So, I'm LTR with this girl for about two or three months now. Saturday i've sunken my penis into soap (one possible reason), and fucked her ass (other one). Now I'm with the tip of my penis soared, and it hurts a bit to piss. Also today I think I woke up with a little pus.

I don't think she cheated on me, as she's very submissive to me, always treat me like a king, etc, and I've got this infection two other times in my life, and I've never treated. I'm thinking about asking her *just to make sure* that she doesn't cheated me. I hope that the matter of DANGER DST would make her talk? I'm feeling such a BP at not questioning her like an adult about a serious thing, I don't know what to do. If I ask, is because I care about myself and my health, but also because I have low confidence?