When to initiate?

A_Rex · 2017-05-03T13:50:39+00:00

Initiate when you want. Have no expectations. If she accepts, fuck the ever loving daylights out of her. If she rejects, go do something else (or if you're in the middle of doing something together, go back to what you were doing). Act like nothing happened.

You should already be flirting with and gaming her. See some of my previous posts for beginner tips. Start setting the stage that fun, flirty stuff is just what happens at the eyeswideshut house. In a few weeks, she'll feel like it's always been that way.

RPJMRP · 2017-05-03T14:29:44+00:00

"When to initiate?"

Is she breathing? Initiate.

RuleZeroDAD · 2017-05-03T13:50:44+00:00

Initiate whenever you want.

You need the rejection repetition to test your OI, and if your advances are accepted, you get to have some fun. No bad results, so long as you initiate without an entitled expectation of sex.

Even you admit that your attractiveness might be below the "fuckable" level.

HerukaRising · 2017-05-03T14:12:22+00:00

Well, the point kind of is to do it whenever you feel like, not when we say you should. Learn to be comfortable with the fact that you want to fuck and that you have every right to do so.

ReddJive · 2017-05-03T14:23:15+00:00

so i am staying monk mode

You need to define this. There's really never been any look at married or LTR men going monk mode.

Monk mode is generally regarded as a single man's game because it's complete inward thinking. Where you focus on you, your goals, and improving. or are you saying you just went celibate?

Thing is you can't legitimately go monk mode in a relationship...it could and can be a relationship killer. What you are experiencing is that you ignored your instincts and buried them so now you have to figure it all out. You're really no where fast.

realize now you are going to be an autistic dumbass when trying to initiate because you haven't been doing it. Laugh. Realize boobie honking isn't a legit way of telling her you want to fuck and doesn't get the girls wet instantly.

But you grabbed a boob. Chuckle. Wink. Move on. As others have said when you want. I bet though you'll hamster this as...well should I? should I not? Should I? Should not?

And for you Mr. Monk its' going to be 10x hard because you've been ignoring it for a bit. Jump in. Smile at the boobies. be happy.

gettingmymojoback · 2017-05-03T15:20:04+00:00

When you want to.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-05-04T01:45:20+00:00

when should i begin to initiate?

There is one theory that you should ALWAYS be initiating.

The key is how you handle the rejections, not how often you initiate- unless you initiate to little. Then the key is to initiate more.

I am also pretty sure the question isn't "when should I initiate" but HOW do I initiate?

Google Kino and Escalation and spend an hour or so watching videos on those topics. I promise if you don't know the secret language of women it will blow your mind.

sh0ckley · 2017-05-04T13:35:04+00:00

Initiate whenever you want and then learn from what transpires. Success or failure.

Timing matters and was one of the more recent revelations to me, post improvement.

The final hard no's I received were the result of my own inappropriate attempts. Your wife is not a hooker. Yeah sounds obvious but I possess idiocy in the third degree.

Title	When to initiate?
Author	eyeswideshut73
Upvotes	2
Comments	43
Date	May 3, 2017 1:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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