For all the things going for me, I have one insecurity which absolutely destroys my confidence when I focus on it. A breakdown:

Strengths:

  • Fit - I'm 6'3'', I'm at the gym 6x a week - 3x MMA, 3x lifting
  • Successful - Broke six figs before 30, recently moved to an apartment in the city surrounded by great nightlife/restaurants/bars
  • Interesting - I travel constantly, I do extreme sports, I play guitar, I go shooting, and I'm cocky-funny

The Insecurity:

  • I was born with feminine hips

When I gain fat, it goes to my hips and ass - like a woman. If I don't workout, I have a pear shaped body like Patrick Starr from Spongebob:

http://imgur.com/h41JHVK

Even so, and even though I squat regularly, I got a booty. This completely fucks me up in my game - especially when I'm about to close. If anything, I'm the one who gets LMR - not the girls.

Regardless, I've been out of the game for a bit - and it absolutely kills me. When I finally feel good about it, I look at some chad who's my size and fit, but with a normal hip width and it absolutely crushes me. A month ago, a former prospect called me up wanting to be FWB - and I broke one of Tomassi's iron rules - Never give a woman reasons not to sleep with you.

I've ONS with girls before who say 'you've got a big butt', to which I'd A&A with 'you know it - even Kim Kardashian is jealous of this booty'. They'd just laugh and never bring it up again - I guess it's one of those 'I'm fine with it -are you?' situations, but deep down it kills my inner game. It's also a reason why I actually feel much more comfortable with and prefer anonymous sex with escorts or ONS over any sort of FWB or relationship sex. Any suggestions? It makes me feel like a freak

EDIT : PIC (NSFW) - http://www.sciencephoto.com/image/618305/530wm/C0221006-Klinefelter_s_Syndrome_and_Healthy_Male-SPL.jpg

The guy on the right has similar hips to me - except I have no tits and a developed upper bod