We can share stories all day about how AWALT. We can rehash the same topics over and over and come to the same conclusions. Hell it wasn’t that long ago when I would say I was “unplugged”, but when I get interested in something, I study it like a madman. I’m starting to see the same recycled conversations over and over which is why I want to further discuss a topic in Rollo Tomassi’s The Rational Male – Preventative Medicine. I’ve just finished the chapter regarding Open Hypergamy.

Tomassi quotes author Sheryl Sandberg. For those who haven't read it yet:

\"When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: The bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys but do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants and equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.\"

Well it looks like Hypergamy and women's dualistic sexual strategy is out in the open and celebrated. I could not help but remember a recent post in /r/relationship_advice and really a discussion that comes up quite frequently. I'm sure you've seen them, basically the poor chump is exasperated when he finds out how many AF's his perfect little angel had before him. He doesn’t understand how this beautiful flower could have taken so much Alpha cock before settling for him, the kind heated beta chump that respects women so much, he’s actively avoided them his whole life, save for the one fat girl he \"got lucky\" with in college.

The comments in this thread are right on point with everything we’ve been learning. Not only are women telling him that if he was secure enough as a man he would accept her past indiscretions, and be comfortable knowing she ended up with him, but men are taking the same stance. \"Man up, and do the right thing!\" they proclaim.

Isn’t reddit great for reaffirming redpill beliefs, while subscribing to none of them and even openly refusing them? White Knights gonna white knight even when they’re anonymous! That’s a good boy, you’ve been trained well! Not really my point but interesting to observe none the less. My point here is…

They are no longer trying to hide it. In fact men are trained from the day they are born to embrace it, and shamed when they choose not to.

\"In a feminine centric social order, even men are required to be strong advocates for open Hypergamy, and ultimately their own proactive cuckoldry.\"

-Rollo Tomassi

When will we put it back in check? When we push back and refuse to be retroactively cuckolded, and next the CC riding plate instead of marrying her, will they not go back to try to hide their hypergamous ways? More men are refusing to get married so wouldn’t it benefit the feminist imperative to try and hide it again? Could they still hide it if they tried? If they cannot, what rationalization will be used to counter this?

Now that we actively support and celebrate open hypergamy, where is there left to go? Do you think enough men are getting “unplugged” from the false American dream to make any significant change to the system? In the past, there were things to keep it in check. What devices today can/will do that today? I may be all over the place here, I just want to keep the conversation going…