Found a "unicorn"?

stickfiguresk · 2016-10-09T15:49:47+00:00

Unicorns are called unicorns because they don't exist. Stop being a fag.

jb_trp · 2016-10-09T15:57:47+00:00

Unicorns don't exist and there's no such thing as a perfect girl.

itsmacyesitsmac · 2016-10-09T15:55:09+00:00

Jesus dude listen to yourself. Pathetic.

PS she is not a virgin.

MMABouncer · 2016-10-09T15:17:10+00:00

So, let's recap. Woman is a virgin, because that can NEVER be faked. Woman is never initiating contact. And now woman is MIA. I'd say your viewpoint on this situation is extremely skewed, from the oneitis. Take a step back, and start with how you were probably tricked into her being a virgin, and go from there.

Metalgear222 · 2016-10-09T16:56:16+00:00

Stop forgetting realz over feelz. Always be ready to take a L. That follow up text is beta af. You have options. Use them

Sir_Distic · 2016-10-09T17:41:47+00:00

Let her go. Just ghost her not hard next.

No there are no unicorns. Not even for you snowflake.

Just keep living your life. If she contacts, cool. If not, meh. There's others.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-10-09T18:43:46+00:00

Text her just saying "Hey hope all is good"

I see where you went wrong.

Incidentally, I have a similar plate. She vanished for four days because of a phone issue, and was all "DIDN'T YOU MISS ME?!?!"

The most she ever gets out of me is "Yah, maybe a little." It's frustrating has hell for her, but simultaneously, she eats that shit up with a spoon.

Anyway, you need to go radio silent, now, and reconnoiter.

Willow-girl · 2016-10-09T17:30:14+00:00

Does your social circle resemble a Venn diagram? In other words, what are the odds that she found out about your other plates? That's the obvious thing that could have gone wrong, causing her to break off all contact. Even if you don't/didn't have a verbal agreement to be exclusive, it's possible that a girl who gave up her virginity to a guy -- at 20! -- may have assumed exclusivity (where none existed). Don't confess to any crimes you haven't actually been accused of, though!

Also, don't panic just yet ... maybe she dropped her phone in the bathtub or something. It happens! I think you'd be justified in casually dropping by her place to see if everything's OK since you couldn't reach her. You'll know in a hurry if she's pissed off at you, lol.

For future reference -- and this probably goes against what RP teaches -- there is a risk to not locking down a good girl fast. What looks good to you is bound to look good to a whole bunch of other guys, too. There is a fine line to walk between properly vetting someone and taking so much time to make up your mind that you let them get away.

Willow-girl · 2016-10-09T18:10:26+00:00

Oh, I'll add to the previous: do any of your friends know you were spinning plates? Any possibility one of them ratted you out in hopes of wiping away her tears with his dick?

oldslut · 2016-10-09T20:24:44+00:00

you turn into a little girlie after some mythical virgin unicorn sweats you a bit--wow, talk about no frame. maybe she met some new guy. maybe she is trying to make you jealous. maybe she is just busy, like you should be instead of worrying about shit like this.

forget about the whole thing. hit up one of your plates, or work on finding another unicorn, and forget about it. i know, considering the anxiety in your OP, that won't be easy, but it's necessary.

when she does come around, don't give her any shit. play it cool and slightly cold. definitely don't run to her the first chance she gives you. then have a step back and take stock of why and how you became such a pussy.

[deleted] · 2016-10-10T04:18:46+00:00

how do you confirm a girl is a virgin tho. ive had sex with girls where they were so tight i could barely fit it in, and they admited they weren't virgins and had sex a few times before. if a girl doesn't fuck for ages she gets tight. im only slightly above average so its not that. isn't it a complete myth that there i ssome test to prove virginity in girls?

[deleted] · 2016-10-10T04:20:22+00:00

also for all we know she could be fkn dead or in hospital, or just lost her fucking phone, or who knows. many logical reasons why she didn't answer for that long. i mean she simply just hasn't replied in two days, and its out of character for her.

Pillredpopper · 2016-10-10T17:40:44+00:00

This post reeks of neediness. If she never initiates contact with you shes not tinglin' even if you hang out. Sounds like you are an orbiter, and oribiters hang out with hot girls all the time. If you've been reading trp material for 5 years, then you should know what you are doing is wrong. Sack up and quit being one of her girlfriends.

hockeytown187 · 2016-10-10T16:22:22+00:00

I saw the title to this post and i immediately knew the downvote button was gonna get molested by trp community lmfao

detachedbymarriage · 2016-10-11T18:32:56+00:00

A unicorn is nothing more than a fool with an ice cream cone stuck to their head

quicklogaccount · 2016-10-09T15:54:36+00:00

No, you haven't. Now I'll read your post.

Man, it seems you found a decent woman. Hooray, I guess most men will spend a life without ever doing so.
First observation I'll make is, even decent woman, AWALT. Even virgins, you see it on the main sub. She'll swing to a better branch, and she'll nag and pester and betafy all the same. A 9.8/10 intelligent and rational girl won't make it easier for you, she'll make it harder. The only reason for her to make it easier for you is having some issues, be them a poor CONSCIOUS awareness of relationship dynamics (underneath she should know it just fine) or some other relevant issues. Daddy, image, fanatic christian or insecurity. Anyway, if it's easy, whatever causes is something that harms her and it should go away, and once it does, AWALT.
LTRs are hard game. Nothing changes that. The girl has to make up for that. I'll assume your girl does.

That put, a CC riding woman on your place would string him along for as long she felt the need to ride the CC, through keeping him close, giving IOIs, shitty dating advice and maybe busting his balls a bit if needed, until after a few years she wanted her BB.
Don't be a CC riding woman. Be fucking better.

What is that you want?
Do you want the LTR? Do it. You know the price of pussy, you're in a good position to asses her worth now, you probably know well enough how to prevent things from going south. LTRs aren't inherently bad, they're just hard and most often guys are clueless on just how much they're wasting on them while remaining unfulfilled. I guess you're aware of this though, and will know how to play one.

Or you don't want an LTR, you just want to keep your freedom, let the spelunker explore new caves without being morally wrong. So, don't fucking string the girl along, let her go, preferably in a fashion you don't fucking Alpha widow her for years, and be happy.

Personally, if you have a couple chicks on the side, has been on the game long enough and know how to play the LTR game (the theory at least), and still got fucking oneitits, I'd give it a shot.
Same old stuff applies. SHE initiates the talk, even in an "where do we stand" fashion, keep your head is over your neck and not on your heart or penis, and do it.

Now, regarding her current behavior. One isolated event doesn't mean shit. It could mean shit on a black belt CC rider, but even in that case it could be paranoia.
Just as long as you have abstraction, abundance and awareness enough to prevent yourself from "forgiving" her shit and red flags, things are cool.

InBaggingArea · 2016-10-09T14:47:04+00:00

Good question. I have no general answer, except I reckon something happened, like her phone ran out of charge or something, or she had a family emergency.

TheRedStoic · 2016-10-09T15:20:02+00:00

This is the first time that happened?

No biggie. Not a trend. Maybe something serious actually happened, or there was a carrier failure, or she lost her charger. Who knows.

I would never resort to excuses, but sometimes life happens. If it becomes a trend in any way shape or form, then you know what to do.

So let's break it down;

No noticeable red flags
virgin
follows but doesn't nag
this is the first time you haven't been priority 1, and that's presuming it wasn't something legit.

Yeah, her actions so far give her a pass on this one. Not if it continues. I know you're remembering AWALT, as you should. Even though she's been great so far she may swap up. For now you're doing everything right. (You have other girls, you're not trying to buy her, etc).

See where it leads.

Title	Found a "unicorn"?
Author	yaiamtheguy777
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	October 9, 2016 2:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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