Is it normal to be so replaceable for girls?

DrGandu · 2020-01-06T01:22:59+00:00

This is not something you need to take personally. Look up Rollo's "War Brides" essay. Simply put, when early human tribes were conquered, women were preserved to have the conqueror's babies. So they evolved to get over their feelings much quicker than men. It's what evolution made them: no matter how much of an impact you think you might've had.

Also, I suggest looking up Briffault's Law and Rollo's connection to it with relational equity: there are none. Women define the outcome of the relationship, and no matter how much time and resources you invest in the relationship, she is never going to take that into account when dumping you.

Last but not least, the Light Switch Effect where they blame you for the emotions they experience at the time and turn off their emotions for you like a light switch.

chemical-miracle · 2020-01-06T01:21:14+00:00

Welcome to the real world, you're replaceable as is every girl you like. There is billions of people living on this planet, what makes you so special?

NickDeez · 2020-01-06T19:12:38+00:00

Once I heard Patrice O'Neal say, a girl will never leave you if she thinks you won't care.

I've found this to be true in my life.

Sounds to me like you're probably a bit needy, which happens to everyone.

But, if you can shed that, and focus on your interests, hobbies, etc instead of placing all your efforts into keeping your girl, you'll find that you become irreplaceable.

Even more,

You'll find you can get away with things you couldn't before.

Non-neediness becomes a sort of super power.

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2020-01-06T02:21:44+00:00

Everyone is expendable and replaceable. When someone better comes along, you ditch the inferior being.

SleazeballG · 2020-01-06T10:40:31+00:00

It's just business

Hungboy6969420 · 2020-01-06T01:53:01+00:00

We're all just using and abusing each other

TRPGaveMeLife · 2020-01-06T09:47:02+00:00

This is all very negative. Women are abundant and if it’s not working with one, go get another one. If you’re putting yourself across right then they’ll value you and cherish your company, but at the same time you’ve got to be wary of the Light-Switch effect. But even then, who cares?

You need to be more IDGAF - you clearly do give a fuck

PrettyBarbiePerson · 2020-01-06T01:16:08+00:00

If you think you’re replaceable you are.

I mean I guess I’m replaceable but like I’m sorta lit as fuck

All dese hoes the same everybody replaceable

Infernir · 2020-01-06T04:56:04+00:00

That's hypergamy in a nutshell. You're the guy she replaced some other past games with. Or all the other guys had their turns and she got bored of them or they started fucking him or treating her like shit or breaking frame or something.

Just like you're replaceable, so are women.

And also, though you can acknowledge this is reality you should never let it bother you... even if you had no women in your life you should be content & happy with yourself since you're the prize. A woman leaves you? Her loss, have fun lol you shouldn't give a shit no matter what. Unless you lost your way and caught a one-itis. If you think you're replaceable though it will leak into your frame, if all you have is looks, if all the relationship is about is looks they can always find a better looking guy or you could find a better looking girl. Most guys just get in LTR with girl 2 - 3 SMVs below there's. Guy is super happy since he has consistent and constant sex with no risk of STDs as long as he didn't choose a girl that slept around a lot or cheated before the relationship (vetted properly). Even then after the LTR begins you have to test her for 4 - 5 years and keep improving yourself so you hold all the power. This makes you irreplaceable in her eyes anyways. And as a man, that's the most you can get, sorry but there's billions of people out there everyone is replaceable in some sense unless you're a celebrity.

A lower SMV women will know she's already super lucky to have a man such higher SMV than her. In the beginning of such relationships she will most definitely feel insecure, about what? Who knows could be countless things, like being afraid you're just using her for sex and will drop her when you get bored of that (which if she doesn't have an attractive personality that makes you extremely happy sex aside you pretty much are).

Bokulence · 2020-01-06T12:36:45+00:00

You are a man, your life and existence is to be replaceable. Friends will replace you for better friends, or they will replace you for girlfriend, this happen to be a lot of time, i am 31 one now.

Woman, on other hand, will replace you without remorse, integrity or feelings if they find something better.

-More good looking guy

-More taller than you

-More popular than you

-More wealthier than you

So, get a tick skin and don't get it personally.

It took me a long time of depression knowing i can be replaceable in the blink of an eye.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-01-06T19:30:36+00:00

That's because you ARE replaceable, princess. You're not special or unique. Your case isn't different. She has an abundance of options and she knows it. You think you're a gift from god to women and that you're memorable. She's not yours, it's just your turn.

If you read the material here you would know this, but you don't, so you must ask stupid questions. There's a reason why we tell u guys to have multiple plates and play the field. So that you don't get too hung up on one girl, and you have no issues with moving on or "getting replaced".

KAWA_TOY · 2020-01-06T04:13:20+00:00

This should have never crossed your mind. I never think I'm replaceable. Women are the replaceable ones. Change your mindset and you'll be golden.

Snowboard18 · 2020-01-06T02:23:00+00:00

It’s very common since they generally have way more options than the average guy

XXXMersenne · 2020-01-06T13:25:54+00:00

Of course lol

Imagine your culture was constanlty feeding you the message that you've got about 30 years (if you're lucky enough to look after yourself) before it all goes downhill and you become pretty much worthless because the next batch of Fresh, young, tight girlies will replace you in a fingersnap.

Without proper (traditional) education on her role as woman she'll just do what her friends are doing; who are doing what their friends are doing, who are copying whatever degenerate fad is increaseing the bottom line at the moment.

Yes these chicks live in the moment, but behind the scenes they're constantly in a state of crisis because they know when the carousel stops they'll have no one willing to continue providing that lifestyle for them when they get off.

So yeah they gotta date around like a serial entrepreneur having "fun" while looking for the motherlode of betabux they can leech off of in the future while fucking Autist newbies who managed to pull of stuff they read on AskTRP.

Domebeers · 2020-01-06T23:18:32+00:00

Any halfway decent looking girl has a 1000 thirsty males on their phone at any time, just waiting for you to lose your place.

So yes, you are replaceable. But so is she.

bionix90 · 2020-01-06T14:37:01+00:00

This is sadly the current state of affairs. We are all replaceable. Excluding morbid obesity and severe scarring, any woman can have sex on any day of the week that ends in Y. They just need to lower their standards a little, and in bigger cities not even that.

We're all replaceable with a single swipe of their phones.

xoxuv · 2020-01-06T09:52:30+00:00

I'm not very special, but I'm not bad at all. I'd say I'm a solid 7 in looks. I am in shape, good face, got a good job, got a decent sized cock and I lay pipe well.

You still hadn't understood that women don't stay for your looks, but for your personality.

Relying in your looks is feminine.

alphakari · 2020-01-06T06:31:07+00:00

Notice how all the things you mentioned about yourself are things a man might want in a woman with the sole exception of good job.

Pretty to look at and not a bad fuck.

Title	Is it normal to be so replaceable for girls?
Author	ushirtrun
Upvotes	38
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Date	January 6, 2020 1:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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