I broke up with my LDR for being in touch with her exes. For her it came out of the blue as I didn't establish the boundary that talking to exes is a no-go for me (obvious to me, but not for her). So she thinks it was 'unfair' and unproportionate to suddenly break-up.

Now she is emotionally wrecked after the breakup and is asking me to unblock her from social media sites because it makes her feel 'literally dead to you and completely isolated'.

I have a feeling that strict no-contact is very harsh on her as we had a genuinely positive relationship. I hate to see her suffer so much. How can I make the breakup easier for her, or is she just trying to make me feel guilty? I'm conflicted.