What is going wrong in women/girls upbringing nowadays?

itwasonlythewind · 2018-02-12T20:31:02+00:00

He should have dumped her and grabbed a beer w the old guy.

Randy_Dream_Weaver · 2018-02-12T20:00:14+00:00

Women know they won't get punched in the teeth for being assholes.

pocket_rocketsin- · 2018-02-12T20:49:30+00:00

In the words of Dave Chappelle, you should’ve kicked her in the pussy

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-02-12T20:11:13+00:00

The difference between average girls and boys in today’s world is subtle. Both tend to develop without present alpha fathers to guide, addicted to dopamine hits from surface level social media, and free of true accountability until their thirties. The pressure to be a civil, righteous, responsible human being doesn’t really affect females until they hit the wall, as they are given the red carpet treatment until that time.

Thotwrecker · 2018-02-12T21:22:52+00:00

3 things -

A. Weak male leadership (weak husbands make weaker fathers to their kids)

B. Pussy pass. No one punishes them for bad behavior = they believe bad behavior is the way to get what they want.

C. Rationalization - aka as we know it, hamstering. Women (and people really) are predisposed to try to take as much credit for successes as possible, and as little responsibility for failures. I.e. If something good happens, I made it happen. If something bad happens, it's that guys fault, it's not my fault, it's sexism, it's the patriarchy, it's my husband, it's my boss, etc. I do something bad that fails, I reverse rationalize - aka I had a good reason for doing it and it failed because of you, not me.

All 3 combined means women mostly act like spoiled children who feel no responsibility for their behavior, yet feel entitled to all the benefits that would otherwise only come with hard work and talent. I.E "I want it all, but I don't want to have to become a better person to deserve it".

If this sounds like most guys, surprise surprise, it is most guys too. Best to let women continue to be "victims of their own circumstances" and not worry about it - trust me I lived in LA, I have lived in Shanghai, I have seen bitchiness on a grand multicultural scale, I've seen truly terrible women.

Just learn how to identify them and avoid putting yourself in a position where they can damage your goals. As Lil Wayne once said "hoes gon' be hoes, so I couldn't blame Tammy". My belief is you shouldn't worry about why hoes are hoes, it doesn't matter who is to blame.

LuvBeer · 2018-02-12T22:05:59+00:00

There is something wrong with their upbringing. I’m a young man (still in school) and girls my age get hundreds of likes on Instagram and validation through social media. It basically makes them feel like their the shit and then they end up acting like the woman in your post did.

It also doesn’t help that this beta couldn’t stand up for what he believed in.

red_matrix · 2018-02-13T02:31:39+00:00

Last summer I was hooking up with a girl in her early 20s (she had a boyfriend, she said they were polygamous, lol). We were people watching from a patio, and an old couple walked by, the man was very old and was walking very slow (his wife seemed pretty healthy to me) - and she blurts out to me how she thinks all old people should die, she said they didn't take enough care of their bodies when they were young and they are a waste to society and they should all be put down. She was dead serious. I told her she was an idiot. I couldn't believe she said that. That old guy could've just had a heart attack, cancer, whatever - he could be 90 years old. Millennials are selfish, I know, it's my generation, we have never known real pain or struggle - we never had to fight in foxholes, or anyone outside of a video game. We don't know what pain is - we are the saddest generation. And I see selfishness and entitlement on a massive scale.

acekilo · 2018-02-12T20:07:44+00:00

Yea he was a beta bitch man. Put them in check women come a dime a dozen. All over the world too. Shiiitttttt!!!!!!!

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-02-13T09:32:22+00:00

I sometimes wonder if all those "empowerment" articles for women did some damage...

For example, you should be proud of yourself when you achieve something. Won gold in the Olympics? Wrote a successful book? Starred in a film? Paid off your house? Raised your kids well? Be proud of yourself. This is healthy pride.

Be proud of yourself because you're a woman (or a man) ? No. And yet that's what women's magazines seemed to suggest. Just having a vagina meant you were somehow superior. They did this for decades (and still are) until women internalised it and came to believe it.

Consequences:

(a) The average woman thinks she deserves better than the average man.

(b) Women are more likely to cheat than before because they're with someone they think doesn't deserve them anyway

(c) Their self worth is too bound to their appearance. "See that guy over there who's a self made millionaire with his own business? I deserve him because I'm an 8/10 hottie. Look at me! Look how well I dress and make up! He may be successful, but I'm good looking !

(d) Women believe they are the equal to men in every way...so they will push men too far and even hit them until one day some guy has enough and hits them back and they learn the biological reality that men and women are not in fact exactly the same.

SKRedPill · 2018-02-13T03:30:49+00:00

It might be controversial or even dangerous to say this these days, but as a kid, some of my worst behaviours were stopped when dad gave me a good one. Not to hurt or injure, but enough to know that you crossed a line. Girls weren't given a free pass either. Alright, the generation before them probably went too far to traumatize kids (I've seen that too). But the whole point is this - karma teaches boundaries. If that boyfriend was sensible, he'd realized this is exactly what would be his fate too down the line.

I tell you, man can't learn to respect fire if it doesn't burn him just a little bit (not so much to cause injury, but enough to say YEEOOW!)

A foolish and paranoid society however, can't tell the difference. They've banned all physicality in punishment - so now they can't discipline their kids when they cross all boundaries. I remember an Indian couple got arrested in Scandanavia because the kid got into a habit of stealing stuff from class and the dad merely told him it won't be tolerated. If that had been me, a good one from dad (and him not dropping you off at school the next day) would have been enough. If not dad, then better an authority whom you can't take for granted.

At least Singapore still canes serious offenders.

The problem I see is that these days girls seem to indulge in a lot of verbal abuse and there doesn't seem to be a way to deal with it. I had that problem in my relationship. Any ideas on how not to put up with that crap? They need to understand that just because they feel whatever, doesn't mean they can do any shit they feel either.

maplemaximus · 2018-02-13T04:02:00+00:00

It reminds me of when my aunt was dying of Stage 4 Breast cancer and both my other aunt and my mother were being petulant, gossiping and speaking ill of their sister who is pain in and out of each day, struggling and fighting to live and not even in a hospital until the day she actually struggled to breathe and died on a November night, then the tears came and all of a sudden they were sad that she was gone, but had no problem talking garbage about her over the phone!

Personally despite knowing her personally and visiting her and my younger cousin often, I didn't feel anything when she died. It was another day. Although I may not be very emotional, or feel much empathy, logically I knew that my aunt and mom were being ridiculously callous for such a serious and sad situation.

Women don't seem to understand how to be civil and have respect in a situation where they feel uncomfortable or slighted. It's honestly pathetic. Unacceptable behavior.

2018-02-13T01:58:27+00:00

In all honesty I wouldn't be surprised if it was a grown man these days doing the same shit as the woman here.

People just have no sense of honor, dignity, or moral backbone anymore. They think if they don't own up to the mistake they did nothing wrong. It's not like a car accident where you can get fucked by insurance.. Just admit you were wrong and carry on with your day! Jeez.

2018-02-13T10:31:05+00:00

Well you see we gave women the right to vote, work (pushing wage growth down) and act like complete whores with no responsibility. All the while they did not take the responsibility men do in society. In short they are spoiled children in adult bodies.

arth14 · 2018-02-12T19:41:29+00:00

there are some really trash people out there, it seems nowadays it only gets more common to see these kinds...

perplexedm · 2018-02-13T13:52:06+00:00

Shaming old men, accusing them of pedophilia, etc. was how all this started. Feminists and the likes knew old men with real life experiences can teach youngsters a lot about hard life lessons. So, shaming and removing them from mainstream is the first thing they did.

fearl3ss · 2018-02-13T07:58:09+00:00

My guess is that this isn't about the old man at all.

My guess is that her boyfriend is WHIPPED AS FUCK, he will always fall on the sword, and he is the first to say "I fucked up, I'm sorry" in every circumstance.

Subconsciously, she wants her boyfriend to be more of a self-reliant asshole, and her hope, in her misguided way, is to command him to be more unfeeling by ordering him to be.

Instead, he's just going to be confused, because he wants to please both of them: the old man and his girlfriend. He just wants everyone to be happy with him.

I've seen this kind of shit before. Actually I've seen worse scenarios than this, and it's always due to a beta boyfriend.

binarynightmare · 2018-02-13T22:30:26+00:00

Not convinced that shitty behavior is gender specific. BUT it's amazing how much shitty behavior a beta male will tolerate from his sexual partner. He knows that putting her in her place could result in him being single for the next half a decade like he was before he settled for her.

RichKingOfBangmar · 2018-02-12T23:42:04+00:00

The daughter will adopt the behaviors and values of the most sexually successful individual in their family that they're exposed to, which is normally the mother at ages 1-5.

The father most likely did not hold the mother accountable for bad behavior. Thus, it signals to the child that being an irresponsible adult leads to sexual reproductive success.

Irresponsibility is the disease the mother passes on to the daughter.

thetotalpackage7 · 2018-02-13T21:33:49+00:00

Parents are afraid to discipline, teachers can't teach values/morality, society can't criticize and male partners have to subjugated to act like other women.

Destruction of western society & capitalism is the goal. Feminists, blm, Antifa, many journalists, most of academia are the bad actors and the puppetmaster of them all is the ____ (if you don't know, you're not paying attention).

fromthecrypt8 · 2018-02-12T22:18:48+00:00

The majority of women do not have the hormonal makeup to allow them to be single-task leaders (they would otherwise excel in multi-task leadership roles).

This situation allows for a single-task scenario.

Now think. Would you ever want to be a leader in a situation where you know you do not have what it takes to be the leader? Some select few have the tenacity to take on the challenge, but for the safety of yourself and your "tribe", you would be best served relinquishing that opportunity to someone who has better odds at achieving it.

Think of a dog. A dog will know if it is the alpha of a family, and that would be good thing if the dog was in a habitat that allowed it to thrive. It could instinctively feed the family, protect the family etc. Okay. Now take that dog and put it into a habitat where it will fail. A dog in a home cannot hunt. It cannot protect (barking from behind a window is the best it can do). etc. This dog will continue to think itself to be the provider and protector as the alpha, but FUCK man it keeps FAILING! ARGH! So much stress it must feel!!

Now...transferring this analogy. Do you think every woman wants to be the leader in a relationship? Biologically dictated hormones keep this from being an opinion. No. The answer is no. But when a weak ass man isn't able to stand up to her, imagine being that girl. "Oh shit...my man isn't able to stand up against me?? That means I am stronger than him. and fuck i'm not that strong. Okay...this means trouble." Think about having a bodyguard that you could beat up. Or a lawyer that you could successfully debate. You will develop a natural disdain for whoever is filling these roles no matter what.

We're blaming the girl in this scenario for being a bitch? No. I blame that weak ass dude for not letting her know (it could have been done constructively and respectfully in accordance to the relatonship) that he has the situation under control, and he doesn't need her help. If she's very strong, maybe he would add that if he needs her help, he'll let her know.

20 to 1 says she was sick and tired of him rolling over for everyone that she was trying to bolster a sense of...i don't know...."it's-other-people's-fault-ness", even if it was illogical.

If what I have here is accurate, even if this couple aren't conscious of it, I understand why she acted that way.

handklap · 2018-02-14T01:11:15+00:00

Young girls today are brought up with a mixed, conflicting message of, "you're an oppressed victim" on one hand vs endless propaganda about how strong and courageous they are. Often they grow up with a chip on their shoulder, depressed, bitter, angry. When you combine this with the endless list of double standards in their favor they have this odd sense of entitlement that their bad behavior is different, it's justified, it's payback, it's them being strong and standing up to their oppressors, now you know how it feels, etc.

Sad, really.

Unfortunately, they have a long line of white knights enabling them so don't expect this to change any time soon.

Ramsay1990 · 2018-02-14T07:37:51+00:00

They're just evil/naturally bad people.

Theguygotgame777 · 2018-02-14T18:08:46+00:00

The media. It makes everything more visible, mainstream or no.

Women (and people in general) acting like shit is what gets views. I remember the time the “Cash me Ousside” was the most popular meme, because adults can laugh at her silly behavior. Kids don’t have that context. They act the way they see. This is the same reason video games have ratings. Girls are desensitized to bitchy behavior by these videos of women acting like shit.
Female empowerment rhetoric. In my Musical Theatre class, we’re going through a musical called 9 to 5, by Dolly Parton. It was made 10 years ago, and it predicts all the focus on sexual harassment scandals in 2017 shockingly well. The main characters think they’ve killed their lecherous boss, and start trying to cover it up instead of going to the police. When it turns out he’s fine, they actually end up kidnapping him, and he’s sent to Bolivia where he’s killed by savage natives. Basically every woman in that show ends up lesbian, or single, and empowered. An even better example would be Thelma and Louise, who actually do commit murder, and end up driving off a cliff. After kissing each other, no less.

Long story short, we shouldn’t let our children access social media too young. In this day and age it’s “cool” and “sassy” to be a bitch. And this will get worse the more empowered women are.

blackedoutfast · 2018-02-14T22:16:59+00:00

i used to ski all the time but then i took a ~10 year break before going back. it seems like 95% of the people on the mountain just rented a board and hit the slopes without ever taking a lesson or having even a basic idea of what to do. not knowing who has the right of way, bombing down the mountain completely out of control until they crash into someone, etc.

MadeInBeirut13 · 2018-02-13T05:53:31+00:00

The internet has ruined children. Its that simple

jimbo_richie · 2018-02-13T00:44:07+00:00

Just think about how she’s going to treat that beta when he’s an “old sack” haha.

Oh wait, she’ll probably divorce him for cash and prizes decades before he gets to that point.

FuckRightOfff · 2018-02-15T18:41:26+00:00

shit hits the fan default girl setting turns on

WaveRepeat · 2018-02-16T18:52:54+00:00

OP: I only read the subject question but here goes:

-Disney Princesses -Modern Feminine Media -Divorce Laws and the Role Models for young women that are being produced from this cultural environment -Electronic dishwashers -Lack of cultural values (probably due to rise of liberalism and fall of religion) -Social Media -Unadulterated Capitalism at the root of all of the above... but that's another story -Restriction of physical discipline as a parent -Smartphones and having everything "right now"... it's bad for patience

Modern government is undermining parenting at every turn and our society is witnessing that end.

wolfyflow · 2018-02-13T07:26:19+00:00

TRP tells you not to give a fuck and go take the world. What do you guys do? Analyze some random woman or some ass chad is tapping like they're ambassadors for women.

TRP exists for resentful betas that whine about womens' values while chad gets head. Am I the only one seeing the irony here? This rant is about how your emotions can't block out some retards being retards. It's more bluepill than me and I've been here for a month. Fuck me.

Title	What is going wrong in women/girls upbringing nowadays?
Author	ProgrammaticallyDay
Upvotes	135
Comments	88
Date	February 12, 2018 7:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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