Yesterday I had a date with a girl who I met a week earlier at university. We decided to have some drinks to get to know each other a bit better. So we drank a few beers and shot a jagermeister. When she asked what we should do next I said we should go to her place to hang out. She agreed. We end up in bed. She is hesitant at first, saying she does not want to have sex on the first date. I said she can say stop whenever she want and she can trust me. After a few minutes she asked if I had a condom, which was obviously a sign she wanted to have sex after all. And so we did.

Problem is that I had a lot of trouble getting an erection. I only had this before once when I lost my virginity and I think the main cause is the drinks we had and the fact that I really wanted to bang this girl hard to make a good first impression so I felt some kind of pressure. First time was no good, second time was no good. At some point she said "Dude....." which made me feel even a bigger pressure. Third time was for a while but when we initiated doggy I became flaccid again. After that I layed down with a big sigh, she comforted me and I said it was probably a higher power who did not want her to have sex on the first day as well. She giggled. I made some jokes about it and tried to show that I was not affected about what just happened.

So now I am kind of in dubio. Should I act like nothing happened? Keep the elephant in the room? Should I worry about if she wants to see me again? Would like to see her again since she has a great body.

I could use some perspective on this.

25/01/16 E: Girl said she had a great time but was not interested in seeing me again. Oh well.