Women "Smelling" Alpha

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-07T16:23:13+00:00

Start wearing a "wedding ring". Nothing says "preselected and locked down" like that band of gold/ silver.

sir_Preacher · 2016-03-07T18:36:35+00:00

I've had women asking me when am going to get married, or who my girlfriend is.

Women usually cannot bring themselves to accept the fact the a high smv man does not want to be locked down. Especially those in your social circle.

As far as they are concerned, unless there is a woman in your life to spend your money, you are actually wasting it. You need a woman to show you how to use your money.

The funniest part is that they don't seem to care when poor low smv men aren't locked down.

Semper_I · 2016-03-07T16:41:26+00:00

I've been told on a couple occasions by different women that they can smell testosterone, they didn't say that, but that's what it was. One day in particular I was getting chatted up by dudes and plenty of IoI's from ladies all day it was great and my plate that night was all asking me if I had sex that day. I also hadn't fapped in 21 days at that point.

They can sense an Alpha quicker than we can.

Lesic · 2016-03-07T18:21:50+00:00

Women are looking for an alpha always. It is in their hardware. You remind them of an alpha because of your appearance and they fill in the gaps because they want to believe that you are the alpha they are looking for.

ArkAngelEV · 2016-03-07T17:36:50+00:00

Nice humblebrag fuck face. I kid, actually this too happened to me many years ago. I narrowed it down to dressing well and appropriately and having a smug/self satisfied look on my face. Like the face youd make if a pregnant ivanka trump gave you a sloppy blowjob every morning to start your day. Pure smug face. My suggestion: tone it down and look at the floor when you walk sometimes.

Also, beta cover at work is definitely an intelligent strategy. In hindsight, I've actually gotten fucked over more by guys than by women. What the fuck is that about right. So much for the fraternity

BlackJ1 · 2016-03-07T17:56:51+00:00

A lot of men here tend to see "beta behavior" as inherently bad. However I believe if you use it in the right situations it can actually benefit you. Remember Law 38.

I've seen this mentioned before as it has been called reverse beta game.

But generally speaking I doubt women can just sense or smell alpha's. It really all has to do with how you look; form, stance, expressions and etc.

ThereAndBlackAgain · 2016-03-07T18:39:20+00:00

Women actually have a fascinating relationship with their sense of smell. The area in their brains responsible for olfactory senses have far more cells than ours, and as a result they often vastly over-perform men in various scent related experiments. IIRC worldwide, many women are involved in various brewery professions thanks to their ability to tell good and bad product by smell alone. In one test, women were found to be able to identify their infant children by smell alone some 97ish percent of the time, where men hovered around 50.
While humans don't have any pheromones that we yet know of, there are other indicators we pick up from each other by smell. A researcher by the name of Czilli found that siblings don't like the smell of each other and postulated that it may be a way to help prevent incest. It's entirely possible that some men give off mate-related signals in their scent. If so it'd be interesting to see if there's a particular "desirable" scent or if it's just based on large genetic variance between the two people.

edwardhwhite · 2016-03-07T19:40:07+00:00

So I've worked to establish a "beta cover" at my office. I'm just another divorced ,gym rat finance dude.

If gym rat finance dude is your "beta cover" it is never going to work. That shit is catnip.

bromyiqis900 · 2016-03-07T18:44:06+00:00

Well you might be confusing standard attraction. I too get these comments from strangers a few times a year, it's really just them complimenting you because when a man presents an attractive version of himself to the world, it notices.

It's not like they can tell you aren't attached and don't want to be, frankly I've had girls hit on me in stores while with a girlfriend or plate they can clearly see I'm with, but if we separate enough some girls will use that as an opportunity to open a conversation.

Just last month I was at Costco with a plate who anyone would assume is just my pretty wife or girlfriend having a weekend grocery trip with me.

She needed contact solution and took off down the aisle when I told her I was going to grab some charcoal. Right as she got far enough away this HB8 e-cig sales rep girl opened a conversation. This is her job or course, but once I said I would never put any of that horrible shit in my body with a sly grin, she responded with "I don't blame you, I can tell you really take care of yourself" to which I responded with general bullshit flirting like "aww I bet you say that to all the super handsome boys"

She clearly wanted me to get her number so I mentioned that I was in marketing (I own my company but I didn't want to get her beta bux wheels spinning) as well and really enjoy seeing how companies present themselves even if I think the product is shit. She responded by giving me her card and saying I should call her to "talk shop sometime"

We fucked three days later after a two hour chat at Starbucks, hot girl, a little vanilla in bed even with my direction so I won't be going back for seconds.

Anyway, she CLEARLY knew I was attached somehow and didn't give a fuck, she never asked about the other girl, she may have assumed I was married or engaged and when I suggested we get out of there (Starbucks) I suggested her place which probably made her assume I lived with the other chick, when really I just didn't want her to see my really nice house and become a problem.

RickJamesBeyach · 2016-03-07T19:00:29+00:00

Enhanced ability to sense Alpha cock. It's a superpower that carousel riders develop over time.

monsieurhire2 · 2016-03-07T20:29:57+00:00

What exactly are you worried about? You're not supposed to be fraternizing with women at work anyway. Just be professional and keep your distance. If they flirt with you because they think you're alpha, you have a plausibly deniable reason to keep them at bay: you're there to work, and you don't shit where you eat.

At work, I think, it's important to be neither alpha nor beta, but to be professional, which is an entirely different paradigm.

It's natural for women to wonder about any man who is half-way decent looking. You can always try to be boring to turn them off and ignore their advances. Eventually they'll give up and move on. It doesn't matter what you say, it matters what you are, and that is product of how you act on a day to day basis.

zephyrprime · 2016-03-07T18:56:08+00:00

It's just the facial effects of testosterone. It's easy to see. Men just don't pay attention to it because we don't care. We care for prettiness which is only partially affected by high sex hormone in women. However, a woman can have high estrogen and be fat and men still won't care for her face. Men just don't seem to care about women's estrogen levels very much. Women don't care for prettiness much so they can still be into a guy with high testosterone and an ugly face. Being big helps a lot too.

trinitys_dildo · 2016-03-07T18:39:12+00:00

How far do you try to go with the act ? Do you talk about your feelings ? Interject in conversations to talk about how important it is to close the gender pay gap?

trumpisafaggybeta · 2016-03-07T20:12:29+00:00

It's not rocket science, and it's not a smell at all. It's probably your physical body/immediate attractiveness that gives women the tingles. I get it all the time without saying a single word, along with assumptions that any woman around my age that I'm with, friend or family, is a gf or plate.

explorer93 · 2016-03-07T22:22:15+00:00

I've had multiple occassions where people would also ask if the girl I'm with was my girlfriend or wife. Happend more than I can count. And is usually awkward when it's still the dating phase or they are actually just my friend/coworker.

I've heard of studies claiming that women can smell the pheromones of an attractive male. They maybe put you thru subtle shit-tests that demonstrate your character.

regardless. I've met women who wanted to bone me 15 minutes into getting meeting them. But that might just be because of my looks. So maybe you're fuckable in their eyes. And they're thinking "wow I would sleep with this dude if i was drunk enough." I like to think that humans tend to put people in archetypes(the pedestal) and fantisize about it. Maybe you fit that archetype.

toneroma · 2016-03-07T16:52:58+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you probably just have "resting douche face". Not necessarily a bad thing, mind you. Otherwise, I don't care how "alpha" you carry yourself, people aren't going to assume you are a philanderer unless you look like one.

ag_nuke · 2016-03-07T18:52:18+00:00

So did you bang your cousin or not

just_a_thought4U · 2016-03-07T18:27:28+00:00

Corporate environments have become bastions of PC culture. A second look will get you a sexual harrassment charge. Not a good environment for an alpha. You may want to focus on starting your own business and being your own boss.

MattyAnon · 2016-03-07T20:47:54+00:00

it's almost like the females just KNOW I'm not playing by the rules of monogamy as sheer instinct.

You look good (probably). You're being non-needy. You have a knowing smile. You're not putting their every word and whim on its own flowery pedestal up there in the clouds.

When you've done the TRP/Alpha bit for a while, you forget to do all the beta tells.

removol · 2016-03-07T20:36:03+00:00

I've read & known about redpill for a while and have lurked a lot. I wish I can have this some day. I have the underpinnings of a good future career (MS2 in med school), but absolutely nothing else that would constitute an average SMV, much less high SMV. Skinny fat, awkward, still scared of women. I recently had a conversation with my friend while his gf was there - basically about how I think I'd like to have a girlfriend (drinking, otherwise I wouldn't be so honest). I visibly noticed the microexpression of disgust on her (friend's gf) face. Surprised me. It's not just that they aren't interested in the concerns of low-SMV guys - their concerns are actually revolting. BTW, I'm thinking of choosing psychiatry for my residency (my grades and board scores are probably only going to be average, but psych is uncompetitive) so some delicious irony there.

Title	Women "Smelling" Alpha
Author	IliadsTangent
Upvotes	45
Comments	68
Date	March 7, 2016 4:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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