Been in the pick up community for years but still new to Red pill! Noticed I trend where whenever I show interest on a date or even a plate (and this is not even a needy vibe but genuine human interest/connection, they seem to lose interest). I mean I definitely understand that women like emotionally unclear men/bad boys but at what point can I show some interest loll. The only other thing I can compare this to is when I date a girl who is few notches under me (like a 6/10 girl), I would literally give them 0 compliments and ignore them and they would come back with 10/10 interest. However, I *tolerated* hanging out with them.

Why am I having such a hard time actually dating girls who I actually connect with (interests, lifestyle, passions etc.) while there are non-red pill aware/blue pill guys who show way more interest, validation etc. even saying "I love you" to their gf's (something I've never said in my life) and are experiencing long term relationships, short term plates, fwb's etc. while I'm just barely managing a few plates and losing the new girls I get. Any advice? Thanks!