So I’ll go straight to the point, I went on a first date with this guy and..
~Green flags: •He always texts first •He took me to a very very nice place •Didn’t try anything than just talking •Successful in his career •Lots of interests •I laughed a lot and we spent so much time together •Took me home
~Red flags: •Talked about his exes (not the main topic of the night of course but still… lol) •Said his ex was crazy (this one gives me the ick ahah) •He overshared about his life - like a lot, stuff that i would never tell in a first encounter, like his relationship with his parents, past traumas etc.. •And last but not least, since we were very close to the place his colleagues were having dinner, we quickly went to say hi and he introduced me to them which I am not sure if it’s positive or negative… it wasn’t awkward or anything but like since it’s the first time that we meet I don’t know if I would introduce my date right away… to be honest, thinking about it the day after, it could have been a way to “flex” me (?) I don’t know maybe I’m overthinking
He now texts me a lot and wants to see me again, asked me out immediately three days after the date but I want to let some more time pass, at least a week. I had fun indeed but these last points got me a bit uncertain.
What do you think? Is it worth a second date?
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