22, been with my LTR for over 1 year. Started reading MRP 1 month ago.

Her and I are very different people, as in our personalities. She’s very street smart, passionate, and has a short temper. I’m flamboyant, over-exaggerative, but socially unintelligent (I don’t read social cues well).

Her and I, at the beginning til about month 6 were all sunshine and rainbows. Month 6 we had an argument, and that was our first. Then as these months rolled by we would have one argument a month, nothing too crazy imo. Then now all of a sudden I do or say something thoughtless (aka autistic) and she reacts with hatred, screaming, and anger.

I don’t try to do these things that upset her, and the past week we have fought every day, could even be twice a day. This morning I thoughtlessly opened the door in her apartment bathroom and she was in there taking a dump, and I know that she hates when I walk in on her (has happened a few times prior). I was going to ask if she wanted toast with her eggs. We almost broke up because of this altercation. It seems like most of the arguments lead to her telling me that I should break up with her or that she is so unhappy, but wants for us to figure out what’s going on.

We both are really at the end of the rope here, and we both are really passionate about making this work, because on a normal day we are amazing, passionate, and our sex is great. So we really do want to rekindle that after this week of awful arguments, and we want those arguments to be settled and to happen less, as well as with less magnitude to them. So please, help us, help me save what we love.

tl;dr what can I do to rid this week-long argument extravaganza and to keep the arguments to a minimum?