The MGTOW-unless approach

The method of navigating the sexual marketplace most commonly advocated for on TRP is what I call Fuck-bitches. Fuck-bitches cultivates the development of traits conducive to obtaining sex in the form of one-night-stands and plates. It's a hedonism-heavy approach that avoids the complicated risks of long term relationships but it also neglects the opportunity to pair-bond deeply with an emotionally-invested female companion.

The biggest problem with the fuck-bitches approach is that it exposes the often high-quality men that can adopt it to a lifestyle of regular interaction with psychologically low-quality females, interactions which slowly taint the man's mind and moral fortitude with shit-tests, idiotic comments, and unwholesome personal energy.

The more promiscuous a woman is, the more unpleasant and undeveloped her mind is likely to be. A promiscuous woman is generally uninspiring company and reduces the value of humanity as a whole as seen in the man who is spending his time with her.

If you are a virgin or have only slept with a handful of women, I recommend the Fuck-bitches lifestyle to you at this time. A man should cultivate the attributes necessary to bed many women: looks, frame, humor, etc. You have to win at the sex game before understanding it and graduating beyond it. Sleeping with lots of women helps a man understand the true value of sex as a ego-validating social conquest and certainly as a mere physiological process, which is admittedly high while still ranking lower than the value of a reliable companion and, dare I say, love.

A rough quantitative sketch of what I mean is as follows:

• If you can't sleep with one new girl each month despite trying, you're not in the game at all. You haven't started yet. You're necessarily a beta loser. You have a lot of uphill ahead of you.

• If you can sleep with a new girl each month, you're in the game and have opportunity for growth.

• If you can sleep with one new girl each week, you're winning the game and can consider the MGTOW-unless approach.

The MGTOW-unless approach that I advocate as an end-goal for redpillers is arrived at by these cumulative sentiments:

• I'm tired of investing time and energy into securing new women and maintaining and replacing often-flaky plates.

• I'm tired of being naked in bed with a woman that I wouldn't be interested in spending non-sexual time with. The thrill is fading. Is this the best I can do?

• I'm tired of exposing my mind to idiocy and low-quality energy from the women I sleep with.

• I've kind of won at the get-sex game… what's next?

MGTOW-unless involves radically tightening one's criteria for females you spend your time and space with. To adopt this technique, a redpiller should acknowledge these uncomfortable truths:

• Meaningful romantic love exists and is enjoyable despite inherent risks.

• A committed female companion in the form of a LTR can be an advantage in many aspects of a man's life.

• 5-10 percent of women are high quality and are worthy companions for both sexual and non-sexual interaction in the form of a long term relationship. These are women who exude positive and inspiring energy, are intelligent and capable of insights one can learn from, are naturally generous and kind, have more integrity than other women, and most of all who's company is supportive to one's higher life goals and ambitions.

This approach can be described as living and existing largely outside of the modern sexual marketplace, pursuing goals and cultivating well-being independent of women, while maintaining an open door for women who can provide unique value.

The most compelling objection to this approach to dating is that it promotes a scarcity mindset and leaves one vulnerable to oneitis. While a risk, I think this is minimized by having previously achieved and graduated from the Fuck-bitches lifestyle.

Practically speaking, what I advocate is this:

• Aggressively pursue self-improvement for your own direct benefit and sense of pride.

• Meet people (including women) regularly by being socially active / proactive.

• Demonstrate frame and outcome independence and enjoy your female interactions as ends in-and-of-themselves.

• Escalate with women who seem capable of providing value to your life beyond a tight ass, pretty smile, easy blowjob, etc.

TL;DR: Don't wallow in the muck of the modern sexual marketplace. Your dick is worth more than that. Exalt self-actualization and your higher aspirations as the principal objects of your existence and only allow into your life females of a quality that will assist you in achieving said ends.