Hi Married Red Pills!

Thought I’d reach out to the married red pill as the regular asktrp people just say to not have a partner LOL. Figured the married red pills would know how to approach this better

I’ve (25M) been dating a girl (21F) for 4 months now and she was showing me something on her phone and I saw that she got a Snapchat from one of her ex boyfriends from 4 years ago (I didn’t even react at the time to be honest)

She never explicitly told me his name in conversation but I heard from a friend what his name was... so she might think she’s in the clear

I did nothing about the situation at the time as she was stressed with exams, so my question is, how do I bring this up and discuss my distaste in a red pill way that shows I’m both confident and stoic?

I don’t want it to come across as jealous or insecure, I legit just think its rude considering she’s the one that wanted to date me and be exclusive.

Thanks a lot for your help in advance