Alpha → Cuck → Alpha?

lietruth · 2017-01-09T17:29:53+00:00

I want to regain control of things.

I think you gave that chance away when you encouraged your wife to fuck other dudes. There's no gaining back control of this. She sees you as a cuck. Very little respect for you now.

TRP is not a forum for Cuckhold relationships. At the core, it's a men's improvement sub to increase sexual interactions. Not the place for these questions.

haveagoodlaugh · 2017-01-09T17:45:26+00:00

what's with all the cuck trolls lately

Metalgear222 · 2017-01-09T19:00:08+00:00

It is YOUR responsibility to be managing your bitch. If you let her get away with it once, she will assume she can do it again. Practically unsalvageable. I'd recommend opening the relationship and start fucking as many girls as possible or get a divorce. I just don't see you regaining control after that. Maybe with a fuck-ton of dread and constantly being around hotter women. That's about it.

LewisCross · 2017-01-09T17:43:24+00:00

The only men who are truly able to pull off swinging, are men who are well above their wives in sexual market value. I don't think you can regain control over this. I think your wife likes fucking the BBC, and she doesn't want to stop.

The only way to really regain control of this is to close up the marriage on her end while you continue having sex with other women. She's not going to go for that, at all, particularly when you've had a long history of having it two way open.

Right now she sees no reason she should stop. This thing is out of your control now, and i don't see any way you get that back short of closing up her end of the marriage.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-09T19:26:31+00:00

Although you do have a very unique situation, I suppose the idea remains the same.
You gave up power in the relationship and hence she's challenging your lead and seemingly she managed to manipulate you into asking her to fuck the guy.

The solution is to take the power again. You do that by demonstrating you hold very high value and by resorting to dread.

Just bear in mind demonstrations of higher value are the classic displays of manhood, and being insecure about her partners or accepting them isn't one. Actually, that's quite a display of lower value.
Also, even though your sexual interest in other women won't work as dread for her, your willingness to leave her for them might.

nastynickdr · 2017-01-09T23:12:30+00:00

This is fucked up man. This relationship is fucked up. But ts really up to you to accept this or not. Are you fine with being a cuck or not? If not, you walk. Theres is a very high chance she will be screwing behind your back. You are better off starting fresh again if you want a "normal" relationship.

Look, if you have the fantasy of big cock guys banging chicks, get some plates and call them up when you wanna watch them get ravaged by big black cocks. But you dont need to commit to the whore. You wont gain anything from that.

Also, if you read TRP theory, you will see this is the best scenario for your wife. She gets to fuck big black cocks whenever she wants, and has her safe hubby at home waiting for her. She gags on some huge cock and the dude just sends her home to hubby. Hubby has to provide, deal with her women problems, PMS, drama, family problems, fix her shit, loses 50% if the marriage goes to shit and all that comes together with marriage. Good for the woman, bad for the man.

thecaper420 · 2017-01-09T21:16:44+00:00

There's no un-cucking yourself bud. You're a cuck to her and nothing else. It's done and over with. Move on.

recovering_man · 2017-01-10T17:40:28+00:00

You probably like that cuckold bullshit because you've watched cuckold porn and decided to try it out in real life.

You can't regain "alpha" status with this person. You need to end the relationship or accept your place as a cuck. If you want to improve, end the relationship and stop watching porn. Go to a doctor and get your testosterone checked. Also do you even lift?

NolanKnowstheTruth · 2017-01-10T03:03:29+00:00

You were never Alpha to begin with, so just embrace your cuck status and hope she allows you to fuck her when she's not busy with the black dude.

Title	Alpha → Cuck → Alpha?
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Comments	28
Date	January 9, 2017 5:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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