EDIT 1: IDGAF if some of you are offended with my usage of the term faggot. I'm willing to bet it struck a bit of self-conscious chord with some readers of this sub. I don't care.
EDIT 2: Bringing up this topic has been interesting....I can see the ranks splitting between the men who agree with me about wanting to raise good daughters and the other men who seem to enjoy the "easy mode" that today's fucked up women afford an RP man in the SMP and almost seem to want more of them. The point of TRP is that things today are NOT OK with both men and women. We both have our basic natures that will never change, but we don't live in the fucking jungle. We had societies where these things were kept in check and resulted in strong families and productive, honorable civilizations that are now coming apart at the seams. Some of us want to return to that....even if it only happens in my family. I'm not going to raise sluts any more than I'm going to raise beta bux. There were a surprising number of responses criticizing my desire to be an alpha dad and advocating Blue Pill fatherhood. Fuck that.
Relative newbie here who has been around long enough to see major changes in myself as a man, my LTR, and how women act around me (they love me all of a sudden...)
As many men do, I think TRP is fantastic and all....it makes the "confusing" social realm make loads of sense and demystifies women almost completely. It has improved our lives and upped our happiness by freeing ourselves from Chump World and its insanely bad deal.
But, like many of us, I'd love to have kids one day....daughters in particular. Doesn't almost every guy want to have his own little girls? But AWALT and the understanding of hypergamy (coupled with our knowledge of how few "good" men will interest our little girls) casts a shadow over that potential future. While we all want to be alpha, few of us love the idea of our daughters being pumped and dumped by Chad Thundercock and crew. If there's any sense of normal dad-ness in you, you kinda want to wreck that guy. So what gives? Do we just tell little Stephanie and Ella to resist their normal programming?
Thankfully, it is fairly well known that girls raised by good dads actually don't jump on the cock carousel. They are the decent girls that we all look for...virgins in their 20's who aren't mental cases and are actually people we want to spend the rest of our lives enjoying time with, raising kids with, and fucking each other senseless.
Now, its no mystery that girls with absent fathers are generally whores...."daddy issues" is a societal meme. Most people know, even if they don't admit it, that a girl with no "good dad" is probably going to be pretty easy to lay by saying "hi" or offering some weed. BUT, most of us have also known girls with just fine dads who will do the same thing. To any thinking man who wants kids, this presents a bit of an issue......Even if I'm a "good dad", how do I know my daughters will be one one of the good girls instead of one of the campus cum sluts?
This question crossed my mind tonight as I made the semi-nightly red meat and dark beer run (not kidding). I knew, as a man, that some guys deemed "alpha" by women are really useless Justin Bieber level boy toys. Others run corporations or build skyscrapers and don't take shit, work hard, and drown in pussy. I could see two categories of alphas in front of me...ones I would want my little girl to kick in the nuts and one I want them to be attracted to. I also saw how some girls with "good dads" generally weren't swayed by a pimped Mazda and gold earrings (barf) but waited for a guy with his shit together. How does this all work???
Suddenly the pieces fell into place and the entire situation made complete sense.
Girls with a "good dad" can either have alpha dads or beta dads. Just because Dad is home and goes to their dance recitals doesn't mean he's an alpha. Some girls watch their dads lead the home, tease them (and mom), love them, care for them, don't take shit, and be a MAN. Others have dads who grovel before mom, sit in front of the TV, want to be their girlfriends, and generally pander to anyone with a vagina. From experience....the former were the true "good girls" and the latter were the ones who acted no differently from the daddy-issue sluts.
When a girl grows up with a true alpha dad, she not only learns that "a man" is confident, doesn't take shit, doesn't get talked back to, and doesn't care what women think of him, he also has ambition, has other high quality men in his life, does useful things in his spare time, provides for his family, cares for his wife and daughters, makes men out of his sons, and teases/plays with/protects his wife and daughters. In short...he's not just "alpha" in the sexual sense....he's also mature.
When a girl grows up with a beta dad, she learns that a man is really just a woman with a penis and a passion for watching sports. He's spineless, weak, unambitious, and really just a source of an allowance, free rides, and really anything she asks for in a whiny tone of voice. When she goes out and meets Chad Thundercock and his arrogant swagger, she nearly dehydrates through her crotch from her first exposure to anything remotely manly and life as a CC cum slut has begun...only to end by a slam into the wall and a desperate search for a beta bux to settle down with.
In short....telling our daughters to avoid Chad Thundercock and wait for a real man and expecting her to do so is about as effective as telling our teen boys to be smart with girls and not expect them to chase every whore who's willing to spread her legs and slime up his dick.
So what ties this all together?
The key is being an alpha dad....growing up with an alpha dad wires a girl to inherently create two categories of confident, "alpha" men......true Alphas....and FAGGOTS. We as men know the difference....we're disgusted by wanna-be men with orange skin, jewelry, and import cars who drown in pussy but don't know the first thing about being a true man. Being a real man for your daughters gives her hypergamous nature the one thing most women lack.....the ability to add "immaturity" to the list of beta characteristics that turn her off. Most women today DON'T have this mental switch. CEO Donald Draper and Chad Thundercock with his spray tan, muscles, and Domino's job make her relatively equally aroused. The girl who grew up with a mature, alpha dad has her Justin Bieber alarm tripped by Chad who, despite his swagger and IDGAF attitude, looks like a little boy to her just as insecure and worthless as a Beta Bux....except worse, because he doesn't have a real job.
Hopefully I hammered out something that made some kind of sense....but I think it finally clicked to me how a dad raises his daughters to be the kind of women we, as real men, would want to marry. We model TRUE ALPHA behavior as mature, confident men. When immature faggots approach our girls, they'll feel about as attracted to them as we do...and no amount of turbo whine or bulging veins will make them any more tingly. They will know a Real Man when they meet one because they grew up with one. Anyone less is just beta or omega to them.
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