Yes even your Mother

Mckallidon · 2017-01-07T22:25:17+00:00

Especially your mother. That's how you got here. It wasn't rainbows and storks. She trapped someone.

g4casting · 2017-01-07T21:49:55+00:00

That's anecdotal though. The only thing my mother and most mothers I know do when their son is improving in whatever area of his life is encourage him and admire him.

mcbenzene · 2017-01-07T20:35:51+00:00

I don't know about others, but Puerto Rican mothers can be extremely clingy to their children, specially if they are boys, for various reasons. While not in the same situation, I've had to call out the BS of my mother several times. And afterwards sends my father to try and talk me into giving in to her manipulation. Ever since I started the path of self improvement, she has put more stones in my journey. Luckily, I've become strong enough to either ignore them or destroy them.

Anayalata · 2017-01-07T22:05:41+00:00

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0xdada · 2017-01-08T00:48:21+00:00

Quoting myself: You begin to become a man when you learn to set boundaries for your mother.

Repeat these words, "mother, these are not normal adult boundaries."

improvising1 · 2017-01-08T00:45:56+00:00

Totally agree with this. Since adopting a more RP mindset when dealing with my mother our interactions have improved a thousandfold. Not taking her seriously, less straight talk in favour of being light and fun, remembering that she's basically a child in a grown up's body, understanding shit tests.

Now we butt heads less and she actually seems excited and grateful when I come to visit. AWALT.

raisins3142 · 2017-01-08T01:23:52+00:00

Your mom will treat your dad or other men just like any other woman, so AWALT.

However, moms usually treat their sons pretty well. They are the only women you can ever hope for to really love and support you, along with some other close female family members like an aunt or some such.

As others said, this is just an anecdote about a really shitty mom with mental issues.

traveldeedee · 2017-01-08T06:24:45+00:00

Hell. I never had any respect for my psycho mother, nor her broke-up-chad's-marriage-to-steal-him cunt sister, nor their emasculated little brother aka my beta uncle. AWALT. My dad is the most alpha guy I know, always kept his bitch in check.

hakhamaneshi · 2017-01-08T07:04:56+00:00

Lol yep. I was talking to my mom the other day about an old boyfriend of hers, she kept saying how nice and sweet he was and more beta bucks symptoms. With my recently obtained TRP wisdom I adamantly insisted that he is/has been cheated on, and my mom kept saying no. Finally, she trickle truth ed that she went out with other guys while with him and "never really respected him". This sub never ceases to fucking amaze me holy shit... I feel powerful in some ways, TRP has given me insight into social dynamics far beyond my years. My mom was actually in shock that I knew so easily, about that and a few other things. AWALT

TyrannyVengeance · 2017-01-08T12:59:19+00:00

My mom is kinda shitty but my dad is alcoholic and abusive what did I expect?

Birds of a feather.

ecosci · 2017-01-08T00:45:44+00:00

Female nature has been around forever the only reason grandma was loyal back then is because society demanded it but whoring still took place so the beta guy was a prize that women didnt really want but needed to survive in terms of bills, food and shelter so if she had no fault divorce child support and ailimony laws our grandfarthers would have been cucked and shit on too because women do what they are allowed to get away with naturally.The alpha stud was always our mothers and grandmas first lustful choice not your hardworking average joe farther and grandpa this would be even in 1920.

Cesare_MA · 2017-01-08T02:08:04+00:00

Well my parents are from an EXTREMELY traditional, conservative country so no, I funny think it's my mother too.

sergeantbbbbs · 2017-01-08T20:15:12+00:00

Yeah mate, looking back over my upbringing with a TRP perspective makes a lot of things fit together. My mum used to go out with the girls and get absolutely smashed then come back and start violent arguments with my dad for "being jealous" - I saw the whole things from start to finish and never once saw him do anything to suggest he was jealous.

The only thing he did wrong was not kick her out on her arse years ago. That said, over the past year I've got my life on track - mentally, physically and financially, from rock bottom to a very well paid job, in great shape and with a great group of friends and FWBs. My Mum has been nothing other than completely 100% supportive of the whole journey - I'm one of the lucky ones

Stythe · 2017-01-08T19:44:43+00:00

You get the patterns from your upbringing, as has been said here.

My parents are the definition of what we talk about here. My mom is admits to having chosen my dad because she wanted to have a family in her early 30s when she was running out of time and he was safe. Shes an anxious, neurotic women who talks a lot of shit about others but never improves herself, even when forced to see the problems for herself. Shes even admitted her parents had a similar dysfunctional relationship with my grandma manipulating my grandpa.

My dad on the other hand is the epitome of beta in his actions. My mom has referred to him as "mommas boy and a loser." He's a caring guy in his way, but is very lazy and can't accept that he isnt always right, which keeps him from improving. His tendency to be complacent about things also stops him from continuing down a path of improvement even when he does start it up. Case in point, he owns a small business he doesn't put effort it and has a gym membership he doesn't use.

They're both good people in the way you're beta friend would be, though I realize I long ago outgrew they're ability to parent me and that messed me up as a child who wanted freedom to explore, fail and grow. It created a very sad cycle of life for me.

The irony is that very upbringing cause me to date a girl who, had I kept seeing, would have been my way to repeat the cycle and continue the family dysfunction. Luckily thay ended so horribly I was forced to open my eyes and look at my life and in the proceeding years I've used that foundation to improve immensely. I'm lucky, for all my shortcoming amd setbacks I've always had a solid foundation, which in honesty, I do owe to my parents to a degree. But that's life. Less blame, more game.

[deleted] · 2017-01-09T03:49:25+00:00

I will always love my mom more than I could any other woman on this earth because she's the only woman who will always care for me.

Yet she's not perfect; she's biologically wired to act like any other woman. I admit that I was a spoiled little Momma's boy until my dad made me get a job at 16 (smart man), so telling her no was tough in the past. Whenever my mom gives me shit, I don't let her cross the line without putting my foot down.

Not that she does often. The problem is that my mom would still try to cook for me and give me stuff if I had a billion dollars. You should of seen her interactions with the dog! The way she fed my skinny ass dog lasagne put starving african kids to shame!

MotouBro · 2017-01-10T02:00:10+00:00

Here's a second giant Red Pill.

Your mom doesn't care about YOU as a person. She cares about how YOU make HER feel and how your accomplishments or lack thereof reflect on her.

jewishsupremacist88 · 2017-01-08T17:24:51+00:00

stop chilling with ricans man, these people are the dregs of society.

Title	Yes even your Mother
Author	TimmyTurnersNuts
Upvotes	46
Comments	34
Date	January 7, 2017 6:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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