Monday Field Report Thread

Enphuego · 2014-08-04T19:19:09+00:00

My wife last week hops up top in bed and pulls out a move she claimed to be unable to master for years.

When asked: she knew how to do it but didn't for 3 years because I'd ask her to do it.

I almost facepalmed. Mental response: Really bitch? You are going to not do something I like in bed for years just because your too lazy to get on top and do some work? Why would you even admit to that? Now that some dread is on the table, what was off limits before is suddenly fair game? What else is she holding back?

Actual reaction: I just moved past it. If she's going to keep on verbally expressing the unfiltered truth, I'm not going to discourage it by freaking out.

In another interaction, a female friend of mine gave me some "You're a bad friend" shit test. Didn't even ask why. Later she volunteers that she's mad since I liked her ex-boyfriend's status. I tell her "I'll like whatever the hell I want on Facebook. Who gives a shit anyways?" I've haven't seen her light up that much in ages. Sparkles in her eyes and everything.

Fuck TRP for actually working.

LukeMooney · 2014-08-05T08:08:16+00:00

Hmm I have had an extremely interesting 2-3 months spinning 5 different plates. Summarised as follows.

Yoga girl - orbits me massively since I dumped her about a year ago. Fucked her with sunglasses on - both loved it and she said I looked like "a pimp". She has become more and more submissive sexually and demanded more and more dominance from me.

French Woman - asked me out so I would bang her again. We got in to an argument about how different genders are generally better suited to different occupations (she's an engineer). When she continually refused to drop the subject, I said that I was leaving. She STFU instantly. Told her to put her heels on once I got her naked, complied.

Horny Girl - have only ever been sexual with her, made all our interactions much simpler. When I decided to drop her a couple days ago, all she texted me was "fair enough, delete the photos"

Eastern European Girl definitely the most questionable behaviour from myself and she is bat shit crazy. Asked me if I was sleeping with other people, "yes, I don't feel bad, it's not going to change, and if you can't handle that, you can't be part of my life" - shit tests for about 10 minutes, she tried everything, including tears, I held firm, then, she gave me a BJ whilst whispering "I love you so much".

Big BooBs - kind of sick of her already, have definitely acted inappropriately by exhibiting boy friend type behaviours, and funny enough that has made me dislike her, need to re-direct the relationship towards sex. Might give the tits one more ride then next her for good.

Overall, maintaining 5 women has been remarkably easy. The less you care the easier it is in terms of your own conscience. I have tried to be upfront but its not always possible. Have had multiple rejections and have multiple "new leads" - abundance mentality makes both easier to handle and generate.

Other side effects, nearly all women seem to be able to smell the sex on me. Some have tried to shame me, but a bit of flirting soon clears that up. Have also discussed a variety of different red pill truths with both men and women. Strangely, now that I'm over the anger phase the reception is 95% agreement.

Occasionally find myself dreaming about a house, 3 kids and a permanent woman. Don't know why. Now I've got women covered, career seems to be hitting my frontal lobe hard. Answering stuff in askTRP has made me a lot more congruent and aware of my own behaviour. Feel like I could be on the verge of breaking through to a new phase.

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-08-05T00:28:55+00:00

A couple of quick stories confirming TRP.

Talking shit and sinking beers with my newly married mates. Out of no where, I put on a confused and philosophical face and ask, "Hey, do you reckon that girls encourage their partners to let themselves go so that there is less risk of them wandering off?".

The reaction I got was priceless, their eyes lit up and they sat up, "Yeah man, definitely".

I follow it up with, "But then they end up finding you less attractive themselves, hey?". "Fucken 100% mate, look at this, she did this to me" shaking his gut around. We then spend the next 5 minutes talking about the betafication of men. I made sure I dropped no TRP terms but was great talking openly with my mates about this stuff as usually I would never bring up TRP content with them.

Another one...

Having coffee with some other mates. One of them gets quiet and asks us if we can keep something between us, "My ex-gf from quite a few years ago has started texting me, she's married with kids (so is he) but she is getting mildly flirty."

"Mate, that is trouble waiting to happen, have you told your wife?"

"Yeah of course. The thing is, that was a week ago and this past week she has been all over me. I can't keep up in the bedroom"

I very almost burst out, "Dread game!" but held my tongue. Instead I went with, "Of course mate, no one can make you look more attractive to your partner than you talking to another girl who is interested in you."

Some of the other guys said something about getting girls to start messaging them so they could have sex with their wives. I tried very tactfully to point out that this guy regularly hits the gym, has a great body and has a number of successful projects running outside his regular job. These other guys are BP to the max, have let themselves go and get consistently walked all over in their relationship.

TL;DR Even if you don't know what TRP is... Betafication exists. Dread game works.

namasgo · 2014-08-04T20:27:33+00:00

New account but not new to the TRP. I'm a reformed beta bux, finding my natural alpha ways. I'm in my early 30's so I'm starting to hit my stride right now. Thank you TRP!!! Got a great job, I'm fit and ripped. I'm out being social and meeting women. This weekend had to be the most bizarre one yet.

Out Saturday night with my wingman. I talk to this cute girl, super nice and warm hipster HB7...however she's bisexual. So I'm definitely intrigued. However I come to find out she's there with her partner, a full blown lesbian HB5 that is the "alpha" in their relationship. Now this will be interesting...

I already see the matrix. HB5 is the beta bux, also a lesbian will never ever be a true alpha male. The beta bux lesbian HB5 is qualifying and is really annoying the whole time. HB5 makes a point to tell us that she takes HB7 on these trips all the time. Still the HB7 is all over me, saying how ripped and strong I look. HB7 is fit as well and does cross fit. HB7 has a nice ass. Kino increases with HB7 and the HB5 partner is powerless to see this all go down. HB5 hates me now. I don't care.

I escalate, grab ass and end up making out with the HB7 in front of the HB5 beta. My wingman is being such a good sport and entertaining the HB5 the whole time. I've done the same for him , so we trade off entertaining the ug's.

Literally, I tried to pull the HB7 but the HB5 was such a obstacle it wasn't worth. I ended up getting her # and leaving. After my wingman and I leave the bar. We were laughing the whole time. It was so odd what went down. My wingman told me the HB5 was hurt when she saw HB7 making out with me. The HB5 butch lesbian even asked my wingman if he'd make out with her. LMFAO!

The TRP is holds true with lesbian relationships. In this instance the HB5 was such a beta bucks. And given her anatomical make up she would never ever be an alpha male. I was alpha in the whole interaction and HB7 ate up like gravy. She wanted it bad too. It's probably been a long time she's ever felt the presence of real masculine energy. I honestly wanted to fuck the lesbian out of the HB7 make her straight again.

whoops_fap · 2014-08-05T17:29:28+00:00

Kicked out LTR after nearly decade together. Couldn't have done it without TRP.

BetterToBeFeared · 2014-08-04T19:45:17+00:00

Had an interesting one this weekend. Was with a girl and we got it on multiple times - four times in a 12 hour span. She cooked me dinner and then wanted to go at it again.

Everything started fine, but I guess my battle-worn semi chaffed shaft and completely drained balls went into shutdown mode while I was switching up positions. Well shit. As soon as she realized this she instantly got frustrated and buried her face in the pillow like an upset child.

Ok time to keep frame and handle this situation.

Got out of bed, slapped her ass, and said "welp, I guess my little guy needs a quick break after the 4 amazing sex sessions we've had." Kept an asshole smile on my face and walked out of the room. Proceeded to watch TV without giving a fuck. Later she came out and started doing the dishes - not saying much and keeping the mood awkward. No prob, I'll just laugh at the funny shit on TV like its a normal day. She eventually comes over and sits on my lap and laugh at the TV with me.

30 minutes later shes got her hands down my pants.

15 minutes later I'm giving her super dominant sex to make her forget about the previous session.

Now shes texting me mid day talking about how badly she wants me again.

Blankworry · 2014-08-04T20:26:55+00:00

I blacked out for the first time in a looong time this weekend. My buddy had a house warming party and I drank a little bit too much vodka. Other than hiding my phone to where I can't find it now, I had a really interesting experience with one of my plates.

We left for the bar at like 3ish, at least that I what I was told. We get to the bar and the only thing I remember is seeing one of my plates.

When I wake up the next morning, I'm with another girl and I can't find my phone.

I get home and wonder to myself why I didn't go home with my plate.

I get home and my buddy has sent me this picture on FB.

http://i.imgur.com/LKDi38y.jpg

Uh oh.

Apparently the woman who I'm grinding my ass against was married. From what I was told, I was making out with the girl and was dancing with her in the corner when my buddy turned around and snapped this photo.

I also have a nasty message from my plate telling me I'm disgusting. I guess when I walked in the bar, I didn't even say "Hi" I just gave her a wink and walked on. The second time I went up and said "Hello" and I met her friends. The last time she saw me was with this girl. Thing is, she wasn't really mad, she was just jealous that it wasn't her I was dancing with.

btw I didn't go home with the married girl. went home with another.

tldr; blacked out, ran into a plate, ignored her, lost my phone, woke up with another girl.

TI69 · 2014-08-05T02:42:27+00:00

Weekend Field Report:

Friday Night: Went out to downtown with a solid wingman. I join my friend at his table, one of his friends come by we make some chit chat and she asks for my number to see some pictures of my work. ;)

We ran into social circles, which (in my opinion) slowed down our game. I introduced my wingman to one of my horny friends and encourage the makeout. He encountered 0 resistance, and then decided not to pull.

I made made 3-5 approaches with lukewarm responses. Not on top of my game. Even approached a pregnant woman, as my wingman pointed out. Need to remember to stare at girls bodies more. Oops (why was she at a bar?) Ran out of sets at the bar we were at so we headed out.

Switched to campus bars, approached one set and was a little aggressive/condescending. Polarized the girls hard. I was pretty stiff and was making a bunch of small talk asking about school and stuff. I got a little turned on when the girl shouted "I'm not doing a fucking masters." She was visibly annoyed. Wingman ended the set and we went down to another bar, straight to the dancefloor. Danced by ourselves for a few minutes. I noticed a few possible sets. I waiting to get into a decent state where I was enjoying the music. I grabbed a girl's hand and spun her. Danced with her for a bit, my wing danced with the other. He was progressing pretty fast, and my girl started to pull her friend away. I twirled my girl some more to try to distract her. She asked for my name, so I got a little closer and she pulled back so I pulled away. Wingman is getting pretty intimate with his girl, my girl cock blocks again, someone's boyfriend shows up. I grab the hand of another girl from a different set (group of 3). One of her favorite son's is playing and she's mouthing off the words and I act out the lyrics in a dramatic fashion with her. I get a little sexual, touching her body and getting really close to her face but then pulling back. I guide her hand to stroke my face and chest. Then more acting out the song. After the song ends I walk away to tie my shoe. Then I come back and dance the last song with her before the bar closes.

She complains that the bars closed too early. Until that night I had never brought a girl home from a bar that I met the same night. I suggested after party. My wing and the three girls walk to my house. I forgot my housekeys in the car, they hung out on my porch while I jogged to the car and drove back. What a good wing. The girls were being loud and they were not necessarily all that attractive so I was somewhat annoyed. My wing kept his cool, and I brought down the mood. The girl I danced with was sending out big IOIs and DTF signals. She kept talking about sexual things, she talked about a guy kissing her eye and I asked her if she would ever let a guy lick her eyeball, what if it was the only thing that got him hard etc etc. She challenged me to lick her eyeball so I grabbed her face and started makin gout with her. Then one of her friends started throwing up in my bathroom. :( I drove everyone home shortly after that. I was tired and on the fence about fucking the girl. In hindsight shouldn't of hesitated. She was heavier than I like, but the face was cute enough. She left town Sunday morning and logistics were bad Saturday. Learned a lot about logistics, good practice escalating, pulling.

Saturday: Riding bike to the gym I see a girl sunbathing. I stop by and chat her up, it goes surprisingly well. I ask her what she's up to that night and she agrees to meet me for a drink. Texted her around 6pm and she responded immediately. She ended up flaking later that night. It annoyed me.

Later that afternoon I had a tinder date set up. Get to date location, girl disappears form match list. Note to self: get the girl's number when you're meeting up. At least it saved me an hour of my time. I'd rather get instant rejected and not go on a date, then spend time with someone that's not interested.

Saturday night was a bit disappointed after two flakes. Bad state. Went out to the bars and chattedwith a bunch of random mixed groups. Did not see many sets, but I did approach a few. Campustown was very empty, and so was downtown. I enjoyed the company of my male friends in downtown.

Hit up some numbers that were in my phone today, and setup dates for tomorrow/wed. One of the girls lost interest after a first date last march. My SMV has gone up, and she ran into me and gave tons of IOIs so I hit her up. Going over to a diff girls place to watch a movie now. Peace.

wildchild11 · 2014-08-04T17:25:35+00:00

A week ago, I ran into a HB7 that I knew a couple years ago. Just saw her in a restaurant, exchanged pleasantries, and went my way. I had some preselection due to my being her superior when we knew each other previously. The day after we see each other, she messages me asking to hang out. Told her that would be fun, but I'm busy the rest of the week. She gives me her number and tells me to hit her up whenever I'm free. Things come up during the week, I forget. Finally she messages me again "Hey you never hit me up :(".

Me: I haven't had a free moment all week. Trust me, I haven't forgotten about you.

HB: Ok I just thought you forgot about me. Are we going to hang out soon?

At this point, I say fuck it and dive in.

Me: I don't want to hang out. I want to fuck.

HB: Omg chill

Me: I am chill. But I also know what I want. If you want the same thing let me know.

HB: I know well I want that too...

I fucked up later when I saw her at the same restaurant and didn't handle the situation correctly. But that's the first time being that direct has worked.

Science_isthenewcool · 2014-08-05T00:18:28+00:00

Ok this isn't a conventional FR, but it is a sex conquest/achievement/personal best that I thought I'd share, as it may be interesting and informative for those amongst you who take their sex/fucking seriously as a skill, and this is also a brag obviously. If anyone else does this already let me know, I consider myself quite skilled in the bedroom arts but for some reason I've never done this before or really heard of others doing this.

Previous best was giving my partner 4 orgasms in one fuck, new PB = 8. This may be too much detail, but as a medical research scientist I prefer to include too much rather than too little info for ease of replication.

2 orgasms from foreplay (1- from rubbing the clit, then approx. 2-3 min break, dirty talk/light touching etc. and 2nd- from oral, no fingers) 2 from fucking (3rd- was her on her side with one leg bent up, 4th- she was on her back, legs closer together on my shoulders but bent back towards her)

15 min after the 4th, I was still going strong and not close to coming (I'm lucky), so it was time for some lube, as I reached for it I had a sudden impulse to go down on her to help the natural lubrication along again, 5th- oral+fingers rubbing g-spot simultaneously = massive orgasm, 6th - only about 1-2 min later I'm playing/caressing her clit and pussy gently just lightly rubbing my fingers over it gently and talking to her about how amazingly long and hard she'd cum, how fucking hot it was and how I'm about to fuck the shit out of her and she starts getting clearly aroused again and is super wet so I increase the pressure substantially and about 1 min later, another orgasm from rubbing clit alone. Dirty talk is the shit.

Then I lube up and continue fucking as originally intended (lube because better safe than sorry), 7th- doggy style ridiculously hard pounding, 8th- me on top with 2 pillows under her butt, legs spread wide and slow but hard rhythm, with slight pause at the deepest point of the stroke which works for me, I think it's the pressure on the tip/head of my dick or something anyway just as I'm cumming she gets her last, and biggest orgasm of the morning.

TL;DR- stopping mid fuck and reintroducing foreplay allowed me to set a new record in terms of eliciting orgasms in a single fuck. Have done this before for face fucking etc. but only for 1-2 min then back at it, this time was different, deliberate and longer- expressly for more foreplay. I can recommend.

TurnDownForWhat · 2014-08-04T18:34:22+00:00

Dog had been sleeping with his tongue out. Snap chatted it to a girl with tag line imagine that tongue between your legs.... I had a good chuckle but it fell on deaf ears apparently. Shame.

wiseprogressivethink · 2014-08-05T02:04:21+00:00

Got drunk Sunday afternoon.

Decided to look at CL casual encounters.

Found ad from 23/f looking to 420 and DTF.

Corresponded and an hour later had address and directions.

She was 3/10 IRL (compared to 6.5/10 pic), was too drunk to care.

Hit skunk weed twice, then immediately moved in for fingerbang and strongly encouraged BJ.

Mediocre head, so quickly threw her on her stomach and entered from behind.

Condom broke, didn't care, didn't stop.

She begged me not to pull out, so I didn't.

Left 25 minutes later.

Thankfully, she doesn't have my phone number or home address. She does have a (throwaway) email address. I told her my name is "Todd." (It isn't.)

Thoughts, comments?

Da3dalus42 · 2014-08-04T22:14:05+00:00

I've been subbed here for a while, but what does "HB" stand for? Hot body? Hard body? I've nailed down like 99% of the terminology except this.

thebornotaku · 2014-08-05T05:09:50+00:00

Hi everyone. My name is Mike, and you may remember a post from about three weeks ago wherein I posted from a throwaway about how I basically cuckolded myself and my girlfriend left me. I can't find the post now but I'm sure somebody can find it.

I've been hitting the gym consistiently and eating right for the past three weeks. I've lost 14lbs already. Every Friday night so far I've gone out. I've gotten much closer with my best friend (male).

I've talked to my ex off and on. It's been a mix of desperation and not giving a fuck. I want to be strong and be okay with everything but it's so hard to fall out of habits I've had for a long time.

I feel like overall I've been doing pretty well with the exception of allowing my emotions to get the best of me in my interactions with her. She told me today that a lot of it had to do with how my best friend and I acted, she said I turned in to a "pig" whenever I was with him but didn't express her concern because she didn't want to be a bad girlfriend.

At the moment earlier I was ready to abandon him to have her back. I'm weak and I accept that. But a friend of mine (who is a rapper) dropped some profound freestyle on me when I ran in to him. I didn't even have to explain what was going on and he just read me like a book. I felt a bit better after that, and then went to go work out.

I feel better now. Fuck her. If she thinks I'm immature and keeps talking about her honor and all this shit, fuck that. I've known him longer and honestly my best friend and I have a closer bond than my ex and I ever did. He has always been there for me at the drop of a hat, I wish I could have said the same for her. I just needed to vent that.

Conquests and stories. Okay. I'm focusing primarily on just working out and moving forward but I did decide to say fuck it and start putting myself out there. I'm being completely open with any females that I' meeting that I'm pretty much just looking to fool around. Maybe if they're chill enough to actually hang out but I've got enough friends for that already. This has been met surprisingly well. I met up with a girl last week and despite her complete lack of experience (she's a virgin, and it's obvious) it was still nice to feel like I had some kind of game. Within 20 minutes of meeting her in person she was making out, shortly after that I was shirtless on her bed while she was jerking me off. Unfortunately, attempts to escalate that further were met with resistance and I bailed pretty shortly after. She hasn't talked to me since (probably feels bad about the situation, or whatever I don't give a fuck).

Another woman has started talking to me. Strictly on the grounds of a sexual relationship. She's a fair bit older than me (33) but seems to know what she wants, and seems to be receptive with what I want (read: sex). So that's nice. We'll see how much that progresses.

As of now I'm not in very good shape physically which is my main concern but it's nice to know that even in the interim, I'm able to garner some interest. It should be much easier for me to be on the hunt once I shed a bunch of weight.

Johnny_Shades · 2014-08-05T05:21:52+00:00

Went to a grad party, got obliterated, smoked salvia, and then fucked the girl I smoked it with. Not very eventful but at least I got laid.

SouthwellR · 2014-08-05T16:28:36+00:00

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thefoxman88 · 2014-08-04T20:00:09+00:00

went full adventure time outside of my comfort zone with my LTR over the weekend. Got to kill three birds with one stone.

Got to play out a rape fantasy
railed a girl on her period - had to burn the rug...
location was a national park

Boundaries and safe-words, thank you TRP for giving me the tools.

TI69 · 2014-08-05T15:17:40+00:00

Friday August 1st - my 26th birthday:

Have party/pregame at my house. Shotgun beer. Shoot jäger. Go to the bars. Run into a plate. Make out with plate. Make her dance with my friends. Take her outside. She buys me a drink. I meet her friends. Ex GF is in town randomly. Haven't seen her since the breakup last year. Comes up to me. Wishes me happy b day. Starts crying. Tell her to stop. Take her outside. Plate sees me do this. Gets mad. Leaves.

Talk to ex outside. Tell her to stop crying. Say goodbye. Text plate to meet me at new bar with a drink ready. She does. Says she's mad. I say good. She follows me home.

Get to my place. Another plate is in my bed. Don't know why. Plate sees this. Gets mad. I say good. Take plate to another room. Fuck her silly. Then fuck her silly again. Pass out. Wake up. Plate is cooking me bacon. Makes me coffee. Gives me a blowjob. Then takes a cab home.

Good birthday.

Pre cursor:

Girlfriend dumped me last year. Sucked. Hit gym. Moved into the city. New job. More money. Bought a motorcycle. Switched from a Mach 3 to a double edge safety blade for shaving. Started spinning plates. Found this thing called the red pill.

SouthwellR · 2014-08-05T17:23:04+00:00

Went to a party and talked to a few people who were in a higher social group, networked a little bit, no serious traction with any females there, still had fun and raised my social value allot via social proof, I find its much harder to get with girls in high social status circles, I mean lots of their parents are millionaires, one girl i was chatting to was proper loaded - a multi millionaire, vast majority of the guys are in the 20% of the pareto principle, was good as I was hanging with 10/10 guys so that must of raised my SMV a bit by association, fun night.

LukeMooney · 2014-08-04T20:03:56+00:00

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MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-08-04T22:00:37+00:00

Met a girl off cragislist and fucked her Sat and Sunday, random but I didn't really have to do anything, just look good on my pics.

skoobled · 2014-08-05T15:16:30+00:00

First date with a tinder girl. Had been moved by her from Tuesday. Not the prettiest face but she was quirky and fun. Couple of drinks at one bar then had more beer by the river, make out, she asks if I have weed, do at my place so invite her back.

Classic LMR at my place which I busted with a few minutes freeze out. Then she leads ME to the bedroom. First bone in a while so I didn't really take too much time on her. Wasn't super long but not short either... She seemed quite happy afterwards but then opted not to stay (offered if she wanted to). She seemed a little uncomfortable on leaving.

Few messages the next day which were ok. Currently ball in her court and she's out of town for a while soon too.

Thinking I shouldn't have rushed and gone down on her first (my technique is strong), since she didn't cum from penetration.

Figure I was quite good smv for her - not so pretty but actually a great body. Sex was pretty hot but not too long although she said she was exhausted afterwards.

Any thoughts, feedback?

bbidabbong · 2014-08-05T17:03:30+00:00

Was with friend out in Berlin. Went out for bachelorette parties. I made out with 5 girls, fuck one of them, he had similar score. Numbers on all of them, one is calling me to come to her place to fuck her. Got rejected few times as well.

Girl I fucked was HB9. What to tell, one of that nights where shit works like magical, you just go around and pick bitches up.

All approaches were direct and bold, in minute from talking I was either rejected or making out.

trp_reader · 2014-08-12T10:05:45+00:00

"LTR reveals RP truths"

Newbie here, first field report.

I've been reading TRP for about a month now, and although I don't agree with everything here, some of the things I've read have become self-evident and I firmly believe to be true.

I've been in an LTR for 20 months with a great girl. She's been living with me for the past 8 months.

Since reading TRP, I've learned more about shit tests, hamstering, frame, etc., and although I have a long way to go to understand it all, I've started noticing these things in my relationship and I've started dealing with them better.

It's been an interesting week, because my LTR has revealed some real RP truths to me (which she admitted quite openly):

Being the pillar

We had a minor argument the other day and long story short, afterwards she told me, "I throw my emotions at you because I can't deal with them. I don't want you to react or be affected by them, I just want them to roll off you." (She said that, verbatim.)

Making the choices

We were in a supermarket and I told her as a reward for eating well, we would buy ice cream. She wanted a specific brand which was expensive ($10), but she was hesitant to buy it, complaining how expensive it was, etc. I just walked up to the freezer, said nothing, and put it into the basket, and walked away. She followed me with a bit of a skip in her step.

Making the choices (Part 2)

She semi-regularly has these mini-breakdowns where she gets obsessed or upset over something, and gets into a rut over it. I've noticed often this coincidences with her not eating or drinking enough. The other day she was like this while we were out shopping, so I asked her to choose from 4 very close food places where she wanted to go. This made her get even more upset, saying:

Her: "Making a choice isn't helping me right now"

Me: "Do you want me to tell you what to do?"

Her: "No."

Me: "But you can't decide for yourself?"

Her: "No."

Me: "You understand what you're saying, right?"

We both laughed and I dragged her into the nearest place, chose part of her lunch for her (I know what she likes), and she said she felt 100 times better after eating.

Passing the shit tests

Oh boy, the shit tests. I'd never even realised how this goes on quite often. There have been too many to remember (and I probably didn't even notice a few), but they happen.

The other day we were watching TV in the evening, and I teased her about something very fucking minor, to which she took offence and said I was being "patronising". She took the ice cream we were sharing (from the above story), and stopped cuddling, moving to the opposite side of our sofa. I paused for a minute, with the TV being the only noise, and simply got up and left the room. I went into my study and worked for an hour, and when she asked after about 10 minutes what I was doing, I said "I have things I'd rather be doing than deal with your shit." I continued withholding for a while after that, even in bed later, and she complained a number of times about it.

Hamstering

This is brilliant. Another behaviour we've both recognised for quite some time, only without using this name. She's fully aware she does it. Sometimes she gets into these "logic roundabouts" we call them, whereby her brain is trying to arrive at this destination in the centre of a roundabout, but it gets stuck just driving around and around and around and around and she can't get off. AKA Hamstering.

Upping my game

That's right, I have been upping my game. When we first dated, sex was amazing, and dirty. Now the sex is good, not as dirty. By a combination of maintaining frame, increasing my SMV (by taking care of myself more), and being more forward about sex (it's no longer her domain to initiate), then sex is getting dirtier again, which is just the way I like it. I'll spare the details for now!

Thanks TRP for opening my eyes to a lot of this, and I look forward to reading and understanding more.

Title	Monday Field Report Thread
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	52
Comments	77
Date	August 4, 2014 4:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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