So I have been reading TRP for a while. I mainly focused on improving myself initially. Dealt with some skin problems, gained a good amount of muscle, fixed my financials & clothing. Got a nice place in the center of town. 21 y/o college student, by the way. Inherited a cool car and some money, too.
I'm a bit of an aspie, really. I have trouble reading social cues. I have been seeing a girl for a while and yesterday, after reading Models by Mark Manson, I realized I had failed to notice so many signs.
First night we met, she was pretty touchy-feely and she got hammered as fuck. Friend told me I could fuck her that night, but she ended up puking on my couch instead. She still had a boyfriend, but that's none of my concern.
Few weeks later I spent a night in her bed. She had just split up with her boyfriend of 3 years. Whilst trying to get to the next level she said she didn't want anything right now (LMR?). Didn't dare push it any further considering I see her quite frequently and she's part of "our" group or friends.
About a month later I spent another night in her bed. She ANNOUNCED that she was taking off her bra. Me being a nice guy (beta faggot without any balls) I turned away. http://i.imgur.com/4p6uYDA.webm
Few days ago she sent me a few suggestive pics. Like 30% of the picture was unnecessary cleavage. Still didn't quite figure it out till last night.
In general she's always quite touchy with me, always laughs too loud at my jokes, always finds excuses for 1:1 time, always wants to hug me... You get what I mean. I'm sure I missed about a thousand other indicators of interest as well.
If I had been honest with my intentions, this would have never happened. Always assume attraction! Assume that they are interested. Don't be afraid to get shot down. Learn from my mistakes and don't be a fucking moron. Also, read Models by Mark Manson. It's very good and focuses on your inner game.
Please forgive any grammar fuck-ups, I'm from Germany.
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