Found TRP, started lifting, lost weight - still fat and feeling more insecure than ever. Monk mode?

jojojijo333 · 2019-12-26T17:36:44+00:00

Mon-Fri: 1

Sat-Sun: 2

FootballFan4629 · 2019-12-26T17:16:24+00:00

Number 2.

gyunbie · 2019-12-26T17:21:00+00:00

Well if you can pull her to bed with the shirt on, there's nothing to discuss here.

SalporinRP · 2019-12-26T17:35:02+00:00

Congrats on the weight loss dude!

A few questions before I give some advice:

Are you on a skin-care regime? If so, describe it.
Have you been to a dermatologist?
You have obviously changed your eating since you are losing weight but what does your diet consist of?
What are your fitness/physique goals?

TigerTamingSword · 2019-12-26T17:24:05+00:00

Fuck in the dark

Jokes aside, girls can be extremely forgiving of your shortcomings if your game is on point and they like you. No need to postpone your sex life until you reach an arbitrary goal that exists only in your head. But, by all means, keep making an effort to lose weight.

iamgroot333 · 2019-12-27T00:51:38+00:00

dude you look fine. it's not even anything that major. obviously if you lost more weight you'd look even better and the spots aren't ideal. but frankly bro, you're a guy, you don't need to be pretty. let her handle that part.

it's not anything grotesque or shit it just looks like skin blemishes. the before picture is fucked up tbf but the current way you look is regular tbh.

Aokp · 2019-12-26T18:21:58+00:00

Just own it up you're on a good path so keep going

theUnBannableHulk · 2019-12-26T18:38:21+00:00

Grats on the improvement brah. Don't give up, you're getting there and you already sound more aware.

You went from being a phatass to being a chubby fuck and next step is jacked beast 👍🏻

TRP_Scepter · 2019-12-26T19:08:53+00:00

First of all; great progress.

Second of all, to answer your question you need to ask yourself; are you trying to change yourself to make yourself a high-value man and earn your self-respect? Or, are you doing it to chase some tail? If it's the former, go monk mode. If it's any other reason, you're gonna end up rationalizing it and you'll probably end up doing "3."

Bushinatordid420 · 2019-12-26T19:15:15+00:00

How old are you if I may ask Did you have any keloids ? If so how did you get rid of them

Iluvalmonds83 · 2019-12-26T19:46:25+00:00

Good Advice already given but just Gotta give compliments where it’s due. Great job on actually executing on the improvement. You are doing what most fail to do. Keep doing what you’re doing; some insecurity about the loose skin as you continue to get leaner will happen and how you deal with that is up to you, but so long as you’re not slipping on the mission, don’t feel like you need to go into monk mode.

theunconquored · 2019-12-26T22:18:46+00:00

Do what you want to do.

Sometimes, things get worse before they get better. Sometimes, you'll have bad days even in the middle of a hell of a good life. Sometimes, you'll keep your shirt on. Sometimes you'll not give a fuck.

This is your life, not anyone else's. You're not making it out alive. Just don't wait to start living until you reach some place where you think you'll feel better. You feel better by living and getting better.

You sure don't need our advice on what you should do. Make your best decision today, then make another decision tomorrow based on what you learned.

BROqal · 2019-12-26T22:20:20+00:00

Why do you feel more insecure? You look much better, keep it up man.

LeChumScrubber · 2019-12-26T22:39:59+00:00

wear a wifebeater when you fuck bitches thats ultimate sleazecore

comcain · 2019-12-27T00:50:59+00:00

Nice work, keep it up!

athrowaway-9001 · 2019-12-27T06:42:49+00:00

Monk mode should be done if you want to improve just yourself to build something more tangible instead of spending so much resources for girls.

You should be able to turn it off and on like a switch according to your own needs that you want for your own future. Own up to the work you need to put in if you want to fulfill the vision you have in mind for yourself.

Despite being a fat ass...

You have trouble living in your own skin and need to work on being accepting of yourself and of what is. Understand that all girls will have different niches that they will find attractive in a man, but again you need to find what you want for yourself. In this case - it seems you want to lose some more weight (and you are and it shows) but it isn't enough for you; knowing this, you know what you need to do and put in the work.

I know it’ll turn off any girl to see me in all my current glory.

Again it's all in your head. Most people will not look good with their clothes off. In fact its subjective depending on the person you ask. What you can control is the view you have for yourself.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-12-27T06:58:24+00:00

Get over the 'poor me' bullshit. You're too ego invested. Too worried about what women will think right now.

You lost all that weight for chicks, or for you? I surely hope it's the latter.

Write some goals, form a workout plan, get your nutrition in order. Get to your desired weight in 6 months max. What's your lifting program, what's your macros numbers? Give us some details.

You have done well losing weight. Respect. However, you still look fat and like you don't lift.

I'm not being an asshole. You have a choice to sit in low self esteem, or put together a plan moving forward.

Stop talking to us like you're a bitch. Solve the problem.

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2019-12-26T20:38:02+00:00

enjoy tutorial island once you lose weight

crewk1lla · 2019-12-26T21:20:16+00:00

Have you considered hopping on gear? Your body is unsalvageable without maybe 4years+ of perfect training diet and sleep without it.

Title	Found TRP, started lifting, lost weight - still fat and feeling more insecure than ever. Monk mode?
Author	trp1223
Upvotes	14
Comments	30
Date	December 26, 2019 5:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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