Summary
Allowing for a dynamic where you and a plate/SO/GF/wife have open fantasies about famous people you would sleep with is a shit test, beta-based and diminishes your value in her eyes.
Body What makes a woman freely express a desire for another high value man in your presence when you are clearly establishing a sexual relationship with her? she may deem you very high value but lack the boundaries you set for her, she may be used to this behaviour from other men, she may lack respect, and/or she may consider you a cuck.
We have all been there before boys; you meet a chick you like a bit more than the rest, you enjoy her company and actually listen to her when she talks...then sometime into your 'courtship' comes the bomb; "Jonah Hill is so hot, he is the hottest man alive, and I want his babies"...There may be that ensuing pang in your stomach. What do you do? This is a shit test of the highest order...
Option 1; Ignore what she said and keep eating your Cereal (zen) Option 2; Agree and take it one step further by highlighting Jonah Hill's Chiselled jawline and deep set eyes, adding that you yourself would fuck him if given half the chance (amused mastery) Option 3;Lose your cool and highlight that Matt Damon is actually not as smart as they say he is Option 4; Make a comeback with your own fantasies about Angela Merkel
If you chose any of the options above, but especially 1/2 then keep reading...Boys, we should all understand by now, the hypergamous nature of females, and the territorial nature of males. Women seek out and fantasise about the most valuable man they are exposed to ( social media has increased this exposure ten-fold), and have a harder time separating reality from fantasy, or, in the very least parsing out the limitations of their own realities. Allowing her to act this out in your presence immediately makes you a cuckold in that interaction. She is openly fantasising about a man who is not you, in front of you. option 1 is therefore not an option. Your inaction signs you up for any other cuckoldry she may concoct later on.
Men seek to expand themselves into the world as often and as much as they can. Making incursions into other men's territories is just an afterthought, or for some, a sinister pleasure...Guard your territory from Jonah.
You might be tempted to use option 4, in this interaction. But we should remind ourselves that for Alpha men, its all about variety, not one single Alpha pussy per se (at least not of the oneitis variety). Highlighting your own high value chick in the media, in this case Angela Merkel, is therefore not only a false equivalency, but co-signs her behaviour and allows her to then make future sightings of Jonah Hill now your headache. Besides, we know that her fantasy is a real urge borne of hypergamy, and yours...well, its kind of contrived. You don't really have the adult equivalent of Angela Merkel's posters on your wall. You just don't care that much. you are now playing her game; allowing her to openly bask in her hypergamy fantasy; A game she enjoys very much. Option 4 is a bad deal
It is clear that the best option here is option 2 to show how little you are affected by her impulses, however, this leaves you open for further shit tests on musings of David Hasselfhoff. If you really want to pass this shit test with flying colours,boys, calmly wait for a few minutes to pass once you hear this comment, then explain to her that chicks do love highest value dudes, and guys love variety...then proceed to fantasise about every chick you see out who you would want to fuck. This usually brings home your point swiftly, and I have found, puts a quick end to that shit test. You will never hear Jonah Hill's name again.
Summary The best way to deal with her openly hypergamy fantasies is to link her female hypergamy with male desire for variety, and freely express your own desires for every woman you find hot. This will put a stop to her cucking shit tests immediately.
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