Anyone here from post soviet union countries?

madradz · 2020-06-09T10:20:52+00:00

Since TRP is mostly Americans, I realised two things: 1. Americans are naturally much more social than Europeans, and conversation with strangers happen all the time. The posters don't realise it's much weirder here to engage a conversation with a stranger. 2. Americans are fatties, so when you happen to lift and eat right, it places you much higher on sexual market, compare to Europe, where being somewhat fit is not as rare.

2020-06-09T04:44:30+00:00

I live in one of those countries. Actually, I can say that (according to my experiences) there are almost 1% game players in my country (believe it or not). Yeah, there are some Chads but they don't have any game. That's why this fact makes work easy for me.

redhawkes · 2020-06-09T05:23:59+00:00

I am. USA and Europe were waaaaay easier for me in terms of approaching girls than my country. The majority of girls will reject anyone because they don't be seen as sluts. As one girl told me "I reject everyone. If a man really likes me he will try more." Doesn't mean you can't approach, it is just harder, shittests are harsher, and you have to be more persistent. But it also depends on the size of the city. The bigger the city the more easy it gets. But eventually it all boils down to your SMV and your frame.

sam5668843 · 2020-06-09T04:03:28+00:00

Not in those countries but why not seek out woman through mutual family or friends? Or social gatherings or parties or clubs. Any common Avenue

Vouch33r · 2020-06-09T05:59:45+00:00

I'm from Poland.

for example greeting a stranger is fine in states, when in Bulgaria makes you look like a weirdo.

Yes, here too. So day game is almost inexistent. Apart from that, girls work the same.

harbinger1945 · 2020-06-09T08:28:01+00:00

Guy from Czech Republic here - I am not gaming women in Prague but rather small cities(and yes I am a huge nerd and gamer - you can tell just by my reddit activity lol)

Anyway..what would say is that it heavily depends on a type of women you meet. In a city where I live its kind of a shitshow, few girls that are actually worth pursuing are either in relationship or complete sluts.
Some of these girls have incredibly inflated ego(they know they are hot), so talking to them is just pain in the ass(or maybe I just suck at small talk with specific type of women).

What i consider good positive is that most of the girls are fit and really good looking, almost no whales, so your chances are significantly higher than in western countries.

One thing I want to note - I am not where I want to be - both physically and mentally - and I unfortunately fucked up like 2 weeks ago when I got too drunk so I guess I will have to change a city just to reset reputation that got giant hit lol

I also would say that americans would be at advantage here as people who are more social have better and easier time with girls(which I guess is a norm everywhere). And not every guy here is like that - we are usually much more closed, and those who are not just stand out more and girls are significantly more receptive to that.

e36masterrace · 2020-06-09T07:17:01+00:00

Bulgaria or balkans in general is extreme mode. Entitled and attitude to the sky.

alleyteris · 2020-06-09T05:54:01+00:00

I'm not from a post soviet country but I'm in Europe,. Basic rules apply to. Women here as well. What I gathered now is that women from said countries tend to also like a tint of beta game and mostly looking for an alpha bucks. Here in my country it's like a mix of traditional women who want an alpha bucks, and women who are like their American counterparts that can be gamed the same

buttgoogler · 2020-06-09T10:09:20+00:00

There are more real men coming from post-soviet countries. I barely see obese men, almost every dude i know either lifts or into some kind of sport.

ddd1337 · 2020-06-09T07:35:07+00:00

I'm from Lithuania, before covid I've been cold approaching some girls. First approaches were awkward but that's how we learn, others were more fun and successful. Even though girls looked shocked at first when I approached them, they were still happy afterwards and even few of them contacted me first.

There is one thing I'll agree with you more girls live in a fantasies and they want to lock their man into relationship, they don't understand that plate/fwb type of relationship can work, so they rarely see it as a option, but as your SMV gets higher it gets easier to game girls, everywhere, so just keep raising it.

Yes, USA is a bit easier, but it doesn't matter RP doesn't work in your country, you can still have fun there as well, you will just need to put more game in it.

CaptDeadlift · 2020-06-09T12:13:30+00:00

Post soviet country citizen checking in ✅

There are visible differences and biggest one imo is the liberalism vs conservatism.

By that I mean most of the country is conservative except the big cities that lean towards liberalism way more.

In the conservative area women have high standards but also hoes are far and few between while in the big cities you could snatch up easily women due to the sheer abundance and easy going mentality of people there.

The west has leaked it's "culture" throughout the whole world and not in a good way imo.

I still prefer women who hold back on their primal urges as so do I and finding such women is getting harder and harder.

Compared to the US even our big city life girls are better but their standards are high af.

If you ain't got a blowing physique (face+body)and charm then you better be stacked otherwise say goodbye to the good looking women from here.

I can definitely agree on the fact that women are better here and by that I mean most US men would love a woman from here compared to what they got over there.

Unfortunately most of them are going down the wrong path and playing niggas left and right already due to vast abundance.

Enjoy the decline because I've been looking for the unicorn far too long.

schtaz · 2020-06-09T08:09:31+00:00

I'm Brazilian born but I live in the USA and a few years ago I was studying in Portugal and became friends with many Slovenian girls. We would go out to bars and clubs very often. More than one of my Slovenian friends insinuated/said things like "you're so easy", "you give guys too much attention", "you're always so flirty with everyone", "you're so cheesy" but like... I don't think I am! I think that maybe Brazilian/American girls are more "open" to talk to strangers than girls from Post Soviet countries?

Actually, I don't really know because there so many countries and so many girls, I can't give an answer based on the girls I know haha

Plazma_doge · 2020-06-09T12:30:54+00:00

I am from Bulgaria, Bulgarian chicks are mega sluts age 12-18. They turn into 30+ post wall USA chicks when they hit 18-22.

KillaJewels · 2020-06-09T14:32:01+00:00

If your frame dictates that it isn't weird to approach (confidence), then it won't be weird. So long as you're not being socially uncalibrated or approaching with a needy or "I want something from you" mindset, you should be good.

Redditorsheaven · 2020-06-09T15:43:51+00:00

Im from one of these countries. Money and status beats so many things. I don’t say it is 100% true always but most or the attractive girls crave money and status. I am above average in the terms of looks and money here, but somehow I am not fully satisfied with my dating life. My game is low imo. I think i lack game because of conservatism and lack of role model to observe and follow in real life. No one, absolutely very few guys do game here in real life, because of their conservative ideas and their ego. They never approach. My friends and mates never approach to a girl, even tho they’re good looking. I also think they have high ego because they cannot manage getting rejected by a girl. They think: “I can get girls from online and instagram, why should I bother?” Most of the “game” and getting girls are through instagram, where they post their high-luxury (kind of) life. So guys do not get rejected in a public and girls do meet guys without becoming “sluts”. (Win-win scenario). Also having sex for girls is considered taboo. Slut shaming is in high level for some people. Also knowing russian opens you doors, because most of the attractive girls talk in russian.

Sad_Sleeper · 2020-06-09T16:26:16+00:00

Saying Hi here(in Bulgaria) is the same as in the other countries. The women here are actually more open than in western europe,because noone does cold approaching or approaches in bars. In bars people are just poking their phones and drinking,abd puffing shisha.

dzkkne · 2020-06-09T20:52:43+00:00

I was born and grew up in post soviet country. I don’t live there anymore for a long time now.

My experience is that there isn’t much difference, with women, the difference is more in guy’s mindset.

I had these arguments with my Russian friends from uni and from back home about all this “guy pays for girl” culture etc. Whenever I come over I have no problems. My frame is that I am the way I am and do what I want and girls just follow it.

The more natural and relaxed you are the easier it is for girls to follow your lead whatever your believes are. You need to stop thinking “how do I satisfy girls because they expect X and Y from me” and be more “this is what I want and this is how I want to spend time and I will find girls who vibe with me”.

They will shit test you just to see whether you are actually cool or you are faking it. Yea and those who aren’t actually interested will fuck off.

OggySlayer · 2020-06-09T22:45:47+00:00

I’m from Estonia and currently living in New Zealand. The social difference between the two are huge. I’ve also lived in Australia for a few years before.

It’s 100% true, that social dynamics are different between ex-soviet states and the rest of the western world. It’s so easy for me to pull skanks here, yet so much harder to do the same in my country.

People are more open and social here. Genuinely more happy. Whereas in my country people are only happy during the summer. In winter everyone’s pretty much depressed and hiding at home - socializing as little as they can and just trying to survive.

That mentality is slowly changing in those ex-soviet countries, but it’ll take a few generations to see a real change.

Distractingyou · 2020-06-09T06:15:46+00:00

It all depends on context yes america is more chill but in those countrys you will find a sense of communist, familiarity and loyalty that you wont find in america

FuzzCod · 2020-06-09T08:33:59+00:00

I live in western Europe, I went out and there were 2 girls. One from Turkey and one from Lithuania (my girl). There was a group of local girls standing next to me and my mate checking us out a bit. I swear to God these foreign girls don't play around. They did the fat wing woman technique with another friend. These girls were in our mouth 5 minutes into the club.

They told us, they came in, and said I take the tall one, you take the other one. Maybe this is just Erasmus behaviour. But I've learned that slavs don't games and go to the prey immediately.

madradz · 2020-06-09T11:33:56+00:00

Couple of weeks ago, I was speaking to a chick that i know that is HB8. I asked her, what does she think if a guy approaches her on the street. She said "probably some weirdo". I asked "even if he's good looking? She "yes, doesn't matter. approach on the street with ~heey can i get to know yoou? bla bla..~. come on. Me: where do you meet new guys then? She: social circle, where else? A birthday of my friend or sumthn, i dunno haha.

Just for you people who can't beleive this shit. and this is VERY COMMON attitude of girls toward cold approach

Awkward_Adeptness · 2020-06-09T04:18:10+00:00

"Level of life" is not higher in the US. That is a stupid, tired meme that was obsolete two generations ago. The US is now officially a third-world country, and it hasn't been "united" for a while.

Lenoxhood2 · 2020-06-09T09:17:30+00:00

I am from austria, i would count it because our capital city was many years undee their control, we have a lot of game makers but they are just pretty and naturally chad, i don t know anyone who has read guides are improved hinself to a chad

RedDeAngelo · 2020-06-09T11:16:43+00:00

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Title	Anyone here from post soviet union countries?
Author	madradz
Upvotes	56
Comments	93
Date	June 9, 2020 12:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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