Married - "Group" date nights out.

InChargeMan · 2017-10-26T16:51:50+00:00

Meanwhile, on some other reddit sub:

"We go out on couples dates, and there is this one husband who has zero social skills. When everyone else is talking about relevant adult topics, he just sits there quietly getting drunk, and whenever he does speak he tries to hit on the waitress or say sexual stuff, totally embarrassing his wife. He only really like to talk about his "partying" with single guys. LOL, it's like a frat guy stuck in an adult's body... Also, his wife mentioned to my wife that she is considering an affair with someone with whom she can have an adult conversation. I'm not surprised."

red-sfpplus · 2017-10-25T21:45:30+00:00

Your full of shit.

To be an alpha in a sea of beta looser husbands is the prime opportunity to literally practice every single fucking thing we preach here.

AMOG Flirting with the other wives Leading the conversation Dread Be interesting Steal the show Be the center of attention Dictate the pace of the evening. The events. Everything.

I could fucking go on and on. You are dreaming. Your sitting over there getting drunk because you are not all that. Because you have nothing special or interesting going on. Because you cannot carry on a conversation with people. Because your job and life are boring.

Give me a break kid.

man_in_the_world · 2017-10-25T23:03:46+00:00

Surely you can steer the conversation or activities in directions more interesting to you, if you have any leadership skills. If not, this presents a great opportunity to work on developing them.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-10-25T22:46:43+00:00

It's like people come in with these massive egos, do no sidebar work, and just act like a idiot.

I just don't give a shit anymore.

Neither do we about you.

cholomite · 2017-10-26T01:56:16+00:00

In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king.

It's easy to be attractive around unattractive guys. Don't get ahead of yourself "Patrick Bateman". Tell us how you used this to fuck yours or your friends wives, improve yourself or something useful, otherwise you're just sucking your own dick.

violet_smiles · 2017-10-27T14:30:44+00:00

You sound like a giant egotistical douschebag. Give your wife my sympathies.

Scurvemuch · 2017-10-25T21:18:41+00:00

yea and?

If you like them, why do you look down on them so much?

DanceMonkeeDance · 2017-10-25T23:34:59+00:00

They will ask my wife "I can't believe you let him go out and do that, or say that".

Why aren't they telling your wife how jealous they are of her?

93til1nfinity · 2017-10-27T16:44:19+00:00

You sound like a beta who's drinking buddies are the actual alphas who makes you feel like youre an alpha. A real alpha would have fun with this

trpbritguy · 2017-10-26T09:03:58+00:00

Dude, consider yourself lucky you have friends... Even irritating one! People just don't like me "that way" so making friends, even irritating ones, is very hard for me!

FF0000_captain · 2017-10-26T10:32:24+00:00

I was in a similar situation once. My wife was friends with a neighbor, who had a group of friends that were totally not our kind of people. All incredibly out of shape. All pretty soft spoken. Not much cultural or social awareness. They were never fun to be around. We eventually moved away though, so problem solved.

It wasn't until a year or so later that I discovered RP. Now I look back with a little regret for not viewing the situation a little differently. Sure, it probably would have been a lame group to hang with no matter what, but it was an easy opportunity to be the life of the party and practice some game instead of waiting around to go home with a shitty attitude.

But really, I should have viewed that situation as a challenge to lead me and my wife to a better, more interesting social life. Maybe you should do the same.

atlhart · 2017-10-27T13:27:04+00:00

I'm not even sure there is a question here, I just needed to puke to MRP about how boring some of these peoples lives are and they are actually OK with shit being this way

People are shitting on you. I think largely it's just douchebags that are insecure with themselves and shitting on you to make themselves feel better. The RP equivalent of white knighting.

But, puke's like this should be for you and you alone. It was good for you to write this out, but next time just put it in a journal or something, or write it and then delete.

The positive behavior here is that you were reflecting on who you are, what you're life is like, and what you want it to be. Continue that.

The negative behavior is sharing it with all us, because it's validation seeking. "DAE hate being around blue pills?" The only validation you need is from yourself, so shut down urges to get it elsewhere.

tacko276 · 2017-10-25T22:43:42+00:00

Sounds like you don't have the fucking stones to amog the group and lead them to having fun. So instead you act like a drunken shit monkey

Title	Married - "Group" date nights out.
Author	WolfofAllStreetz
Upvotes	2
Comments	27
Date	October 25, 2017 9:01 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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