In my first ltr I loved my girl very much, until I discovered she cheated on me. I loved so much té at I was kind of obsessed with her and thought it was destiny who put us together, that I didn't have eyes for other girls forever and so on.

Now I'm in a LTR for 7 months now and the girl does everything to me, we laugh a lot, she's overall great. But I don't feel butterflies in my stomach or too much of anything that I would call love.

What I felt before was blue pilled obessesion? After being red do you feel any love like I did?