Possible Red Flags? Rant

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-01-14T21:50:20+00:00

Been there, done that. Ogling half naked women and saying you are wrong for disliking that is gaslighting and male privilege. He will make your life miserable if you stick around.

cupittycakes · 2021-01-14T18:17:44+00:00

Him getting mad and not caring is a glaring red flag

Sooo... Is this a situationship? Are you still having dates with other men or do you want to exclusively see him?

You said how many months? If he hasn't asked you to be exclusive after a few months, this man is not interested in you and does not want to be exclusive

Also, first red flag out the gate is if a guy follows a lot of women on insta, like next all that

super_thinker_ · 2021-01-14T18:44:46+00:00

He is gaslighting you into feeling crazy. Your feelings about this are valid and justified. Leave and don't look back girl

eveninghope · 2021-01-14T19:50:52+00:00

Any time a guy tells you you’re acting crazy is a red flag. It’s being dismissive of your concerns. Sure, maybe you’re in a situation where you suspect something but nothings actually happening, a HVM would take your concerns seriously anyway. Our emotions are telling us a need isn’t getting met. If he’s not willing to listen to you, he ain’t the one.

awkchihuahua · 2021-01-14T22:52:50+00:00

If he cared enough to win you, he wouldn't do any of these things. Trust me, been there done that.

Dump!

Whateverbabe2 · 2021-01-14T21:13:54+00:00

Your first paragraph is a red flag. A man should never tell you your thoughts are invalid and you're just crazy.

I can already tell he's gaslighting you. Block and delete.

smart-tart23 · 2021-01-15T00:01:13+00:00

Isn’t “you’re acting crazy” a flag in itself no matter the context?

saint-jezebel · 2021-01-15T01:13:18+00:00

Along with kick him out, never tell a man his actions make you insecure.

BabyFaceNightClub · 2021-01-15T07:34:56+00:00

This is gaslighting! Trust your gut on this one, if he cared about you and your feelings the least he could have done was to have an honest and open conversation about it instead of flaring up and getting mad about it.

2021-01-24T11:27:20+00:00

Get busy seeing other guys and put this one on the back burner.

Title	Possible Red Flags? Rant
Author	K8erpillar1
Upvotes	60
Comments	10
Date	January 14, 2021 5:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askFDS
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