How do girls detect chads so easily?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-25T13:06:05+00:00

Millennia of evolution.

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-25T11:52:01+00:00

Even I have a similar build and appearance as these guys but I never get the same reaction from girls.

These guys have body language, no quirks nor twitches. No signs of pedestalizing the way they speak as well. Add "female company", pre selection to that, and they'll be overtly approached.

Personally, the "way you talk" thing pisses me off. I'm used to speak correctly, to EVERYONE. Nerd issue. And WAY too many girls read this as artificial or telegraphing interest.

purduered · 2017-01-25T12:31:07+00:00

When you are interacting with these females what it going through your mind? Is your motive and mindset on trying to attract women or get interest? Chads just go about communication with people naturally and don't really think about "is she into me". They generally assume attraction. Women are great at picking up on this. It's a level of confidence that is rare.

AnjaJutta · 2017-01-25T13:23:31+00:00

Here's something noone mentioned. Girls talk to each other. By the time high school Chad #23 approaches a girl, she already heard he is the captain of the football team and how he knocked out some other kid with a single punch. Reputation gives tingles.

[deleted] · 2017-01-25T14:53:20+00:00

If you are above average looking and not awkward very few girls will respond badly.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-01-25T11:39:03+00:00

High T and probably a perfect place in the personality spectrum. Not needy, interested, not too interested, good body language. A friend of mine is a natural alpha and never been 'that bothered' about women as they came to him so easily. Those traits are how I'd describe him.

vorverk · 2017-01-25T14:13:58+00:00

You and me are naturally 10x stronger than women. We don't have to train hard or be exceptionally strong to arm wrestle or outrun (virtually) any female. It comes naturally.

Women, however, are 10x better at reading social cues and scanning for good alpha seed. They don't need to train their social intelligence, this comes naturally to them. Small mannerisms, the way they walk, the tone of voice, the reaction of others on them... They subconsciously read all that and they don't even know it.

MattyAnon · 2017-01-25T13:07:19+00:00

Even I have a similar build and appearance as these guys but I never get the same reaction from girls.

You probably don't have similar looks, but also confidence and charm counts for a lot and is communicated fast.

"detect chads" isn't really the phrase though. You think they are chads because girls find them attractive.

You really want to know WHAT it is that girls are finding attractive.

El_Shakiel · 2017-01-25T12:18:08+00:00

I'm prertty sure that somehow, to some extent, T-levels, hormones and other chemicals we have no control over do have an impact.

There was a (french) study about that, where females were asked to rate dudes on their physical attractiveness, and then blindfoldly rate their t-shirts worn for a day, based on smell/scent. Results were surprising. I'll update if I find it.

mordanus · 2017-01-25T17:04:06+00:00

This is where they talk about confidence. Those guys believe in themselves and they do so because they have had lots of success in the past. Confidence is a sign to women that you are a winner because if you fail then you doubt yourself and are hesitant in your approaches and endeavors. If you are a failure you have no confidence.

So you need to have real confidence in yourself and not try to fake it. So go find things to succeed at and learn to not doubt yourself. Get experience winning and it changes you.

Toussant · 2017-01-25T17:14:23+00:00

Pay attention to social proof. When I'm a lone wolf, people stay away. When I'm with others looking like we're having fun, people join us. We do the same thing and just not realize it.

FrameWalker · 2017-01-25T18:26:25+00:00

Lol girls are way easier to fool than you'd think. Ive done itbyouve done it, many men lesser than either of us has done it. They use proxies for determining chad status. Learn the proxies and play the game.

joedevice · 2017-01-25T14:10:25+00:00

How does a gazelle know it's in danger? It's all just comes naturally.

Jackrabbit710 · 2017-01-25T19:30:08+00:00

Because women only really fancy the top 20% of men, the rest might as well not exist in their eyes

BestSC86 · 2017-01-26T01:34:45+00:00

Women don't...they are driven to but really have no freaking clue.

Their cluelessness makes them make rash judgments\guesses based on a few traits and very little else. Unfortunately for women, those traits are nearly exactly the same between a real chad and a freaking asshole twat. Which is why so many women end up in relationships with insufferable jackwads whom abuse them for years. Of course then the women hamster for many of those years about how "he really isn't like that...", "he is really sweet when not provoked...." and the rest.

Title	How do girls detect chads so easily?
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Date	January 25, 2017 11:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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