Are women more empathetic than men?

Yes, but there’s a catch. A woman is selectively empathetic. She cares deeply about those within her ‘circle of intimacy’. Those outside her circle are mostly invisible. She will feel some level of empathy for any member of the sisterhood, but the average guy doesn't exist on her radar.

Women are the judge of a man’s value; they decide if he’s a HVM. If he qualifies, he’ll have their respect and admiration. They'll listen to him, empathize with him, learn from him, be on her best behavior for him. He enters that inner circle where he is treated much differently than outsiders.

In this podcast, Michael Sartain claims, "Genuine desire is what contextually makes a man higher value."

Guys underestimate the importance of game (seductive power). A guy doesn’t require a player’s skillset, but he does need to qualify as ‘lover material’ in a woman’s eyes. Looks, fame, game, frame all contribute in qualifying as a lover. Rollo describes it as “money, muscle and game”.

When a woman desires a guy, he qualifies as a HVM worthy of her respect, admiration, attention, empathy, femininity, etc.

When she doesn’t feel that desire, a guy has a longer path and/or a higher standard to proving his worthiness as a HVM, he needs to bring a lot more to the table (wealth, lifestyle, character, leadership) to compensate for her lack of desire.

In this video, Zuby demonstrates admirable qualities. He isn’t in a seductive setting where game would come into play (though to some extent, game is always in play). Notice how attuned the attractive woman adjacent to him remains throughout.

A woman’s ‘desire’ response can be a shortcut to a man qualifying as higher value. Traits that evoke desire (looks, fame, game, frame) exaggerate value in a woman’s eyes the same way hotness exaggerates value in a man’s eyes.

Women latch onto broke bad boys while rejecting solid guys with weak game. Why? Desire. This is the ‘broken picker’ phenomenon where a woman makes questionable choices in men. Her desire leads her astray, attributing exaggerated value to the men who give her the tingles.

The other issue with a ‘broken picker’ is that a woman can gradually become a tingle chaser. If the guy she’s with isn’t doing it for her anymore, she’ll be out looking for a new source of tingles and all the drama and chaos that comes with it. One bad relationship becomes a string of them. Normal relationships become boring to the point she feels trapped in a cage.

Do these points have validity in your experience?