks not well and you offer her a (genuine) ride home. This creates an immediate power imbalance in their equilibrium thus increasing your own SMV. You are capable of being a provider but you do so on your own accord.

TermsOfColors · 2016-10-02T23:13:58+00:00

Dude who always lurks at a bar buys girls drinks without being asked to

Whenever a girl asked me to buy her a drink, I asked her for some money.

alpha4ever · 2016-10-02T21:29:53+00:00

I buy girls drinks, order them waters and regularly drive them home. I also almost always fuck the shit out of them later. You honestly don't need to treat a girl like shit to make her want to fuck you. If you do, you're likely doing something wrong.

You talk about how beta this guy is and assume you're so much more alpha, but at the end of the night, he left with the girls and you left alone. You can't force the world to conform to your misguided belief.

railatx · 2016-10-02T13:14:54+00:00

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bicepts · 2016-10-02T20:33:11+00:00

This perfectly epitomizes the current state of the matters. Women want their husband's to act like a beta like this. But when it comes to getting fucked and being sexual, they went the alpha male.

This poor guy is nice enough I'm sure. Very high value fella, but he's giving away the farm, showing his hand, blowing his wad, whatever you wanna call it. He's got to tighten up his game hardcore. I like the phrase "nice guy, but with a backbone."

It hits home with me because I used to be like this. 100% effort with zero results. He would be stunned to learn that small, titrated efforts would give him stratospheric success with the opposite sex. Its not at all selfish or conceited either. Being generous has a rate of diminishing returns. Being too nice garners way less respect than a level of generosity that is in parallel with the situation.

Limekill · 2016-10-02T23:19:26+00:00

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chahmana · 2016-10-02T12:57:52+00:00

Wow, he should consider hanging out at gay bars, would be interesting to see what would happen then ...

Limekill · 2016-10-03T02:58:10+00:00

Listen up alpha-fags. YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANY WOMEN ON THIS PLANET! Nor is any woman entitled to any man. Or man to man, you get my drift. Buying someone a drink and doing nice things to get into their pants does not mean that they have to fall into your arms. HE made the choice to do those things. Seeing as none of you red-pillers have had this talk from your parents, here it is before you all rape someone. Rejection is a normal part of life sons. You are not a god who all women should want to date. Everybody has preferences. I dont want to fuck everyone I meet, and I assume you don't either. It is how life and dating works. Grow up and deal with it. Treating women like shit isn't going to get you laid, just like buying a girl a drink and being nice isn't going to get you laid. What will get you laid? Meeting someone that is mutually attracted to you. Meeting someone you click with. It can happen anywhere at any time. There is no trick. I don't know a single woman outside of the bdsm community that loves to be treated terribly. You haven't awakened to reality, everything is the fucking same. This whole subreddit should be in the Guinness book of world records for world's largest circle-jerk. I haven't seen shit this misguided and cancerous in ages. ALSO: Most feminism is Tumblr exclusive, I fail to see any females pepper spraying men for saying hello. There are no men walking around on leashes, or feminists taking male lives by the minute. Things. Are. The. Same. So stop using feminism as an excuse to be a pack of rapey neanderthals. I'm sorry most of you were coddled too much by mummy, but you all need a good grow the fuck up any deal with life pill instead.

inspiron3000 · 2016-10-02T17:21:36+00:00

You should learn from this dude.
Zero fucks received means bullets dodged.

blackedoutfast · 2016-10-03T00:52:05+00:00

protip: when you're out with a girl and run into this type of guy, most of them will also buy a drink for you. just tell the girl you want a drink too. the BP dudes love to buy drinks for the "competition" because they think it's a perfect oppo to steal her from you by showing off their BP NiceGuy game

it's fucking hilarious but be careful you don't do it too much. the guy is never able to steal away the chick but i've been cockblocked a few times because the girl started passing out or puking before i got her home.

aanarchist · 2016-10-02T23:20:48+00:00

pretty sure if i bought a girl a drink i'd have her at her place in the next hour. it depends on how you work it. unless of course she's so far gone that she automatically assumes for a guy to buy her a brew must be a beta bux, but if that's the case i don't want it, brain dead women aren't very interesting.

Mckallidon · 2016-10-02T18:16:49+00:00

He can buy my bitch a drink anytime. I'll even let him watch in the corner.

Title	Impressive blue pill example: guy buys drinks and behaves like a perfect gentleman, gets nothing but a pat on the back.
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Date	October 2, 2016 11:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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