Girlfriend Behaved Inappropriately, How do i respond?

FrameWalker · 2016-06-07T17:25:39+00:00

Dude shes a gonner. Topless on social media is hard next wake up. Your reputation is at risk

tslextslex · 2016-06-07T21:19:47+00:00

Drunk. Drunk in public. Undressed in public. Undressed on social media. Out with guys after she said there'd only be girls.

Seriously, what more do you need to next her? Does she have to combine all these in one act? Pictures of her drunk, naked and in flagrante dilecto on social media?

Next.

abdada · 2016-06-07T16:31:34+00:00

You don't make it clear, you just downgrade her to the plate she is.

Stop fskcing investing in women who get drunk or drink socially. They're NOT LTR material.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-06-08T00:29:06+00:00

Dude dude dude.

She's getting drunk, she's smoking weed, she's getting shitfaced and she's on the verge of showing her tits. These two guys were attractive and new for her (she tried to impress them) and she's already planning to leave you.

That's why she's starting to party again like she hasn't done in a while. That's what the whole 'taking off her shirt' thing was about. She's implementing lady game and looking for her next Chad or Branch swing.

Break up with her- right now

Offer no other explanation than "this isn't working for me, you're not my type after all".

Then soft next and cut contact. If she explodes- hard next.

summervijx · 2016-06-07T19:09:24+00:00

If clothes are coming off, and you ain't at the beach or in the bedroom, then she's not LTR material.

nastynickdr · 2016-06-07T18:08:16+00:00

Not LTR material man. Plate at best.

airmaildolphin · 2016-06-07T19:35:03+00:00

Why did she post those pics and vids online if not to attract attention from men? So, what I'm saying is, who cares if there were men at the party or not. In her drunken state, she was deliberately trying to get attention from guys who are not you. Case closed.

waspynerd · 2016-06-07T18:02:07+00:00

IMO, she just demonstrated she's not LTR material. Why date a girl like this when there's others out there that will respect you?

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-06-07T21:13:14+00:00

You cannot control her behavior. If you don't like it, then leave. Just pack up your shit and leave. If it's your place, then pack her shit up and leave it on the lawn.

You don't have to tell her that her behavior is unacceptable to you. You don't have to demand that she change. But you don't have to be with her if you don't want to be. That is the extent of your power and control.

Exercise it.

returnofthemackX · 2016-06-07T18:35:32+00:00

Do you really want this shit by your side?

banica24 · 2016-06-07T22:40:49+00:00

If you've been together less than a year your give a fuck o'meter should be at -20

If you start complaining / clinging / showing signs of jealousy her vagina will dry up for you and she really will branch to another dude (if she hasn't done so already)

You shouldn't have to negotiate shit, one of the best TRP pieces of advice I accepted - if she's not your mother you should reveal nothing about your feelings. At least in early stages of remotely considering getting exclusive with a girl. Your confidence, gains and witty/clever behavior should be seen from miles away and when it is she won't dare thinking of fucking up.

mordanus · 2016-06-08T00:49:54+00:00

Today, she called and apologized, and told me there were two guys who she did not know were coming beforehand

That's the beginning of a trickle truth if i ever heard it.

they smoked weed and left, according to her.

Yeah... right.

Dig a little bit for your own entertainment and experience. Keep poking and asking questions and watch the actual truth come out. It should be a good lesson for you for AWALT and let you know what you are into for the next woman.

ouselesso · 2016-06-08T00:01:44+00:00

Plate or next. It's a done deal.

F_Dingo · 2016-06-08T02:36:01+00:00

they smoked weed and left, according to her

They smoked weed, fucked, then the two guys left. What a load of shit.

You've got two rational options here:

1) Demotion to casual fuck status

2) Zero further interaction with her

willyari · 2016-06-08T00:28:07+00:00

Break up.

Jakei34 · 2016-06-08T01:07:11+00:00

So like your LTR had just rehearsed to see if she's true LTR material. There are other bitches lined up behind her, wanting you badly.

Unfortunately, she shows that she is not LTR value.

NEXT

Redpillgawd · 2016-06-08T03:53:10+00:00

She also lied to you she def knew guys were there probably blew one as well

eccentricrealist · 2016-06-08T09:04:19+00:00

She doesn't respect you or herself enough to keep her fucking top on. Forget that bitch.

chief_slap_ahoe · 2016-06-08T09:47:03+00:00

Pull the girlfriend card. She no longer is worthy of it.

Yoji_84 · 2016-06-08T15:41:39+00:00

I am amazed you even came here to ask that. That's such a blatant disrespect that it's not even funny. Hard next her now.

ecosci · 2016-06-10T00:28:38+00:00

Those alphas fucked her and she knew about them being there she had her lies already lined up remember dont ever trust them and protect your heart.

BenOfMahogany · 2016-06-10T01:41:01+00:00

Get rid of her immediately. Downgrade or soft next. Just don't let people know you hit it

ShreckOpener88 · 2016-06-13T19:16:49+00:00

Hardenn Up

bigdickbanditss · 2016-07-06T01:23:16+00:00

The best response was to go for the door immediately

The second best is to do it now.

JrockMem10 · 2016-06-08T01:24:55+00:00

According to TRP standards, she is a normal woman. Are you planning on marring her? Are you fucking other women? If you want to keep fucking this one then I'd say tell her you saw the pics and that you found it disgraceful. Let her know that you have higher standards for your fuck bunnies. She may learn and if not, then next her. Otherwise if you are concerned about other men looking at your woman then you might want to examine your personal insecurity issues bruh. Women aren't known for their smart decision making. But they are known for being a ton of fun, at least the awesome ones. She's young and single and she wants to be set free from something that she doesn't understand. Do you understand or are you trying to play a game when you haven't fully grasped the rules?

blacwidonsfw · 2016-06-08T18:28:03+00:00

She's not your girlfriend. Find a better girl instead of a trashy hoe pimping herself on social media. Low quality man.

Title	Girlfriend Behaved Inappropriately, How do i respond?
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Date	June 7, 2016 4:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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