From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second Dates

44361066 · 2019-06-23T13:54:17+00:00

After I got some success with women, I started to develop thirst due to the positive feedback. I’d show intent and escalate quickly, which made me repulsive, whereas even in my inexperienced days I wouldn’t make such dumb mistakes.

Red pill is two steps ahead one step back I assume.

HumbleTrees · 2019-06-23T17:30:53+00:00

Same position. Makes me wonder if trp is actually counter productive. It feels and sounds better than the blue pill. But I get less than I sued to before it

Kakkamaki · 2019-06-23T14:50:14+00:00

You have become "alpha" instead of real person. Reading red pill does that to you.

SoftVillage · 2019-06-23T14:08:05+00:00

Could be the age of the women. Thirties women are looking more for the provider type, 20s women are more about the tingles. If you are acting like an IDGAF, big dick, ego through the roof chad while the girl is looking for a guy to marry its not going to work.

RossDDMarshalls · 2019-06-23T14:33:59+00:00

You're leaving out a lot of information. What's happening on these dates?

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-06-24T10:04:01+00:00

Ask yourself what's different in how you interact with girls now, compared to the past?

Something was working before, and you lost it.

Don't follow this shit religiously. If it ain't broken, don't fix it. Maybe you come off like a jerk now ..red pill can make you believe being normal, human, accessible is somehow beta. Then you end up in a dry spell.

Find the grey area.

Red pill is a collection of all different observations, behaviours and effects from different guys, at different times, all examples happening miles apart.

You put them all together on a sidebar, and dudes start trying to do Redpill on steroids. It's superficial, a mask and inauthentic.

You have to be cool, laid back, human. You bring out some red pill knowledge if and when you need it.

Ask yourself how your Redpill behaviour may be seen by other people. What is the effect on others? Less is much much more in the dating game.

FinancialFeed · 2019-06-23T15:30:56+00:00

Looks like you have become “alpha” instead of a real person. Drop the Chad act. You can still hold frame without being Chad.

hot_soup19 · 2019-06-23T22:52:09+00:00

u get fat?

budfox26 · 2019-06-24T01:13:21+00:00

Interesting post. I am suffering from the exact same thing as you. I want to hear more from the posters who have said 'you are alpha male instead of a real person' or 'you are chad now'. I need more explanation on this.

cursedflame · 2019-06-23T16:46:45+00:00

I have The same issue, you're Chad you know what a Chad and how a Chad is so now you are him. But you are not yourself like as in a person. It boggles my mind even typing it like this but i did/do The same. Now you must become a Chad that is you instead of just Chad.

trytobiz · 2019-06-23T14:20:07+00:00

It also makes me wonder - what kind of shitty person you need to be - to ghost me after the first date.This happened with few girls now. Im not thirsty and i text 2-3 days later.

We met, had a nice conversation. Then ghost? I can never imagine behaving like this. This is subhuman behavior.

Title	From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second Dates
Author	trytobiz
Upvotes	20
Comments	57
Date	June 23, 2019 1:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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