My wife wants to fuck me all the time. She doesn’t want to validate me all the time. Having gone from a dead bedroom with my ex to a lively bedroom with a broken bed frame I came to realize that sex is still a means to an end. It’s just another form of validation. Maybe it is the ultimate form of external validation. There is a whole lot more going on with that dynamic than just evolutionary psychology. We don’t just want our wives to put out we want to fuck their brains out and be the best they have ever had so that they will they will be emotionally pair bonded with us. It is possible to give your wife the best sex of her life and still be a needy bitch. Validation seeking behavior should be avoided your our own best interests and not as a ploy so that some solipsistic piece of ass will give you her approval.