Keep it simple - lift and approach.

IllimitableMan · 2014-12-24T18:18:10+00:00

I don't care about pick up techniques, having game, keeping frame, kino or escalating. I have become much happier by just following the pursuit of pussy along a simple formula.

Well RP is more than the pursuit of pussy, you're just not at the point where you care about anything other than that (this is the impression I get by reading between the lines in your post.)

I started doing this two months ago, being a 21 year old virgin. Since I have had a one night stand and scored my current girlfriend. Granted it isn't much, but it's an improvement.

Well done. Now you won't have that weird attitude about you that most celibate men have (which drives them crazy/alienates them from others.) Just remember the world isn't all about pussy. There's a lot more to be explored and achieved. Women are like drugs you enjoy them now and again but they're not really necessary to enjoying a rich and fulfilled life. At their best, they are complementary. At their worst they're a subjugating detriment. Women are to be indulged in, not pedestalised nor the focal point of your life's endeavours.

I never really understood the appeal of all the dating techniques.

PUA is bullshit to exploit lesser men's desire for intimacy by giving them a few fish here and there without helping them make the proper internal changes needed to become kick ass and slay pussy independently of over priced seminars and bootcamps. Nothing wrong with game tips and stories though. If you can sharpen your game, why not? Everything PUA teaches you can learn without all the monetary exploitation from this subreddit, my blog and Rollo's blog etc. You won't have to pay a cent for any of that knowledge either.

Good luck on your journey.

Revo_Luzione · 2014-12-24T19:23:47+00:00

It's also easy to get caught up in the anti-feminist BS, the politics, the news-story of the day courtesy of the Megaphone (TM), that is, the overhyped, blown-out-of-proportion media story that is being used to control the masses.

Or one may get caught up in following the the latest red-pill twitter slugfest as manosphere twitter writers duke it out with SJWs. Both the manosphere vs. SJW skirmishes and The Megaphone stories (ferguson as an example) simply serve as a distraction.

I've found it's best to pay as little attention to this shit as possible. If you know a little bit about them, they can serve as a social filter--when people run their mouth about SJW/megaphone news stories, you'll know them for the mainstream sheeple they are. Since this is most people, it's almost irrelevant, but every now & then you'll run across a true natural RP person (who's never read mainstream RP stuff) but still knows the score, this will help you identify people who may possibly be inner circle material.

Otherwise--lift, eat healthy, sleep well, feed your mind good books, and approach. Avoid stupid people, stupid politics, SJW bullshit, and mainstream media "megaphone" stories.

vnjxk · 2014-12-24T16:55:33+00:00

Trp is actually a very summed up pickup (and keep the attraction) Imo, mostly because instead of explaining what to do in every situation, and say "and btw you should lift and dress good etc" TRP just explained me the core of the men-women relationships and from there it was easy to understand what to do even if it's unique situation. But the best thing to say is you can read all day and know everything, but until you get your ass out of your computer and start lifting and approaching you'll learn and know nothing.

-drukpa-kunley- · 2014-12-24T18:56:00+00:00

Here's the thing. Whether you agree with it or not, you're implementing both redpill and PUA strategy.

Basically you state that you don't care about all that shit; you are going to lift and do your own thing (approach).

But that is EXACTLY what redpill and PUA techniques are all about. Setting goals for yourself, establishing a strong frame, demonstrating high value, and approaching women without fear.

So when you approach women, you have higher SMV from lifting (redpill) and you demonstrate high value (PUA) by holding strong frame (redpill/PUA). Women can size up a strong man at a glance. And they respond to that.

So you've just invented "Fuck Game" game. It's a mind-hack to keep your head clear of all the bullshit so that you can approach without fear.

In the end though, your ACTIONS are embodying the core practices/theories of TRP and PUA.

Good job and keep it up.

SheepKing · 2014-12-25T07:33:20+00:00

You never found the appeal of fucking a girl in the toilet after picking her 10 minute before at the mall?

thefirefoxforever · 2014-12-24T18:49:06+00:00

I find the overly complicated game stuff kind of hilarious as it seems like these guys entire life revolves around scoring. I think your keep it simple technique is a lot more realistic and enjoyable. Yes improve yourself ... workout. Have goals. Yes be more outgoing if you want to score. But for fuck's sake, the insane level of analysis that some of these guys go into with game stuff is a bit lame. But whatever, I guess it's like a hobby for them.

JackGetsIt · 2014-12-24T18:02:44+00:00

It hurts to overthink

Analysis by paralysis.

Great advice OP. It's easy to get caught up in the pick up universe which is really 1000 variations on the same core concepts that you mention in your post. Lift (improve SMV) Approach (day and night) Follow Up (date, kiss, fuck, on to the next).

OakTr3E · 2014-12-24T18:20:16+00:00

A mindset forgotten through societal conditioning:

If ObjectOfInterest = fuckable

then pursue()

else

nevermind()

end if

This mindset is what males are born with (or at least get when hitting puberty). Societal conventions tell us to keep our natural actions in check. TRP advice you to rediscover your natural instincts (approach/act), but also to lift (because it supplements a lack of needed physical requirements on males in todays environment)

Senderious · 2014-12-24T18:29:58+00:00

Nice man! I tend to overthink as well, A LOT. How did you get that out or your system? Wish I found out how..

soccerplusaviation · 2014-12-24T21:58:19+00:00

That's a good paradigm to follow when you have just started. Like everything else, master the basics first. Lifting and approaching with confidence is always a good place to start.

Smekiz · 2014-12-24T23:45:37+00:00

Awesome, just don't stop now that you've got the girlfriend, although maybe without escalating the whole thing further than conversation

siegristrm · 2014-12-28T14:03:40+00:00

Because that one pussy you got now tricked ya. You are young. And after only getting laid twice you already got stuck. Don't let pussy captivate you like that.

rocklion200 · 2014-12-24T21:20:08+00:00

You are on the right track and what you say is completely true. But you are still fairly new. You're 21 and just lost your virginity. Great. You're on the right path. Now its up to you to keep on that path and no one else. Its not going to be the new girlfriend. The hardest part is not what you've did over the last two months the hardest part is what you will do for the next 40 years which requires more than just lift and approach. What I've found is TRP helps you focus on constant improvement. You got laid. You got the girl. Yay. Now its time to see other ways of self improvement Constantly challenge yourself

Title	Keep it simple - lift and approach.
Author	skidtfisk
Upvotes	66
Comments	24
Date	December 24, 2014 3:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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