Since we broke up after 2 years of dating(she cheated) she's had 3 boyfriends (in 6 months) and is getting ran through like a train while I'm studying up and training. When did you finally realize you had your transformation? I've been lifting and doing BJJ and have only lost 30 lbs. I'm hoping to lose another 20 or so. I just want to be able to be happy enough to forget about her and even with all of this I'm still a 4/10 with no prospects.