Monday Field Report Thread 10/27/14

robotghow · 2014-10-28T13:15:45+00:00

We matched on tinder, and had a nice conversation. Out of the blue she asks me how tall I am. I reply my exact height, and then she shit-tests me.

Her: Hmm u looked taller

Me: You looked nicer..

Abundance mentality. My past self would say something dumb, try to salvage the conversation, or try to turn it around. I just left it there and nexted.

22 hours later she replies. I'm not angry, I'm just not impressed. She apologizes, and qualifies herself to whatever I say. I'm meeting her tonight.

tallwheel · 2014-10-28T08:10:06+00:00

LTR said she wanted to go with me to a dance club party for Halloween. I don't really want to take her to a club where other guys will try to talk to her and AMOG me. (Insecure on my part, I know, but I'm not exactly 'alpha' yet.)

So, I simply flipped the script and applied some dread game. "If we go to a club, other girls are going to try to talk to me." She immediately agreed that going to a club was a very bad idea. We're now instead planning to go to a Halloween party at a small beer bar where I know a lot of the people who will be there and like their beer selection anyway. Should be much safer than a fucking club.

SpartanLegend · 2014-10-28T01:45:20+00:00

I actually have a question regarding a conquest this weekend.

My LTR gf and I don't really have much experience with relationships. We started going out 2 years ago in Junior year of high school, and other than a few kisses we're each others firsts for a lot. Because I was a beta when our relationship started, I barely made any moves and we moved really slowly sexually. After discovering TRP I've been using game to escalate things in our relationship recently, and finding some success.

Background aside, my roommate was gone for the weekend so we had some privacy for the first time in a while. (my roommate is a selfish douche and hers finds cockblocking hilarious) It was my birthday last week so she texted me asking what i wanted. I told her a blowjob, because she had never blown me before. She was super hesitant, saying she wasn't sure she wanted to. I gave her radio silence for 2 days after getting that text. So she comes over to my dorm Friday night, and as we're escalating things i told her to blow me. She says no, then tries to keep kissing so i just stop completely. Turn on the tv, shirt back on, etc. She's completely silent, and after a while my curiosity gets the better of me and i ask her exactly why she doesn't want to blow me.

Her: i wouldn't know what I'm doing

Me: I'm not expecting perfection. Not like i have anything to compare that to.

Her: your penis would be in my mouth

Me: yes.

Her: it could be gross

Me: a lot of other girls like it

Her: i still don't know

Me: i think it's the next step in our relationship. I don't think we have an expiration date, so i don't see why not.

She was quiet and then said "we'll try it at some point this weekend. Not now." So then i said okay, and that morning i woke up to her blowing me. Then she did it two more times. I wasn't trying to use any game, so i really want expecting that kind of success. What the hell did i do right?

DeputyDelicious · 2014-10-28T12:03:14+00:00

Alright so last night I go to a church group that I used to be apart of's Halloween bonfire thing. A girl I saw back when I was very BP was there, she used to have a boyfriend so in my BP days I never approached, and someone asked about her boo. She replied "I don't have a boo any more" I said "That's a great thing". She quickly got defensive saying "Oh you don't even know the circumstances to say anything about it, how dare you." My quick reply is "It's not a great thing because you broke up. It's a great thing because you're single." george clooney smirk and I walk away to talk to an old friend.

She's the only girl I'm remotely attracted to at this party, but I know a lot of the people and talk to them all instead. At some point I briefly talk to her and ask her about w/e. We have a brief convo and I bail because it was boring to me even though she was laughing.

The rest of the night I watch two other guys basically rotate around her talking and trying to get her to like them. They would basically take turns talking to her on the bench she was sitting at. One would leave to get a drink, the other would sit down and they would literally rotated like this for atleast an hour. I don't know if it was me being weak or scared or whatever, but I'll be damned if I try to get in on the rotation with two blue pill nice guys (well one of them is built and red pill about life, but not women) trying to please this woman. At one point she had them so blinded that they both were trying to talk to her at the same time. I'm chuckling from a distance watching the show and talking to a couple of other girls.

I'm "the most successful" out of any of the guys there, and I walked and talked like it yet she stayed in her bubble most of the night content to be orbited by the two guys. Was I just not interesting enough?

Another thing that was pretty funny from last night. One of the women that I was talking to was an old plate. We are still good friends but I just don't want the poon anymore. She met a new guy and we are both talking together and he's doing all of these nice things for her. Being sweet to her and all of that yet she treats us both equally. Infact she talks more openly with me about what's going on in her life. I comment that she's got him trained like a "dog". He replies with "With that attitude you're going to be alone your whole life." I laugh and say "Bro, I'd rather be alone and have reached all of my goals than trapped in a woman's cage."

Damn it feels good to say what you mean and mean what you say.

Iupvoteforknowledge · 2014-10-28T05:41:46+00:00

Bad weekend. Lost a plate. Oh well.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T15:54:43+00:00

Yesterday's successes:

I lived with this Dutch exchange student two years ago. She was tall and overweight. Since going home, she's a solid 10 now. Dropped all the extra weight, looks like she should be walking runways. Yesterday I realized I've trained her to call me "sir," so that she feels good every time I praise her for doing it. Showed her a picture of my arms from lifting and then said, "I'll show you my abs in a few weeks if you're curious." Her: "Of course I'm curious."

Commented on how my barista always wears superhero shirts. She's a 6-7. She works in an out-of-the-way shop and no one is ever there when I go in to get food in the morning. I've purposefully refrained from saying shit to her for the 2 or 3 months I've been going, just to up my mystery and create scarcity. So the few times we've really talked, she's been really into it. This time, she opened up about how her father got her into comic collecting and how she has thousands of comics at her house, mostly DC. Told her I don't know much about that, and she offered to teach me. Got her number.

HB9 walked into my work a few weeks ago, and I alpha'd the shit out of her, making her follow me to get where she was going, forcing open a door that her weak self thought was locked. She did that thing where she introduced her friend to me with the "this guy's good/hot" insinuation that also got her friend interested.

Well she came back in yesterday and I remembered her name (this gets you insane points with anyone - don't just use it on women). She didn't remember mine. So I used that as my opening uppercut. "Oh you don't remember my name?" She stands there trying to guess, rubbing her hair, her body language escalating with her mood. Me: "Ok, here's what we'll do. If you can remember my name before 6:30 when I leave, come back around." Her: "And what? I'll get a big surprise?" Yes, she actually fucking said that. Her: "Ok, good I have to be gone before 6:30."

Her buying temperature was through the roof, but being at work I couldn't just drag her off and go to town. She didn't come back before 6:30, so I left. You can't be the dork who waits around. She'll smell it. If she comes back, it will be that much sweeter. If she doesn't, there's a whole world of 9's out there.

TSLlol · 2014-10-28T06:13:59+00:00

Not weekend but monday rather. I discovered the red pill last week and took it, so I spent my whole last week reading the sidebar, and other sources, along with this reddit. It's really set my life on an upwards course. I was always between the blue and the red pill, and I was confused my whole life, it just didn't click in my head why some stuff felt off with the world (and chicks). Now that I look back on my past life, it's like I've always been running around in circles, hovering between being a beta and being an alpha, and it never made sense. I've found this subreddit just by chance and oh my god, do I feel enlightened.

Today was the first day that I put them in motion, and I've already gotten way more strongly positive reactions from girls than the past few months. (the last few months I've been apathetic to the whole picking up girls business, I just didn't care, and focused on my uni studies)

Right now I'm feeling the best I think I ever had in my life. I've never been more motivated towards life. It's like I've figured out everything.

However that last sentence is not true. I need to work on some things hard, specifically working on how to approach girls, after that how to keep converations going, and on top of all I feel I really need to sharpen my mind, as I don't think I pick up on shit tests too well, and if I do I'm not fast enough to come up with a good counter. Like I'm not good with the whole witty A&A stuff for example. I'd like to improve on those, but I don't know how.

Anyway if anyone has any advice or guides, or ANYTHING on the last part I just wrote, please share!

Nieben · 2014-10-28T07:47:18+00:00

Maintained an assertive, outcome independent frame during my roommate's early Halloween party.

Girl chose me before I even had the passing thought but I went along with her illusion of me making all the moves. (She said I looked like an ex of hers. Twist - he looks like more of a man than me... She showed me his picture on Facebook after she and I fucked several times, in the morning.)

Somewhat pathetically, the guy she came to the party with tried injecting himself into the conversation multiple times, tried pulling her away, etc. My frame undoubtedly helped her already biased attraction towards me.

I don't feel bad for the guy in the slightest, but I understand his feelings of hurt and "betrayal". She's a slut (though, like all girls, doesn't want that label, prefers the label "single"), but she's fun, funny, goofy, sweet/affectionate and has a decent body. Would definitely give her the time of day, just not my commitment.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T14:23:03+00:00

Broke some ground in text game this weekend.

Ended up turning a conversation from: "Who is this?" into her asking me out to dinner and drinks.

WALLOM · 2014-10-28T14:58:18+00:00

My most recent plate turned 29 on Saturday. I work every other weekend and ended up getting a pair of free college hockey tickets. Invited her out, though she declined as friends of hers were up from PA and offered to have me and one of my buddies meet them afterwards.

Had a blast at the game as usual and met up with her and her friends (8/10 & 7/10). We bar hopped at a few downtown bars before heading to the dance club that just happens to be in the basement of the local strip joint (classy, for sure). I could see the inebriation taking hold so I warned her that if she got too drunk I wouldn't fuck her that night, so she had me finish her last drink dragged me to the dance floor where she started grinding, had me finger her on the floor, and finally finished as the lights came on with a hot make-out sesh.

Drove them all back (the joys of responsible drinking) and DJ'd a small dance party for all of us at her friend's house before taking my girl to bed for our usual dirty rough sex. Had to work at 11 so I barely made it up and out on time.

ron_swans0n · 2014-10-28T08:49:52+00:00

I must say, i've done some RP tindergame I'm 17 years of age, becoming 18 tommorow, and this is my story of how i ensured birthday sex just by being a complete dreading asshole on tinder

It starts out just this last friday, i was out with some friends in town (Bear in mind i'm underage so of course i have to rely on a fake ID). We go to this club in copenhagen, and of course i get rejected since my fake ID sucks (i snapped my fake ID later that night) Suddenly, one of the girls i've been writing to on tinder asks me if i'm in town, we arrange to meet up that night.

Suddenly another girl that i'd been writing with earlier but dropped writing with me because i couldn't play the alpha cards properly; Starts writing to me. I cut it clear "I'm meeting with another tindermatch in 15 minutes" my phone runs dry, i go fuck the other tindermatch, i got home, charged my phone and to my surprise i was added by second tindergirl on facebook who literally just asked me to fuck her in the ass...

I thank you RP, and the community too, confidence and cockyness is the best wingman a man can have.

Title	Monday Field Report Thread 10/27/14
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Date	October 28, 2014 12:37 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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