Shit Tests As An Ejection Button From A Relationship

MCFiletMignon · 2019-06-15T19:22:12+00:00

She sounds like a drag that does not see you as the Man in the relationship.

Is she worth the endless hassle? Why not kick her ass to the curb?

KaptajnKLO · 2019-06-16T09:04:04+00:00

I think it's funny reading the people who say that this is too minor to be shittests or it's not an issue in their mind. Sure, if you don't mind being corrected like a child, go for it. But there are also men who can't stand even the minor stuff if the women keep doing it. If we don't want to put up with shit like that, then we don't need to. Doesn't mean we are pussies lol, what a stupid thing to say. Everybody has preferences in partners and some people just don't mesh well.

MattyAnon · 2019-06-16T13:54:47+00:00

Like I said, they're all shit tests I easily passed, and have passed before

Yes, but shit tests like this are indicative of her thinking.... both about the relationship, her expectations, and how you fit into it. Which basically means some combination of "you're a beta" or "I can make you a beta".

She lets me know that she's a Strong Independent Wimmins [corrected that for ya] and that's why she does these things

Yeah, this is the nail in the coffin. You've stated your requirements, if she comes back with this sort of feminist denial bullshit it's time to walk.

Lesson: Shit tests are given to determine if you're man enough for her.

Well, they perform many purposes. In this case it's a simultaneous "are you man enough" as well as "if not be a beta for me".

DwightWolftail · 2019-06-16T06:20:33+00:00

Most people here call you extreme and that this shit's minor etc. I don't think the dog hair is a shit test, as I find it really disgusting too. Also with the children but that's my morals speaking. I also wasn't there, to get the whole picture.

But to be honest, I hate this shit. I'm in an LTR with a submissive girl for the last 6 years. She NEVER shit tests and worships me. I can not even imagine having feelings for a girl that shit tests all the time. I simply wouldn't be able to like her. Maybe I'm spoiled. But if a girl continued to shit test me after the first week, I would fucking eject too. Some bitches are unstable or control freaks

I don't have time for women that need to test me all the time.

CaptainKidd96 · 2019-06-16T09:41:49+00:00

Lol at the guys in the comment section saying that they find the behavior tolerable. Do you guys like being ”put in your place” like when you were 12 and mommy/grandma would act all passive aggressive about something you did wrong?

Why would you put up with a 50 something year old woman trying to dictate how you should talk around kids, how you should say please for a BJ (Probably down the road she would ve made you beg for sex), and act all passive aggressive about the dog hair in the car. And after all of that she texts OP the next day saying that they should schedule a date to ”talk about it” and that he should sit out the event he was invited to. Seriously wtf? Can you imagine how this bitch would act after a few more months?

monsieurhire2 · 2019-06-15T20:44:11+00:00

This shit is relatively minor.

You are both in your mid-fifties. It's not like she's going to trap you with a kid. She could give you an STD though.

At this stage in the game, it's mostly about personal preferences. If you are dating someone her age, and as you said, you don't give a fuck about kids, you can either keep he around, or find someone more to your liking.

It's funny how the tables turn as women age. She's the one with the scarcity mentality now, and you're the one who as abundance mentality derived from not giving a shit.

If you had scarcity mentality, you would have hand-wave all her idiosyncrasies as the cost of doing business, but because you are ambivalent, they are actually potential deal-breakers to you.

I mean, quibbling about whether you say please before she blows you.... lol... you're getting a blow job. Maybe you should ask her to say, "Please, let me suck your dick, master." I think that it's helpful to remember to keep it light and look at it as a game. Even if you are the dominant partner, it can be counterproductive to shove it in the submissive partner's face, because many people are raised to be "rugged individuals..." just like their friends, and so it hurts their pride, or creates an inner conflict. Also, from her perspective, she's doing a favor by blowing you, because she's not getting any pleasure from it.... she's doing it to get your dick hard so you will fuck her with it. If you make it more unpleasant than it already is, you create aversion to the task. Would you like it if she peremptorily ordered you to eat her pussy, and then shoved it in your face and pushed your head into it, when you WEREN'T necessarily in the mood yet, but she wasn't aware of that because she was only thinking of her own selfish desire to get her pussy eaten?

Some "food" for thought.

mo_v · 2019-06-16T13:11:53+00:00

I dont understand why a woman in her fifties would still be shit testing she should be lucky to even be with someone.

SeasonedRP · 2019-06-15T19:43:33+00:00

The only thing strong independent women need is a dominant man. I have a feeling she'll be chasing you after you eject.

darthsmokey · 2019-06-16T10:46:40+00:00

Im the last one as someone in my early 30s to give advice to someone who has more experience in life than me. But as someone in his mid 50s, and relativly well established i assume, isnt it better for you to just date younger women? I mean if i was in your shoes i would go for 25-30s.

uptimex · 2019-06-16T14:38:58+00:00

MBTI judgemental type. I'd soft next her but let her come back. She won't have another choice and will come back eventually (this strong independent woman). After 3rd or 4rth time she will be like a puppy, if you have patience for that kind a game.

Imperator_Red · 2019-06-17T00:42:40+00:00

Why do I need a pretense to eject from a relationship? I can leave anytime I feel like it, no explanation required. Fucking stupid post.

unkg · 2019-06-25T02:42:38+00:00

You are just like me; you take no bullshit, be it big or minor. Do not listen to the other faggots who let girls get away with shitty behaivior for some pussy. You are a man who knows what he wants, his own worth and won't settle. If a girl is bringing you more headache than pleasure, give her the boot. Some people like you and me won't even tolerate the things others classify as "petty" or "minor". There is nothing wrong with that, it's up to you to decide.

Sciptr · 2019-06-15T19:34:03+00:00

Ab the please thing. Can you explain that, as I’m not sure how you handled it. I’ve been running into it recently and I am starting to get tired of it.

botferrero · 2019-06-15T23:51:32+00:00

I totally disagree as IMO habits are super important. If you have a habit of passing shit tests already then don’t change it.

buttgoogler · 2019-06-16T12:22:30+00:00

Oh my oh my, those shit-tests my man.

teveza11 · 2019-06-16T13:26:47+00:00

Pretty minor stuff.

She could easily make a post complaining about little things about you that bother her.

But at the same time, you are CORRECT in not letting her behavior escalate.

Her little things she say can blow out of control and ruin a relationship if she dates a simp who doesn't stop her.

BigJohnnyCockRamPHD · 2019-06-16T20:29:24+00:00

All of you are pussies man seriously. I have nothing negative to say about the red pill doctrines because it’s premises are fundamentally true but the people that come here and post and comment are seriously off base and about as far from alpha as you can possibly be. Who the fuxk needs to come to the Internet to learn how to be a man and get pussy? You are what you are player and you can fake it till you make it all you want but you’re either a real alpha male or you aren’t at the end of the day. I never comment here, although I do in asktrp and I give posters Actual actionable advice that works in the real world vs you guys who circle jerk and parrot these teachings but aren’t really out there living a real authentic life and doing it for real. I just come here occasionally to get a laugh when i see how out of touch with reality most of you spergtards are. Now in regards to this poster, he’s a man in his 50s dating washed up 50 year old women not even 40s or late 30s because he can’t pull any actual high quality tail probably because his SMV is low as fuck. He’s coming here to make a post about how shit tests are a good excuse to walk away when if he was a real high value man and these things bothered him he would just walk away whether or not he had other options (which he prbably doesn’t due to his low smv). In terms of everything this guy has described, these aren’t even shit tests and he’s over thinking and over analyzing everything and he just sounds like an irritable moronic dickhead who’s takin his faux alpha spiel to the extreme and letting little things bother him that shouldn’t. And on top of that coming here to make a post about it to gain validation from other lost souls like some attention seeking tinder Whore who needs validations from others to justify his thoughts feelings and actions. Then as I go through the comments everybody who echoes the same sentiments as me that these aren’t even shit tests and OP is overreacting is getting downvoted to oblivion which shows the mentality of the rest of you weaklings while the real authentic ones of us out there see it for what it is. Basically just a bunch of sheeple and the blind leading the blind which is the exact antithesis of the red pill. I understand most redditors are internet nerds and need guidance on how to become more Masculine but the best lessons are what life will teach you and what you can discover on your own to learn and grow because that’s what makes a real man and that what helps define what an “alpha” is. Your heroes are frauds and 97% of the people here who comment here are lost, (“endorsed contributors” included) and are a bunch of soft, weak, individuals who have never been through any sort of trial by fire to become a true alpha male or some sort of semblance of it. Y’all aint out here fucking these actual 6-7-8-9s ( my scale is a lot diffeeent than yours, my 6s are what you consider 9s but that’s a different post for a different time), y’all ain’t out here living real, authentic lives and being true to yourselves, y’all aint out here going against the grain and not giving a fuck about what others or society thinks internet and real life. The real recognize real and y’all look real unfamiliar. You guys traded in one form of seeking acceptance and validation in society (beta) for another yet you can’t see it because it’s wrapped up in the shroud of red pill masculinity. You’re just seeking the same things from your peers here when if you actually met them in real life you would probably be highly disappointed when you see how they really are in real life smh. Now In terms of you guys out there that are about to be like who is he to question us and what we do and who we are. I’m really doing this for real, I’m really that chad, I really have that physique, I’m really that top 5-10% male. I have all the attributes I’m just not rich or wealthy but I have a good professional career and do well for myself. In terms of the red pill, I probably do more for your cause than any of you do and I do it by just being myself and speaking the truth unabashedly regardless of the consequences. Go through my comment history, see who you’re dealing with, see how many downvoted I get for every comment I make on reddit. See how I don’t give a fuxk, see how I’m the same way in real life and not just the internet because I really just don’t care. Ok. Now you guys can start the downvotes, and your endorsed contributors overlord gods can ban me or whatever the case. This is my first comment here anyway and will probably be the last. Be true to yourself and seek and stand for the truth always. Good luck.

BobbyPeru · 2019-06-17T05:30:26+00:00

TBH, her actions might be asking you to kill the puppy

I mean, If you told her you dumped another chick for telling sad animal stories and she does out of her way to tell you sad animal stories? Just saying.... it’s possible you are her puppet playing right into her plan to get dumped because she doesn’t want to be the bad guy. Either way, might be time like you said. I just wanted to give you a potential other angle for future chicks

[deleted] · 2019-06-17T16:38:07+00:00

I don’t even know what a concern troll is, I just speak the truth as I see it. But In the future will do as far as formatting. It’s just weird because I tried that before and it created this weird grey text box in the final version.

HonestPainting · 2019-06-19T14:20:52+00:00

Shit tests are obnoxious in your 20s. I'd laugh in the face of any adult woman tossing that my way

trueliberal1 · 2019-07-05T17:03:01+00:00

When I was young, I used to hate shit tests. Today I realize they are a good sign. A woman does not shit test a man she's not interested in. A shit test means your already winning, and they are easy to pass by simply not caring. Maintain that aloof and in control frame and you'll pass shit tests naturally. Internalize that frame. Make it part of who you are.

bouncypoo · 2019-08-14T23:28:28+00:00

eh, most of that stuff is nothing serious. I would just ignore her, change the subject. Simple... sounds like you are falling into her frame by even being affected. My point being that if she is all that but does these little annoying things a "Real man" wouldn't have to say a word and she would get the hint.

Consistent_Size · 2019-06-15T20:09:50+00:00

You sound unnecessarily aggro. Could you change your style? Hostility is not the same as successfully passing shit tests.

no_delay1 · 2019-06-15T20:06:10+00:00

I think you handled well.. To even up the red pill factor, I wouldn't explain to her even what she did wrong. She knows it already anyways. Just soft next that weekend and a few more days. This will magically correct the behavior. Hard next if you feel like it.

No need to discuss these things.

Illiaan · 2019-06-16T05:08:32+00:00

Either you’re sick of her shit or you aren’t fun.

“Is your dog coming with us?”

“No, but if I gather all the hair in here I just might have enough to make another one”

“Don’t swear in front of the kids!”

“I’m teaching them good manners”

“Say please before I zuck ya stick”

Slap her with it.

[deleted] · 2019-06-16T00:38:00+00:00

Sounds like you have issues bro. This is super minor like really super minor!

AAThrowaway5 · 2019-06-16T01:30:42+00:00

Those little things don't even register as shit tests to me... Damn man.

youcantdenythat · 2019-06-16T15:39:16+00:00

If you're unhappy just fucking end it. Why purposely fail shit tests. Seems a little weak, borderline passive aggressive.

Captain_Dark_Fox · 2019-06-15T23:05:18+00:00

Why the fuck do you need a “perfect ejection button”? If you don’t like how she’s behaving, don’t spend time around her. You don’t need an excuse to cling to if you don’t like how she acts. You’re being a giant pussy about this.

Title	Shit Tests As An Ejection Button From A Relationship
Author	_do_not_read_this_
Upvotes	102
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Date	June 15, 2019 7:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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