So a few months ago I was asked if I was Red Pill by a co-worker. I didn't realize that I was under I stumbled upon this reddit forum.

Perhaps I'm not fully Red Pill from the story I will share with you. But I believe that it could partially serve your cause.

Let's just say I work within a division of the government Agency that deals with Enforcement with Drugs. A problematic statistic that we've seen as an aftermath of drugs in this country are the high amount of foster children and common historical connection with the prosecuted dealers have with being in the system itself.

It doesn't take a genius to realize that at least half of these kids in the system are more-or-less in a waiting room to go back to the field of work their parents were in.

The majority of foster parents in the area I work in are single mothers. 5% college degree, 20% little college & 75% no college.

The elephant in the room is that even though there are right intentions, most of these women aren't capable of handling a child let alone a child that's gone through what their birth parents put them through.

Low IQ, high emotions, complex personalities with little-to-no-help is often the pattern we see. Kids get over-medicated, undisciplined, over-sensitized into believing they're best asset is to be a victim, etc.

So various men from our office decided to adopt kids on our own. This isn't so much of a "I need to have a child to have a complete life" way. But in the fact that these kids have gone to too many mothers who only became foster parents because they needed a kid & didn't care about the long list that came with being a parent.

Granted, I am a high IQ person & at the right age and physical shape to do everything needed.

But being a single father is not as hard as single mothers make their lives out to be. I'm up to date with all of the kids appointments. They respect me because I respect them.
No hitting. No yelling. Just learning.

One of the best lessons I had with my first son & daughter was that I wouldn't come to them right away when they would cry. Most of these kids are programmed to use shit-games , and deprogramming them early has made their lives much easier.

They each see a psychologist provided by the state and they explained to me that my kids development is night & day compared to many of the single-mom raised kids in our area. The majority of them get diagnosed with ADD , ADHD, and bipolar - but my kids are pretty normal (despite each having biological & psychological issues coming in).

I have 4 kids with 2 more on the way this fall. They don't get in trouble. They have interests unique to their skills and personality. Not having a mom or female role model hasn't been an issue. My two girls were in Parent Teacher conferences last semester and praised for the fact that they don't tolerate gossip at the lunch table.

When we have meet ups with other foster parents my boys are the least rowdy , least medicated of the bunch.

I constantly get "you must be so tired" , but because I created a system where emotion isn't used as an unnecessary tool and power games aren't in play - you can accomplish a lot and still have time for yourself (I'm caught up on Silicon Valley & Game of Thrones , play fantasy football , etc)

Anyways, I respect your right to your free time. But I wish I had an effective way to reach other men to explain the power they have as single parents.