The more I observe women, the more I realize that their sex lives seem to revolve around one ( two at most) sex partner who really did it for them. Everything they do can be explained by their relationship with that sex partner, including the fact they may have not met him yet.

The typical modern woman will go through a phase of experimentation ( late teen, early twenty), until they plateau with that one partner ( early , mid twenty). Past that stage, the stories tend to converge.

They get into a relationship, get cheated on, cheat back or leave only to throw themselves back into a situationship with the One who may or may not have moved on to a new main woman. It's surprising how many women who go on multiple dates but consistently sleep with only one guy: the dreaded ex, the One.

From that point on, every future relationship is measured against that relationship, or is a reaction to how that relationship unfolded. This is where red pill concepts of "imprints", or "Alpha Window" comes into play.

She might reluctantly settle for a provider while her heart(her box of wonder) still belongs to the One. She might go on a hot girl summer spree to prove something to him or herself. She might alter her appearance for the same reason. Etc..

In that regard, there is a contradiction between Hypergamy demanded by feminism and woman's natural ability to create unique, durable bonds with only a few partners. The tragedy of the modern woman ( anxious, constantly depressed, never happy) is this nagging feeling of missed reproductive opportunity with the One, who they may have either already met , or may not seem to find, despite the numerous partners they have gone through.

The Red Pill is then a lot more straightforward, albeit harder to swallow. If you're not the One for the girl, you're wasting your time. There is absolutely no point in getting into a LTR or, God forbids, a marriage.

Do it for her, or leave her alone.