Women really ARE children.

Kaelteth · 2015-05-25T23:32:07+00:00

The lesson here is that we have to set boundaries and expectations of the women in our lives. This is a woman who obviously has some loser schlub that never dares to speak the word "no", and when he tries to assert any sort of will she rides the fuck over top of him.

The key here isn't to expect every woman to throw some hissy fit in a heartbeat, but that you have to be a fucking leader in your relationship, not some shithead beta that gives into their every whim normally.

AWALT - if you're a loser that always does everything she wants when she wants it. Sack the fuck up, be a fucking man, and set the tone, and this shit won't happen...and if it does, you know well enough to fucking deal with it, set her straight, or dump her fucked in the head ass to the curb.

pirateundies · 2015-05-25T23:34:54+00:00

Because women receive much more coddling throughout their life and most guys they encounter are afraid to tell them "no" they end up emotionally maturing a lot slower than men.

Being huge bitches to each other in middle school teaches them the game of saying what others expect you to say in order to blend in and not let your mouth shoot you in the foot, something they learn much sooner than guys.

But when it comes to handling difficult emotions like jealousy, not getting their way, rejection, etc, they're pretty much stunted.

REDPILLRECKONING · 2015-05-25T23:14:49+00:00

This is lurking in all women. 90% are literally just children that just kept getting larger and larger.

mtndewlover · 2015-05-26T03:08:25+00:00

This is an old video. The best part were the Jezebel articles saying that the man was "abusive" for recording this. Im not positive, I might be confusing it with another video, but think that he used it as evidence in some sort of divorce proceeding. Apparently this was an example of repeated behavior.

DOCTORxTEETH · 2015-05-26T00:46:28+00:00

That's not normal behavior. Women may act like children sometimes but this one has something fucked up going on in her brain.

Shanguerrilla · 2015-05-26T06:06:31+00:00

This woman in the video is NOT neurotypical.

I thought my wife had Borderline Personality Disorder.. and she might, but only recently began treatment. After one visit with her the Dr. was sure she 'at least' has Complex Ptsd (which is very similar in a lot of ways, but also could be comorbid).

This video is something I'm infinitely familiar with. I don't believe this girl is neurotypical. I realize women can be more emotional, more immature (men can be these things too, but we'd be lying if we didn't think women are more often much more).. but this girl in the video seems like she needs mental help and to really work at getting better.

The guy handled things really well I think. Sounds like how I deal with my wife. When she tantrums I'll recognize and state what I understand of her feelings, I'll empathize with the feeling, then state the truth and that she isn't going to get her way like that, talk or behave like that to me or my son, I'm going to end the interaction if she cannot gain control of herself or go do what I want/need.. etc etc. He sounded to handle it pretty decent, but these tantrums are dumbfounding when you are in them. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was shocked at first. They never occurred until we were married then she seemed to have a mental breakdown devolving into this. Every week a few times a week or more, there would be these cataclysmic opportunities to hold frame and get shit tested to an extreme I hope most men never face. This is next level dread game by the girl and if it was anything like my marriage was- anytime it wasn't this overt attempt at manipulation/tantrum, then there was distance and passive aggression. We can't put up with it, for us- but even for them. A child needs a consistent leader to grow out of such behavior. An adult needs the same, but also (probably) a real mental health professional AND they need to be desperate to change themselves. For my wife, she became desperate that our marriage wouldn't end.

Dealing with such extremes is amazing practice at learning how to self validate and hold course on decision and frame of mind and presence. In a way these women are great at building men strong enough to handle them (if they don't destroy them).

I just watched a followup video from the man in that video.. his wife divorced him because he posted this.. she said he 'tricked' and 'bullied' her into the tantrum (that she wanted to go to the lake and he had to work?) The guy CLEARLY has dealt with this behavior OFTEN, because so have I- even worse. It took me a LONG TIME to be as calm and in control as he is there. He isn't surprised, he isn't shocked. I got there too and it was a bunch of shitty experience to get me to learn to be. The thing is: he knew his wife was so immature, emotional, mentally unwell that just not going to the lake when he had to work would spark this tantrum, he knew damn well posting the video of it would ignite a powder keg.

With my own wife, she said and did things MUCH worse than this girl's tantrums. Mine ALSO tried to leave me. It wasn't until I was COMPLETELY willing to lose her, without a morsel of fear or remorse, that I really stood up from the anti-TRP persona of past. We have to be completely willing to lose a LTR to ever be able to really have a healthy one. We have to respect ourselves at least that much. Anything less, the screaming, conniving, abusive, emotional, tantrumming partner would be the one with all the power and 'she' clearly couldn't even be trusted to have the power to control herself (let alone a marriage).

EDIT: I WANT to believe this girl isn't neurotypical.. Mine isn't and she has acted this way or worse, but the girls mom is just so shocked and sad for her daughter- the VICTIM. Could this be just bad parenting? That's scary if so. OH the poor thing had that video of her behavior posted (while she was texting and posting to social media how awful her husband was). Quote from mom:

'How do you think she feels?' said Mrs Jones as she fought back tears. 'She had no idea she was being filmed or that the film would end up in the internet. 'Whitney is a good Christian girl. She has worked hard to get where she is, and then this happens to her.

I shed a single tear for her /s

Look at the anti-everything we stand for here in the couple's neighbors to their 250K house:

'We usually see them together, but its only been Whitney coming back to the house in her convertible,' said one neighbor. 'Having seen the video you have to feel sorry for her. What kind of husband does that to his wife. 'If they were having problems before, then putting the video on the internet is like pouring nitro glycerine on a fire. That was crazy and just so humiliating for the wife.' Another neighbor added that his wife would divorce him if he pulled a similar stunt. 'Every married couple has an argument, but they stay private. What the husband did was unforgivable.' Whitney and James wed 14 months ago in Knoxville after meeting through their shared love of outdoor sports.

iamnotfromtexas90 · 2015-05-26T07:59:19+00:00

No surprise, CNN defends her.

redpillmason · 2015-05-26T06:40:00+00:00

Stop the car. Open her door. Tell that bitch to take a walk and come back when she can speak like an adult. I wouldn't listen to a second of that.

GreatWalker · 2015-05-26T14:21:34+00:00

Have you ever listened in on the conversations that women have with each other? Perhaps your sister and her friends, or your mom and her friends?

I know a lot of guys usually engage in vapid conversations, but women take it to a whole other level. They seriously talk like young teenagers when they're with each other.

Vay93 · 2015-05-27T04:04:41+00:00

I love how she flips the switch so fast to playing on her phone. Instantly goes from crying like a child and not getting her way to texting her friends/bitching on FB about her horrible husband in a (presumably) victimized and adult manner.

TacoSauce · 2015-05-25T22:55:22+00:00

I made it about a minute in. Christ this is petty.

QuickStopRandal · 2015-05-26T23:16:17+00:00

"TAKE ME OUT ON THE LAKE!"

is the new

"SHE'S NOT A CHRISTIAN-UH!"

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Soriq · 2015-05-26T00:43:31+00:00

LMAO. To be fair to women this is pretty extreme.

herpes_delivery_man · 2015-05-26T16:46:36+00:00

Women are driven by their emotions, just like how children are also driven by emotions.

Kepaso · 2015-05-26T00:35:00+00:00

To be fair she doesn t seem normal, she may have a mental disorder.

The thing i noticed though is the guy s reaction. Instead of laughing i would have been fucking scared and kicked the crazy out of the car.

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Title	Women really ARE children.
Author	peoplearejustpeople9
Upvotes	61
Comments	42
Date	May 25, 2015 10:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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