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Prefect example of 'Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks'.

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Title Prefect example of 'Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks'.
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Date November 26, 2013 8:47 PM UTC
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[–][deleted] 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"Oh, shit, that's that guy I used to fuck back in college behind my boyfriends back". So then she says to her boyfriend "that guy is an asshole, what a jerk, I don't like him".

Precisely, I've seen few examples of this in a real life. If your wife/gf tells you shit about some guy who happens to be quite confident and good looking, you can bet your paycheck he fucked her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It also explains why most women freak right the fuck out if you talk about an ex. They interpret any attention you give them as the way they do when they bring up their ex's.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Dream4eva 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They project their relationships with their exes onto your relationships with yours.

[–]Costafarian 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When they speak of exes or other men and bad mouth them, it's because the recently fucked or used to fuck them.

So, with that mindset, when you (the man) speaks of an ex she projects how she thinks of exes or past flings onto you. This makes her upset/jealous/suspicious.

Despite the fact that you probably just wanted to bring the ex up.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, past gf used to talk about her roommate a lot, i never even met the guy. She seemed an innocent good girl.

He was disrespectful to women apparently, she talked about this a few times. She was fucking him.

Changed my view of women forever.

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If its a guy from her past, and she badmouths him, then she likely fucked/blew him.

I'd go so far as to say that if she's even talking about a guy she knew a decade ago, it's because he was more than just a friend.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 43 points44 points45 points 12 years ago* (26 children) | Copy Link

These poor husbands. Jesus Christ...

The details of the situation have killed me. Him playing playstation on the couch or watching football while she made him feel good is something I know but wish I didn't now.

And he can't do nothing with that cheating whore but divorcing which will cost him tons along with half of his shit and lifetime alimony. Equality.

Yep, perfect AFBB example. Guy getting blown while he is playing on playstation (alpha as fuck...) by a girl with a bf, that she later marries, and that guy was his roommate... Poor beta, she clearly loved and respected him. She ended up marrying him, not the popular guy, so he is the winner, he got her? :)

And a reminder, the more you fuck the more attractive you are.

So we attended the get together last month and she was hanging out with him for a good amount of time, like old friends.

I actually would take a bet that she blew or fucked him on the reunion. Dirty skank doesn't even have the decency to stay away from him. I'm sure she would tell us she loves her husband very much.

And one more thing. We are taking her word that it was "2 blowjobs". It was only 2 blowjobs if alpha wanted it to be only 2 blowjobs, I don't think she would say no to him when he went for her pussy while she was already blowing him. "No, no sex, I have a boyfriend..., oh why am I saying you this, you know him..". Beta husband believed her because he is beta. It was far more than that.

[–]qtyapa 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

And he can't do nothing with that cheating whore but divorcing which will cost him tons along with half of his shit and lifetime alimony. Equality.

What happens if he spent it all away, like going on a world tour in first class and taking a low paying job deliberately lowering his lifestyle so alimony also gets reduced and then he initiates the divorce? Atleast, he enjoyed his hard earned money and that slut doesn't get to "blow" his earnings away.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

What happens if he spent it all away, like going on a world tour in first class and taking a low paying job deliberately lowering his lifestyle so alimony also gets reduced and then he initiates the divorce? Atleast, he enjoyed his hard earned money and that slut doesn't get to "blow" his earnings away.

He then can't afford a lawyer and goes in debt. She takes everything. If he changes job for a better one the wife calls her lawyer, which he is paying for, and alimony will be increased.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

I don't know much about international law but if there is no some kind of a deal between USA and said country then he is fine. Obviously, he will have to skip the country, otherwise he will be thrown in the jail for not paying the alimony.

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[–]vox_veritas 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

That's not how alimony works. The hypothetical $50k in the bank is part of the marital property settlement, not alimony.

Alimony's intent is to allow the supported spouse to maintain the same lifestyle he/she had during the marriage. It's usually based on the earning capacity of the two spouses. As with child support, you can't intentionally take a lower-paying job to lower your child support payments, just like a parent receiving child support can't intentionally take a lower-paying job (or not work at all) in order to increase the payments they receive.

Also, it should be noted that in many US states, if you prove alimony, it is an absolute bar to alimony for the adulterous spouse.

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[–]vox_veritas 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That's certainly possible, I guess. But, I'd tell you what I'd do if I were the woman's lawyer and wanted to make a push for alimony. I'd dig into old financial records and show the type of lifestyle that they had lived in the past. What matters in both alimony and child support is what the spouse is capable of earning, not what they actually are. If you are voluntarily underemployed or voluntarily unemployed, a court will impute income to you at the level that you are reasonably capable of earning. The reasoning behind this makes sense, but I see it being exploited in my practice all the time.

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[–]vengefully_yours1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They don't give a fuck. Child support is worse, but it goes away after they are19. They will take everything you earn and give it to her. You make more, they take more. You make less and fall behind, you have your credit ruined and you go to jail. The only way it can go down is she and you agree to lower it, and then a judge has to OK it. So even if she is willing to lower her income from you, a judge can ignore it or increase it at his discretion.

Never get married. Ever, not for any reason.

[–]vox_veritas1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not quite. The operative word is voluntarily under- or unemployed. The classic example is a doctor making $500k a year who, in an effort to avoid a high child support/alimony payment, quits his medical practice and gets a job working at McDonald's. A court cannot literally force you to work a different job, but for purposes of calculating alimony or child support, they will impute income to you at a level you can reasonably earn. That is completely different than being laid off or not being able to perform the same kind of work that led to your previously high income. To use the doctor example again, suppose the doctor was a surgeon and he sustained a hand injury that severely diminished his dexterity or steadiness in his hand. He certainly couldn't be a practicing surgeon anymore. That's not voluntary unemployment.

To avoid being found in contempt for not paying court-ordered child support or alimony, the usual defense is that you simply cannot pay the money. Because to be held in contempt, it must be intentional, if you can show that you are not intentionally violating the order (i.e. you literally do not have enough money or income to do it), then you've established your defense. I'll be honest, though. It's very hard to do that. I've succeeded with it in my practice, but the sad part is that it takes a lot of time, planning, and thoroughness to successfully bring that defense. That equates to having to pay me a lot of money.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Most states don't give a shit if she was a working prositute, fucking guys in the house he is paying for, she will still get whatever she wants. States like South Carolina will bar her from alimony, but Michigan and Nebraska reward her for being a worthless cum dumpster if she wants to be one.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love having had a vasectomy.

[–]vox_veritas 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Michigan and Nebraska reward her for being a worthless cum dumpster if she wants to be one.

What do you mean by that?

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They reward women despite them doing everything wrong in a marriage. She can be abusive, on drugs, cheat, steal, and whatever she likes, and she will get everything and anything she asks for in a divorce.

[–]vox_veritas1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Have any examples of this?

[–]vengefully_yours1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yes, damn near any divorce there. Its not like my experience was unique, it was run of the mill. The woman gets rewarded for anything short of murder.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I understand. Only judge will look at his earnings and will ask where the fuck is 250k? He lost it in casino, doesn't matter, then the wife gets 25k or more, but the amount of alimony is based on what he earns.

Money leave trace, unless you laundry it your bank will give any info her lawyer wants.

Get a prenup, it's still safer.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some states don't give a shit about a prenup either, you marry her you are fucked for as long as she is alive.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 73 points74 points75 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Yet another sterling example of what's wrong with women nowadays. These stories are almost getting old.

"What's the big deal if I gave some guy a blowjob, while you and I were dating in college, and while we were seriously talking about marriage? That was years ago, and I still decided to stick with you and marry you, so you're lucky, right?"

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 48 points49 points50 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Tell me about it. I get a little pissed just reading it.

"So what if I cheated on you and you're just finding out now, years later, after taking the irreversible step of marrying me? It was years ago! You're not going to destroy our years of marriage over some tiny little mistake I made years ago, and your own bruised ego, are you?"

("Oh yeah, and you know how I never give you blowjobs because I think they're disgusting? What I really meant was that I never give YOU blowjobs because I think you're disgusting and I'm not attracted to you the way I was attracted to the guy I cheated with years ago.")

("Oh yeah, and you know how I was talking with that guy just last week? Well, I kind of made another little mistake while you were at work making the money I live off of, but don't be mad because it wasn't a blowjob this time, just sex. And I totally do that with you! Once a month so you don't divorce me and keep supporting me. So he's not getting anything you don't. In fact, he gets sex less often than you, so it's like I'm choosing you anyway.")

("Oh yeah. And I'm pregnant and it's [probably, maybe] yours!")

[–]BIG_Daddy_Government 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

adding "you aren't being jealous now are you? you aren't being so insecure now are you? Grow up and don't judge me will you?"

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What? If this guy has any dignity at all he would throw all her shit out and change the locks no matter how amazing his marriage could have been.

Also, I really doubt his wife is that great, she is probably the only ass he could get so like an idiot he put a ring on it.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]WasteAmez2 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Subtle.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless they have the world's most amazing marriage

That would be impossible, because the price she's demanding for the continuation of that marriage is his integrity.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, and also it was your worst enemy, who I swore to you I hated as a way of getting close to you and building your trust. And also I blew him while he played video games and watched football but I never blow you.

Why can't you just get some counseling and get over it?

[–]the_red_scimitar 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Entitlement and hamstering.

[–]relgnam 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So this exact same thing happened with me & my Ex-wife... I flat out said to her that by her logic, if she blew a hundred different guys I'd be 100x as lucky to have her.. wouldn't I. She didn't have an answer for that and I was apparently distorting the facts...

[–]throwaway_redpill2 34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Literally 5 snapshots away from you - the exact same thing was going through my head when I read the post.

Fortunately the top comments seem mostly reasonable. The lower comments are pretty headdesk worthy though. Especially this one:

Are you really willing to totally screw up your marriage of 7 years over your own petty jealousy?

How is being upset over your partner hiding a secret slutty side and lying about it for years petty jealousy?! I don't even.

[–]RockinRhombus 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously. It's a trust issue. His entire potential future in this "marriage" is compromised. They were together, in a committed relationship, and she cheated. Plain and simple.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar 28 points29 points30 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude it's a bait and switch. He signed a lifetime contract to buy a product and then found out ten years later, it was a totally different product than what he thought he was getting. It's like you buy an expensive painting and then find out after ten years it's a fake. And they're like, "oh well, no givesies-backsies!" Fuck that.

[–]Androman300 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think all marriages are a bate and switch..I pretty sure its in the fine print of the marriage contract.

DKTC..Drop kick that cunt!

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like women who say shit like that are ones who also cheated at one point or another and rationalized with the same statement they just said

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I questioned this later and she has admitted spending time with him while we were dating in college. It turns out spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions, messing around in general on other occasions.

In other words, this guy probably gorilla fucked her a couple dozen times.

[–]seanjohn12117 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

If this doesn't convince him all women are like that nothing will. I guarantee you she would've chosen the roommate over OP if she could've gotten him to commit.

[–]TooTurnt 27 points28 points29 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

That was my favorite past. "I'm with you, not him". No shit, you were just some slut who blew him, he probably didn't give a single fuck about you. Your not with him, but that's not by choice.

[–]seanjohn12117 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Man I know it was his own fault but it just kills me to see this happen to guys. He wasted the last 10 years of his life with this ho and she can't even show him a little respect. Saddest part is he probably won't learn from this.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Second or third one he will learn, but by then he will be working three jobs and living in a van down by the river.

[–]qtyapa 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That was my favorite past. "I'm with you, not him".

What fucks me up is when she says like he should feel lucky and privileged for it.

[–]vox_veritas 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was my favorite past. "I'm with you, not him".

Response: "Yes, and that's the problem."

[–]StoicThePariah 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also a pretty good summary of "Scott Pilgrim Versus The World". The most blue pill movie I've ever seen.

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points42 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The percentage of women that I've hooked up with that had boyfriends/husbands is just... laughable. It has definitely been the majority even though I don't go looking specifically for "taken" women. Most of the time they never even told me they were in a relationship until after getting ploughed.

I've slept with a woman in her husband's bed while he was away at a work conference. I asked a recent hookup, in bed, about when she was last in a relationship and she told me "I'm in one now". This one even had the audacity to tell me, "My boyfriend begged me to skype with him back at the hostel because he had a dream I was cheating on him". Which she was.

I got head from a 32-ish year old while her boyfriend was at home taking care of her kid. I've hooked up with several old classmates from highschool when we'd see each other over the holidays. All of them in "committed" relationships, or have since married. It's fucking crazy. There was a time when I wanted nothing more than to get married, have kids, and spoil my wife. Now I can't help but ask, "What's the fucking point?"

[–]mdadm 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great. Now his options are: either to stay with this adulterous wench or to divorce her and lose half his shit and possibly his children also.

Talk about a rock and a hard place.

[–]too_long_didnt_read 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But beta qualities is what she likes! She's different from other girls!

Yeah, that's why the alpha got his cock sucked while he played playstation and the beta gets a financial dependant without any blowjobs or intimacy for himself.

All.Women.Are.The.Same. Trusting one is just stupidity, and being stupid though to marry one is fast becoming unforgivable.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All of them I know are the same, even my own mother. She lied to my dad about my older brother being his, because my dad had a better paying job than her current bf. Hilarious part is my dad had to break off a date to marry my mom.

Weren't the 1960s wonderful?

[–]Pointless_Endeavors 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions

Yeah, I'm sure it ended there. Trickle Truth.

[–]Yurwrstntmre 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She didn't like him until once she, you know, met him .. and started sucking on his dick and getting pounded by him.. then yeah, she was cool with him.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Beta guy hates the Alpha dude because he is basically jealous. Back when I was bp I hated these dudes too, but now I say "what's he doing to get success, can I do the same?". Haters gonna hate.

Also hilarious was him saying "she yet seemed unlike the other girls around me. "

[–]semigod__ 34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

i dont think its jealousy. he was jealous that this guy could get pussy so easy, but getting HIS pussy is not jealousy.

i think subconsciously even the biggest bluepill beta knows that you trade exclusive commitment for exclusive sex. so when you see that others get exactly the same pussy (our mouth) for free that you yourself have to pay so much for - this is what kills you. you realize that the price you paid for what you received was way too high.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And when you find out they actually got an even BETTER product for free (in this case blowjobs), well...

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He hates him because what he works hard for is offered up easily to him, and it's probably not in his power to meaningfully change that. He can hit the gym and learn game, but this super charming, rich, hung alpha will always effortlessly have more and better.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sucks to be one of the two anal cocks. Wonder if the guys whispered to each other "no homo"

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

many porn actors are gay for pay, fucking men in the ass, so im not surprised they dont mind their dicks touching another dick while being inside a woman. i would assume its a no biggy for them.

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If I was at a sex party and the double anal thing came up, I wouldn't care at all if I rubbed another cock. It in no way makes you gay. Free sex is free sex, and it's not like the other cock will haunt you forever and tempt you to turn gay.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Logistics of double anal single vag are interesting when you have to fit a camera angle in it.

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

A large woman can take all of it, but not one who is sized for porn. Three dicks over 6" in circumference won't fit, hell most women can't take one that thick anally, so size matters. The thing that makes my mind curious isn't the dicks anyway, its where all the legs and faces end up.

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[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not that hard. The vag guy lays down and she rides, the other come from behind and don't require a whole lot of contortion. And it's worth it because for the rest of her life, no cock with please her.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't see it as him being jealous of the guy. I see it as him being lied to his whole life about how to treat a lady and his room mate broke all of those rules and still got women. He realizes that somehow everything he knows is wrong and the whole system is broken. Yet in that broken system he sees someone breaking all the rules (that he has played by his whole life) and succeeding.

[–]Pointless_Endeavors 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

she yet seemed unlike the other girls around me.

My eye roll could have sent the earth off it axis.

[–]Senior Contributorwhiskey_bearfist 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

what strikes me the most is how much of this guy's life is wrapped up in jealousy and anger directed towards his roommate. and that was before he found out the dudes dick has been inside the same mouth that will kiss his children to sleep.

the alpha dude probably has no idea this guy was ever upset with him.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly, I'm pretty sure the alpha likes him because he seems like a good, decent guy. That whole "When you get a girl, she better suck your cock every day because you're going to treat her so damn good" thing isn't something you say to someone you don't like.

[–]puaSenator 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd also put my money on the "alpha" dude being a cool guy that is nice and fun to be around. I mean, everyone seems to like him after all. I feel like OP just has resentment because he wants to be that guy everyone likes that gets to fuck women all the time. He's turning his jealousy into anger.

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He probably read the post and thought, "They got married?! Oh shit, I mean...I just assumed...wow I read that situation wrong. Oops."

[–]jmikolash 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Women are whores, why is anyone surprised? So are men. How many monogamy failure stories is it going to take before we as a culture get over this shit?

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The only gender punished for being a whore is a man. Divorce-rape usually goes only one way.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because all other sex and expectations of sex, as well as looking at or thinking about women is rape.

[–]McDoogleSnatch 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's disheartening to think that an unintentional consequence of the Feminist/Pro-slut movement is that it instills a deep distrust of women. How can a man be willing to sacrifice his life for a woman in a culture in which it is deemed powerful and empowering to sleep with any man who gets her wet? I know, this is redundant in this sub, but damn. I'm still wrapping my head around it all.

[–]Pornography_saves_li 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This might help: look at old, basis-forming Feminism and note the stated goals of 'deconstructing' (destroying) the Nucular(?) Family. Then note today's anti-male pro-lesbian Feminism, and draw an inference. Add in the Marxist Daddy Government shit, a healthy dollop of Margaret Sanger-style Eugenics (also a stated goal of 'radical' Feminism, now known as 'common wisdom') and you can see that this destruction of the Family is not only NOT an accident, but it is only part of a much larger goal. Being a white male myself, I'm paying particular attention to the way Feminists dehumanize white males, given the impending Police State the USA is...

[–]TRPinitiate 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is why marriage makes me feel uneasy. I'm pretty sure the vast majority of women have something like this in their background (it's tragic to think that a woman who doesn't isn't the norm anymore, but I digress). Do I want to gamble against those odds?

EDIT: And that's solely what she's admitted to. Willing to bet, as others have said, it was probably more than just BJs.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Even if she is a virgin, has never touched a cock before yours, she will do something like that while she is with you. Then she will lie about it, make you out to be an overly jealous controlling asshole that wants to limit her freedom when you discover it.

All women are like that.

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And then dump you at a bar, pour a drink on your head, then scream and have the white knights kill you. Or call the cops and report you for DV and take your house and kids. Ain't dating fun?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Feel sorry for the guy. This stuff breaks my heart, hes probably a good man- i hope he finds the backbone to leave her.

Women will always understate what theyve done wrong, much like when a child knows theyve been bold and are caught. Bjs in this case is almost definitely actually sex and two times will probably be at least a half dozen.

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[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just like her N

[–]Tastysalad101 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I would bet money that she fucked that guy after the reunion.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well she is entitled to fuck him again, gurlpowar!!!!!

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, during. That's where my money is. I'll also double down on her not being the only one.

[–]yself 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jim Croce Operator

She's living in LA with my best old ex-friend Ray.

A guy she said she new well and sometimes hated.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Learned from my first wife: If she doesnt like some guy that all the women swoon over, she fucked him or sucked his dick. If my ex said 'that guy is an asshole' or 'I don't like that guy' it means she fucked him and he dumped her. Its woman code for the guy using them as a warm moist place to jack off.

[–]a1004 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The real problem is not the cheating, but her attitude of "is not a big deal".

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bottom line, if you're getting married in this century you're going to run into a dude she's sucked off. So what I'm saying is, don't get married.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sound advice, sadly.

[–]Costafarian 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've noticed this a lot recently.

The arrogance of women really shows when they feel it's okay to cheat on someone before marrying them and then go:

"Yeah, I did that, but now I married you You're the one who wins! You get my pussy exclusively now! :D"

Implying that she's the prize to be won, despite the fact that she just gave that "prize" a way to some dude for free.

Not to mention, she's probably telling him he wins because she knows that she wins more by being married to a provider who will put up with her bullshit.

What have we learned: Women think they are they prize to be won, no matter what horrid, immoral crap they put you through. Because they have the pussy, and they think they make the rules.

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Smart men don't, deluded men still believe. They are deluded because it hasn't happened to them, and believe it won't. Their wife is probably already fucking some kid in the neighborhood, or a random dude she met online or at a job function.

[–]StoicThePariah 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I moved out before the end of the year because I got tired of having to share space with yet another of his one night stands 4-5 times a week.

God I know that feeling. Nothing worse than a one night stand who now thinks she's the queen of your apartment because she got some alpha cock. So you spend the morning waiting for her to leave and hoping she doesn't rob you like girls tend to do at frat parties.

It turns out spending time with him also meant having oral sex with him on two occasions

Holy shit, I did not see that coming. I assumed he was just going to tell a story of feeling jealous at the way she warmed up to the guy. I wonder why she even admitted that.

That she was blowing him too when I to this day have to beg for that just kills me.

Cringe

[–]ihavespellingproblem 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn.. This story brings up my shitty dark side in me. Her confession is like a fuck around ticket! I would either offer divorce or open relationship on my side while she cleans the house, knits scarves and keeps her mouth shut and prays each night I don't kick her out.

[–]Laughing_Jelly_Bean -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the linked post is probably a troll. Many of the comments talk about how mad they get reading the post. I think that was OP's intent.

Troll.

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