The dinner date

zealanderx · 2018-06-23T02:05:04+00:00

How many women have you really dated that live alone like your posts suggests?

Most single 20 something year old women have roommates, by an overwhelming majority.

MrGreySD · 2018-06-23T15:27:14+00:00

Depends. If it's a girl that obviously likes you and you've built a bit of a connection with - then yes absolutely. I like the post.

If it's a random daygame/street/tinder number with a 7+/decent SMV... nope. No chance. High SMV girls do not allow strangers to their homes and then cook meals for them. May be different in different cultures but even in the US I seriously doubt it.

1564001 · 2018-06-23T15:18:17+00:00

When wearing a suit, a pocket square goes in the pocket. If you want to wear a flower, it goes in the button-hole of the left lapel, hence the name "boutonnière".

knowledgelover94 · 2018-06-23T02:40:34+00:00

I will have dinner at your place and you can cook for me.>

Do women really say yes to that?

SpaceEnthusiast · 2018-06-23T04:24:48+00:00

I'm sorry dude but this sounds like something you made up while half-asleep this morning. The only way I see this working for you is if the girl already really really likes you. Which is then a moot point and boils down to the good old

Be (really) attractive
Don't be unattractive

You can pretty much do anything with a girl that likes you so much that she would have you over for dinner at her place right away. You can probably invite her for a drink to a venue near your place, have one beer and go home with her. Much simpler and easier on logistics.

Ok what about a girl who agrees on dinner at her place after some back and forth? That's still the same girl, but with some shit tests thrown in the mix. She already likes you a lot.

My version of a good dinner date:

Go to a relatively cheap place near your house
Sit next to each other on a couch/booth, arm around her
Some banter, some kino, some kissing
When the bill comes, just split it right away if she takes out her wallet. If not, say "Mind if we split it?" and then split the bill.
Go home together and fuck of course.

Emwolf4 · 2018-06-23T09:24:45+00:00

This is too one sided. So all you have to do is show up? This doesn't sound like red pill to me, it sounds like you are trying to be one of the entitled women that you complain about. You expect someone to cater to you, you just show up, you take. You write, 'fuck her good'. How can you do this? Someone as selfish as you probably isn't a very good lover. You write that YOU are the prize; that sound very entitled. Isn't that the entitled mindset, the one that the red pill philosophy criticizes entitled women of having? So you just want to switch places then? Once women expected men to cater to them and now you want to be the, as you put it, using your own words, the 'bitch'. Just my opinions.

onikage9 · 2018-06-24T00:01:17+00:00

Thats badass! I will try it!

DCrane09 · Sat Jun 23 3:55:41 2018 UTC

Rotflmao bitches can’t cook!

max_peenor · 2018-06-23T03:27:46+00:00

Eat her food, drink her wine, fuck her good.

Yay sexual revolution and women's liberation! You'll buy me dinner and then spread your legs? Shit, we should have done this centuries ago.

In the 90s/00s corporate world there were a lot of women workmates that would propose dinner outings. They would insist on paying. I found it weird. Now I understand. They were told they needed to be like men, so they'd follow the script they witnessed. A solid majority of these birds weren't even looking for sex. This was how they were asserting their new freedom. Yeah? Let's go for sushi. Thanks toots.

Even when it wasn't about sex, I was getting something out of it.

Though interestingly enough, there was Jim. Guy had some serious weight and hygiene issues, but he was a competent technical manager. I liked him, but yeah--kinda icky. He never seemed to be be asked out on these paid-for, platonic outings...

SirKolbath · 2018-06-23T01:54:48+00:00

One comment that I am certain someone is going to make is how to overcome the inevitable ASD when she replies, "You can't come over! I don't even know you!"

This can be diffused by either replying that "This is how you're going to get to know me," or by a simple agree and amplify. "I hope you're not a serial killer, then!" Which also adds in an element of pressure flip.

I have, of late, come to the inescapable conclusion that when a girl gives you her contact information she has already decided she is going to fuck you. She is merely waiting for you to take the lead and determine when, where, and how. If she was not interested in fucking you, you would not get the time of day out of her.

The only question remaining is how to handle a situation where the girl has a roommate or set of roommates.

RedSkeller · 2018-06-24T20:02:02+00:00

Both 'dinner' and 'dates' are completely missing from my vernacular. No one 'dates' any more, no one wants to use any vague words of commitment. Sure the names changed but the game did too and the bar is so dam low it's scraping the devil's skull. Show up, wine is optional, be the biggest leech of resources to her and she'll love you for it. May the best man win.

VanSeslas · 2018-06-29T06:05:30+00:00

The fact that so many people are in disbelief that what you wrote actually works ( without even going out there and trying it out just as an experiment) really makes me question what this sub is turning into.

latelaranadecarlota · 2018-07-04T10:23:00+00:00

I don’t understand why I see so much on here about not paying for dates. Every single woman I take out I pay for everything. I’m not wealthy and I don’t see it as a waste of money. I enjoy going on a nice dates and seeing the best restaurants in my city. It’s part of being in the scene. I would feel so cheesy taking out some woman and then split the check or whatever. I buy what I please and if she is with me she can enjoy my material comforts. It’s not like I’m getting taken advantage of. I get to show off my pretty girl and then fuck her if I choose. If I thought a woman was only seeing me or trying to use me for a free meal or drinks, it would be her last time. Being a man and paying for shit is why we are obsessed with powerful careers and big salaries. Stop acting like high school kids who are broke delivering pizza and can’t afford to take out a date and bitching about “oh I’m not going to let a plate waste my money”.

AceMav21 · 2018-06-23T05:52:52+00:00

Just buy her some red wine and you’re guaranteed pussy.

Mysterious_Thing · 2018-06-24T03:23:59+00:00

The dinner date has had a red pill makeover

You're acting as if "red pill" is a modern invention and something your generation made up. The 50's and 60's was the time of red pill, little boy.

NeverLace · 2018-06-23T16:24:22+00:00

Your categorizing and breakdowns made it an easy and fun read.

ryuamakusa1993 · 2018-06-24T05:59:37+00:00

I'm going to test it out. 88Will88, do you have any field reports with this approach? (Be it successful or not)

Title	The dinner date
Author	88Will88
Upvotes	15
Comments	103
Date	June 23, 2018 1:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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