"I need a break from you."

TimPartendale · 2014-11-19T20:03:24+00:00

"I need a break from you"

"Oh thank god" (smile, leave, go game other women)

"Go buy a Kit-Kat bar." (This one is just me being funny)

"I need a break from you."

"Alright." (Leave, radio silence, forget about her unless she breaks contact)

tombreck2 · 2014-11-19T15:50:44+00:00

[Fixed] I need a break from your cock.

Have you ever slowly peeled off a band aid? That's what it's going to feel like if you don't next her. Rip that sucker off.

leftajar · 2014-11-19T16:17:58+00:00

"Great, just don't expect me to take you back when you're done."

bsutansalt · 2014-11-19T18:27:27+00:00

Her: I need a break.

You: Cool. :commence no contact:

This is the ONLY way to handle this kind of situation. Your seeming complete lack of caring will sting and cause her rationalization hamster to do far better work than any carefully crafted response you might come up with. If she comes crawling back, great, spin that plate. If not then you lose nothing because she was on her way out the door anyway.

kingofpoplives · 2014-11-19T16:48:44+00:00

This means she is about to fuck another guy but doesn't want to the guilt of cheating.

True story. Just this past weekend I was hanging out with a new plate. She told me her sister just went "on a break" with her boyfriend. The reason? She said she "thought she might cheat on him".

The break is very convenient for girls. Tell beta bf we're on a break. Get to enjoy their alpha fuxs for as long as that lasts. When it's over, call back in the beta bf. And she's not even a bad person because they "weren't together".

DeputyDelicious · 2014-11-19T15:55:51+00:00

I need a break from you. Translation: I want to screw other guys. Hope you don't mind.

Women often try to climb the smv ladder by telling their beta that they "need a break". The plate theory for them is that you don't go chasing other women but instead wait patiently for her to come back to you after her having tried to gain a more successful or attractive man and failing. If she is successful however, she will make him her new beta and rinse and repeat.

So what I would do is say sure and hard next her. Find a better looking female and if she tries to get you back ever just laugh and ignore.

TRPdating · 2014-11-19T15:26:04+00:00

Activate a Tinder and OKCupid account.

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ConfidenceMatters · 2014-11-19T18:53:56+00:00

Always be prepared to walk away if this arises. If you're attractive, you should be able to get a couple of old flames/plates in your bed within the hour/day. You should also be meeting other new (soft) plates as well

Don't ever 100% drop your plates or stop charming other women. In fact, the lack of this execution is probably why she wants to get away from you.

I_trp · 2014-11-19T20:24:34+00:00

You didn't give us a lot of context, but most likely she wants to explore other options. She uses the phrase "break from you" as a security blanket that if these other option(s) don't work out, you will be waiting there for her. Armed with that knowledge, you know what your next move is. Improve yourself every day. Lift. Use your anger. The best revenge is to be better off without her.

DeaD_bAU5 · 2014-11-19T21:50:57+00:00

She is either young and stupid trying to get you to chase her, or she has lost interest.

Either way say "oh. ok"

and then ignore her and go find another couple girls to fuck

Title	"I need a break from you."
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Upvotes	6
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Date	November 19, 2014 3:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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