The Attractive Guy Next Door

skittles_man · 2017-07-03T15:45:55+00:00

"Give me 10 minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the Queen of France"

-Voltaire

clme · 2017-07-03T06:10:58+00:00

I think your observations forgot a distinctly boyish subtype of beauty exemplified by Brandon Flynn in 13 Reasons Why, Daren Kagasoff, and the younger version of Gaspard Ulliel. In the 16-28 year range, this cute-but-boyish look drives the girls crazy and no amount of lifting can fix the problem (all three examples are beardless, thin, not muscled).

Brandon Flynn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8vhgIyFqx8

Daren Kagasoff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrr5rylIVYg

Gaspard Ulliel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Amta5qpAl0M

Rznk138 · Mon Jul 3 11:36:02 2017 UTC

I'd say the #1 feature among those dudes is an attractive face.

185poundsofhatredWIP · 2017-07-03T12:23:55+00:00

But are you attractive now, knowing about all this?

Blacklabellogics · 2017-07-03T18:21:36+00:00

There is low hanging fruit, and then there is medium and high hanging fruit.

Most men can afford a gym membership, or even if they can't there are plenty of body-weight programs, that are a great start.

Most men can afford to switch from a diet high in processed/fast food, that is high in calories and low in nutrient value to a diet high in real food that is lower in calories and much higher in nutrient value.

Most men are going to get haircuts, so you may as well make sure you get one that looks good on you.

Most men are going to be buying clothes, may as well spend some extra time to make sure they fit you, and don't look like you raided a frathouse for your wardrobe.

This is all low-hanging fruit, and while results won't be instant, that will teach you delayed gratification and the self-discipline to stick with something long-term despite not seeing many if any results.

The reality is that most men aren't going to the gym, they are not working out at all.

Most men are eating a diet high in calories and low in nutrients.

Most men are getting the same haircut now that they did 10 years ago, unless they went bald.

Most men are buying the same nondescript, ill-fitting, poorly put together clothes that most other men are wearing.

Most men are flailing around the sexual market place without putting any thought into what they are doing, as they wait to catch a falling knife in her epiphany phase or post-wall so they can LTR her up and get divorced 3 - 7 years later, after she made sure she had a 1 - 3 kid ransom against his paycheck for 18 years or more.

Don't be most men, and at least go after the low-hanging fruit. If you decide that after learning game, getting in as good as shape as you can by working out and eating right, buying clothes that fit you and getting a haircut that suits you, that you really want to fix those teeth, get plastic surgery, or whatever else, go ahead.

Getting plastic surgery or other expensive measures before handling the low-hanging fruit, is like putting a new paint job on a car without an engine.

stumje · 2017-07-03T05:58:34+00:00

i think your forgetting their energy and presence, one the most attractive male traits is man in tune with his masculine energy which strength and power.

ComfortablyNumbin281 · 2017-07-03T14:56:15+00:00

I disagree that not ripped is ideal or even that 15% with a good jawline is adequate.

The ONLY time I have been attractive enough (and was a Chad at that time) to have high Smv girls approach me out of the blue with insane shit tests (i.e.: are you gay? Omg your so hot etc) was when I was very low body fat %. Not like 1%, but definitely well below 15%.

Lifting and eating well is the #1 factor to give you a chance.

If you have obvious defects from birth that hurt you, ya try surgery.

Otherwise just keep in mind life isn't fair. I am a Fuken endomorph so I have to starve the shit out of myself and the difference is stark. And while we are complaining about that shit, I had friends who were shot or blown up and died in Afghanistan in their early 20s. Shit, one of them has no legs and a barely working arm and he married a hot nurse, and I'm happy for him. Hopefully he found a unicorn and awalt does not show its ugly face.

I can go from not getting a second look from any girl around at 20%, to being full on approached by girls EVERYWhere at below 10%. It's transformative to get cut. Part of that is probably my attitude when I KNOW I am cut, but part of it is also the fact I am lucky with all my genes minus my endomorph build, but you must play to your advantages. Thus I eat little and do insane amounts of cardio.

You could maybe go for the badass biker style, idk. Try getting buff and not making excuses and see how it works out for you.

Also underrated, is the importance of becoming big in a social circle. Try that and make fwbs etc that way.

I am currently probably a bit below 15% and starting to get attention again. I will be cut again soon in a month or two and I will make a big post in trp about the differences.

iamneptuno · 2017-07-03T15:05:52+00:00

Too much emphasis is put to style and muscles on this sub. The thing is, when you are attractive, it shows immediately, almost to the point where your bloody haircut doesn't even matter.

Unread_insane · 2017-07-03T14:08:43+00:00

Have you ever considered that girls are just people and different girls like different guys? I mean it's all fun and games making up this theories but you can't realy think that there is a "hundert procent sucess method". How about finding someone you like and finding out if they like you to?

HiDefFX · 2017-07-03T16:28:49+00:00

that 80% of men don’t lift at all

That's depressing, is that specifically for weight training or exercise in general?

aherne18 · 2017-07-03T19:27:47+00:00

Being attractive, like others have already mentioned, equates in having an attractive face.

An attractive face is a combination of masculine features (well-shaped jaw, deep set hunter eyes), low body fat (so those features become visible).

An attractive body also has its own contribution when face is attractive already: low body fat is a must, v-shaped torso is good, muscular or lean constitution (according to personal preference). Notice I don't mention race or height (commonly found excuses by men who don't want to admit they are unattractive): anyone who has those features will be wanted above any other consideration!

invizibl · 2017-07-03T19:51:16+00:00

Use that list as a way to craft "your"self - don't chase after another's image, using your items as boundries.

Some say you should be ripped, well to me if a woman has decided to fuck you without seeing your shirt off, then she's already decided to fuck you by the time it's taken off. Unless you have Krag the brain in your belly then you should be well on the way down her love tunnel. Just be in "great" shape, portray and active and happy masculine lifestyle - you won't be looked like some less than chump becuse you lack a 8-pack under your shirt.

Now get out there, and get tatted up - No Regerts

RandomActOfGayness · 2017-07-03T21:06:40+00:00

Ugh. To spend so much time on this shit is ludicrous and slightly gay.

scepticferret · 2017-07-03T21:09:57+00:00

You just described me to a tee. But I've been getting nothing because I had no idea what trp was and had serious oneitis. This could go good for me.

MisterRoid · 2017-07-03T13:22:43+00:00

Being ripped is not as important as some guys seem to think. The most important part is to have a good jawline, and most guys don't need to get below 15% bodyfat for that (if someone does, he should just get a liposuction).

ComfortablyNumbin281 · 2017-07-03T16:11:33+00:00

There is too much hampstering in here.

More fit is better unless it somehow NEGATIVELY affects your confidence.

Saying "you don't need to be X fit just be at least y.." is flawed logic.

We are in a rat race with other males doing these things. Every advantage you can get is going to make your life better. Just accept that, and move out to make yourself stronger, smarter, and sexier.

I can go from hb2-3 to hb10 and no one could even recognize me. People make too many assumptions about "chads" or good looking guys they see. Some of them have figured it out but just don't know what the redpill is..I was that way for a long time.

It was super depressing when I got depressed and fat to see my prospects dwindle.

Then I got over it, improved myself, and it all came back. It's that easy.

TheCeilingisGreen · 2017-07-03T18:50:37+00:00

Its weird though because I was never considered attractive right off the bat where I grew up. I did ok with women but that was because I displayed red pill behaviors before there was such a thing. Now I live out west and it took me a long time to realize that women out here are intimidated by me and if I give a chick who is acting like a bitch a little approval they usually do 360 and bend over backwards for me. To the point its absurd. Idk what the change is? I think its a mixture of having an east coast persona and the kindness I show offsets that (its like they expect rejection and being talked down to and are suprised when they get the opposite.) combined with the fact that I look like a light skin mexican dude and that makes me look like a native here or get the benefits/burden of another social group rather than the one I'm accustomed too. The point of this rant is that location/social expectations/the natives cultures ideal person is just as important as self work.

Title	The Attractive Guy Next Door
Author	binarynightmare
Upvotes	23
Comments	64
Date	July 3, 2017 5:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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