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Alpha... Woman? Help.

whatdoidoifanything
January 6, 2015
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Title Alpha... Woman? Help.
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whatdoidoifanything
Upvotes 1
Comments 16
Date January 6, 2015 12:04 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2rgggb/alpha_woman_help/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/alpha-woman-help.192641
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[–][deleted] 6 points6 points6 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Ermgotthis0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Man, that date seemed like so much fun, i'd have loved to give it a try !

[–]codex5611 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

fuck you

Well fuck you too!

[–]whatdoidoifanything[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

My hind sight retort was going to be: 'You mean you arent a cross dresser because Its hard to tell.' words to that effect.

[–]K3R3G31 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What kind of stuff did she do to you in bed?

[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Wadda YOU think, butch?"

[–]trptrptrptrp0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am also in the situation of dealing with an alpha woman. She isn't as bad as yours. Naturally, she acts like a woman however she sometimes forces herself to be alpha. I can't remember the context exactly but I actually told her that she was acting like a man the other day and showed her that I was turned off.

Maybe we can share some experiences or something.

[–]erniesmoove0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Read and re-read the "Shittest encyclopedia".

[–]Johnny10toes0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

George Michael? No Michael Jackson. Get it right Ellen.

[–]iamirishpat0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Some women are hard to handle. If you can't handle it, you cant. Don't sweat it. Usually these women. Put out after 1-2 dates so just pump and dump.

[–]Rafinesque2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I met a woman like this, but somehow managed to handle it perfectly. She told me later that it was the first time she felt like a guy had the upper hand on her from the beginning.

She did put out on the second date, and admitted she wanted to on the first. We dated for about a month and she was a freak in the bedroom, but she convinced me that dating that kind of woman long term won't work. She was 100% into herself and a LTR would have been a disaster. (She also had all the signs of a woman that TRP says is bad relationship material - short hair, lots of tattoos, piercings, you name it. But damn if it wasn't worth it for a month)

[–]Real_Patriot0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

  • She asked you something

  • She called you something

  • She made jokes at your expense

  • She asked your waiter for something for yourself

  • She said "Let's go to mine"

  • She is controlling the interactions from what I see. They are shit tests and attempts to control the conversation/joke/activity/destination, which is the man's job.

  • She has given you shit tests and you have failed most, if not all.

Read Shit Tests 101 and use it. Also, lead. Don't let her lead. If she tries to lead or poke fun at you, use of the methods and stop her.

Next time she says "she said lets go to mine" that may be what you want, but block her a bit first, show some abundance and detachment. Right

[–]whatdoidoifanything[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I know about shit test, ultimately what caught me off guard was her forcefulness how full on she was and how blunt and offense she could be.

Normally I handle it fine but this time around I crumpled like a paper bag. Once she knocked my confidence off in the first 10 or so minutes I was playing catch up, and eventually my confidence was destroyed.

I have absolutely no intention of going near her again but it took some chick 3 hours to rip me apart. I Need to sort that out.

[–]AskTRP Endorsed Contributorbicepsblastingstud-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't feel too bad, man. You basically were thrown into the middle of one of the hardest situations to deal with.

Were it to happen again, respond just like you would to a dude busting your balls. Your responses don't have to be perfect! All you need to do is demonstrate that you're secure in yourself and can give shit back.

"Are you sure you're not gay?"

"Well... I didn't use to be, but I got drunk, fucked your mom, and to be honest that experience kind of turned me off of women. I'm willing to try again with you though." And then wink.

Or whatever. There are a million possible responses.

Again, you don't need to think of a hilarious response, just one that shows you can hang with the boys (or girl, in this case.)

Take solace in the knowledge that, having survived an absolute gauntlet of shit tests, future girls should be easy to hang with.

Edit: I see you mentioned that you were firing back, she was just getting the better of you. There's no shame in laughing at one of her jokes and changing the subject. Even just the laugh will show that you're confident enough to not get beaten down.

[–]tenientj0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You got pumped and dumped by someone with a shitload of issues. The fact that you're attracted to "alpha" femalea (she's not an obedient little girl? Too bad, those are my favorite) means you've eitber not internalized the RP or it's just not for you.

[–]harkrank 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's a bitch, treat her like a bitch. She wants you to dominate her, and judging by her behavior you could do almost anything you want with her.

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