I'll preface the post by saying I'm currently clinically depressed and obese so not trying to get laid just general advice. And I've never approached just messed around with girls from social situations ie school university.

So like the title isn't approaching beta? In school I was a naturally redpilled somehow , teasing negging had high social status so I could get girls. I was fat then as well so while the girls weren't 9/10s I did get interest off 7/8s I was very attracted to . But outside of school/ university men have to approach to get anything . Only thing is I see the whole approaching thing as beta. We all now women approach guys they are are sexually attracted to and logically whoever approaches has less power. Is game just convincing women of your smv