So, you've taken TRP and have been in monk mode for a few months or a year.
Your SMV has drastically increased. You don't care about the same things you once did. In fact, you care less in general. You're beginning to see more success with women. People treat you differently.
But you're still not able to bag the most attractive women. You recognize you're just not quite there yet. Why?
Because nothing is more important than frame and yours needs work.
And maybe this isn't all your fault. Because of COVID, maybe you haven't had opportunities to practice etc etc. Well, it's your responsibility to improve it.
Let's accept this fact. There are guys with lower SMV than you drowning in pussy. How could it be?
They have a stronger frame than you.
I'm sure you know a guy. Working some shit job, not in great shape, you think to yourself, "what do they see in him?"
Let's break it down. What is his secret? Frame.
So what can you do? 4 quick things I've been thinking about.
- Have a good time. This is something I don't see discussed on here as much any more. Ever heard the song Girls Just Want To Have Fun? Well it's true. Girls want to be around alphas who are here to have a good ass time. They want to laugh and giggle and feel good emotions. Women are emotional creatures. If they're laughing and having fun they don't have a care in the world. They want the guy who's working on some business they have no possibility of understanding during the week and then lets loose on Friday night and most importantly, fucks them like there is no tomorrow. If you're having a good time and others have a good time when they're with you, they'll be attached to you like a pig in shit.
- Delusional confidence in yourself. You have flaws. You're not perfect. Nobody is more aware of that than you are. Well that guy I was talking about earlier? This one. He thinks he's fucking perfect. He thinks he's god's gift to mankind. And guess what, that confidence is attractive to a large number of women out there. And hey, it's a numbers game after all. Confidence in yourself is critical. And the key point here is, it doesn't even matter if the confidence is warranted.
- Don't let your guard down. You've gotten some IOIs and you think you're in. This is when the tests will be the strongest and the margin for error is the smallest. Don't get dragged into pissing matches from orbiters or FUFs. Remember point number 2? You're the god of your world and they're lucky to be a part of it.
- Stoicism. Nothing can derail your emotions. You've built a great life for yourself and you're just getting started. There is nothing someone can do to you to disrupt this. Women will constantly try to get an emotional rise out of you. They live for this thrill. If you give it to them they'll be satisfied and will move on to their next conquest. Make their hamster wheel spin - not the other way around.
So help yourself out, you've increased your SMV and now it's time to start acting like it.
TLDR; Frame is king.
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