Behavioral Changes Before Main Event

HornsOfApathy · 2023-09-09T02:13:20+00:00

None. If you've actually had a main event, you're at the point of it happening because you don't care.

My OYS history is full of fake ones because I was retarded. Meaning, I cared about them.

Better question is: what behaviors in you did you notice before a main event?

BecomingABetterMan1 · 2023-09-09T02:40:06+00:00

Why are you so focused on an event that literally brings your wife to tears?

Is it some weird revenge fantasy? She’s been shitty to you for so long that this bitch has it coming? If so, you’re still in the anger phase and nowhere as far as long as you think you are, and you’re even farther from a main event, if you ever get one.

Are you making changes only to get a main event? If so, that’s a covert contract, and you haven’t even implemented the first fucking book on the side bar.

Stop focusing on what you’re changes are doing to her. She does not matter. Her reaction does not matter. The captain doesn’t take ownership of his ship for the sole purpose of getting his first mate to question their role on his vessel. He does it because he’s the captain and it’s his fucking ship.

2023-09-09T05:21:31+00:00

MRP is a game of frame

It "ends" when you wife fully accepts your frame and operate inside it.

When she does it screaming and crying, that's main event

So how do I know main event in coming

Well ask yourself these questions

Am I out of my wife's frame?

Am I my own mental point of origin or I am still a validation seeking bitch?

Is my frame attractive enough for her to accept it? Do I have an attractive vision for my life so that a woman (does not have to be wife) will be glad to come along?

And most important can I defend my frame or Am I not capable enough to handle shit tests, testing my frame with ease?

If the answer to any of them is NO then you won't have main event. If your wife looses her shit to the point that you think there is main event then you just went rambo

You are asking how do you know that main event is coming so that you can better prepare yourself. But understand when you are actually ready when you are truly OI you understand that you don't have bullets to dodge because she is just holding a finger gun.

Get back to work, your hamster needs rest

_RPeed · 2023-09-09T06:01:39+00:00

I recommend you either journal or talk out with a bro what the worst case scenario is here and make peace with it. That being said, I highly doubt your wife will divorce you because you said no to her one time.

Seems like everyday now half a dozen people tell you that what she does, doesn’t matter.

Thoughts follow actions, not the other way about.

You don’t get to make posts about her and then claim you’re totally not focused on her

MoonLandingHoaxer · 2023-09-09T02:47:37+00:00

I had a main event two weeks back. It was our 10 wedding anaversary.

I got a bunch of mdma and we dropped the kids off at my parents for the weekend.

I had abb DOMS from all the fucking.

I'm good for another year.

businessstravel · 2023-09-09T02:22:34+00:00

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2wo2wo3hree · 2023-09-11T00:34:40+00:00

Those of you who've gone through a main event, ~~what behavior changes did you notice in your spouse leading up to it?~~ let’s talk about shit that does not matter!

Title	Behavioral Changes Before Main Event
Author	BecomingABetterMan1
Upvotes	7
Comments	25
Date	September 9, 2023 12:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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