There are a lot of wisdoms saying that men can go to the moon, but can't figure out women. If you have spent a while in redpill and have digested some of the recent game literature however, and add some common sense to it, it becomes pretty clear that there are simply a couple of rules that make the picture much more clear.

The biggest one is probably factoring in the element of randomness. This is what brings most men off-course. Here is a collection of rules that unravel the "mystery" of women by a lot.

  1. Women like confident men. However, not so much the loud confidence. Confidence is silent, desperation is loud. That doesn't mean that loud alpha boss behaviour isn't thrilling to women, but too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Use it occasionally.
  2. Women like men who are wanted by other women as long as you don't flaunt it. If a woman finds out that other women want you while you are trying to stay covert about your popularity, she will feel like the smartest detective and having discovered the biggest secret. That doesn't mean that you can't leave a few unintentional bread crumbs for her to find out. ;)
  3. Women are often completely irrational and emotional. If you add them into the equation, you can predict that she will be irrational soom again and not be surprised or confused by it
  4. Women are allergic to straight up neediness l and appreciate non-neediness. Non-neediness doesn't build much attraction per se, but it is required to build attraction.
  5. Women find statements of intent very arousing. If you tell a woman that she is sexy, she will see you in a completely different light and get wet panties immediately. This is highly polarizing though, women that find you attractive will get viciously attracted to you within an instant, women that don't find you attractive will feel crept out, tell their friends and stay away from you. For that reason, get some sense of what she is before stating your intent
  6. Women want to like you more than you like them. For that reason, always stay 1/3 less emotionally invested than her. However, this rule rather applies only for the beginning of a relationship. Later on, you can change the rule to 1/5. If she says she loves you so much, you can also say you love her a lot, because if you don't, she will lose the fairy tale dream of being your woman.
  7. Women don't like making big decisions. If you make those for her, she will feel more attracted to you.
  8. Women like variety. Women like men with status, but they also like poor artists that are interesting.
  9. Women like sex, but only with a guy that they find attractive and that makes them chase a little for it, e.g. by screening her and doing some push and pull.

If you know all these rules, you can run a really chill game, not do anything, then hit her with an attraction builder and go back to being oblivious.

The less you do, the less you try hard, the more attraction your individual "techniques" build.