LTR Got Pregnant

bluechipmonk · 2018-10-06T00:36:02+00:00

If she purposely tried to get pregnant then I don’t blame her much. She’s acting as alpha female.

Here’s why: Think about it. In her eyes you’re seen as the most alpha male she’s ever dated. Of course she wants a baby from YOU and not somebody else. You’re doing TRP tricks on her to get laid with her. But she probably also did alpha female tricks on you to get herself pregnant from you.

Now, if you don’t want the baby you tell her to do the abortion because it’s not the right time for you at the moment. Tell her you’ll have a baby with her a few years later, not now.

If she still wants to give birth, well at least you really like the girl. Raise it together, dont let this baby grow up without a father.

redd_reality · 2018-10-06T01:52:18+00:00

"what bothers me is how she got oreg."

"I nutted in her one month later."

Well, my dude, that's how babies are made.

Jay-G · 2018-10-06T02:11:40+00:00

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5: Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth. This is where you fucked up. I don't care what anyone else says about she played you, she alpha'd you, she did it on purpose blah blah. You fucked up by letting her be in control, you operated in her frame. You did everything in your power to get her pregnant. You had sex, didn't use protection, nutted inside her. Congratulations, that's how you make babies. It wasn't her fault that her BC and antibiotics canceled out, it was your fault for letting her control the birth. Read the sidebar, "got a stranger pregnant: a guide". Don't stress too hard over this, stress doesn't help the situation any. It's just a baby, retarded 15 year olds are popping kids out everyday, it's not the end of the world. Man up and adjust.

hibloodstevia · 2018-10-06T01:03:17+00:00

another little trick they can pull is to show you a fake positive test, thinking you're already screwed so then you nut in her a whole bunch of times and then she really is pregnant.

Mewster1818 · 2018-10-05T23:03:26+00:00

No hormonal birth control is 100% effective. I know it's not as nice but this is why you should always wear condoms regardless(too late now, but for others at least). There are still plenty of cases every year of conception for women who are on HBC.

GayLubeOil · 2018-10-05T23:20:37+00:00

Confess to her that you are actually a contract killer for the CIA. Move to another country so you don't have to raise this kid. Send mysterious letters yealy.

daytonbull90 · 2018-10-05T22:30:46+00:00

That's how my little brother was born, my mom was on the ring for months and still got preggo.

RedDeathClock · 2018-10-05T23:31:14+00:00

https://goodstock.photos/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Stairway-Going-Down.jpg

The__Tren__Train · 2018-10-06T00:00:30+00:00

PRESS "F" TO PAY RESPEC

Kabuki431 · 2018-10-05T22:52:49+00:00

Whats done is done.

Do you have $250,000 to raise a child for next 18 years ? Ask her if she can afford that.

Retstortion · 2018-10-05T22:44:14+00:00

Convince her you are not ready for a child and to consider abortion. This will ruin your life.

Sounds like she tricked you.

Ekhochambeer · 2018-10-06T00:37:49+00:00

There is a post on the main sub recently about what to do if you get a chick pregnant, I can't remember what it was called but I'm sure you would find it useful. The guy in the post handled it incredibly well despite the situation being terrible for him.

Edit: the post

Musicgoon · 2018-10-05T23:46:41+00:00

Sounds like she sold you a line of bullshit. You lost all of your power and she calls the shots now. You're right to be upset but this is a monumental mistake that can ruin your life.

It's not a joke when people say leave the country. Be prepared to be broke and heartbroken.

Take it from someone who made the same fuckup. Unless she loses the kid or aborts it. The chances of you having a good life are not very good. I hate to be a downer, but that's the truth.

flapjacksrbetter · 2018-10-05T22:54:37+00:00

Abortion if u dont want it and get a dna test if it does come out

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-10-05T23:56:27+00:00

So far, the only antibiotic that studies show interferes with birth control is rifampin (Rifadin), a drug used to treat tuberculosis.

https://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/medicines-interfere-birth-control-pills#1

What was the name of the anti biotic? What research did you do to determine it affects birth control (which is rare)?

friendandadvisor · 2018-10-06T01:40:13+00:00

How big a fucking idiot do you have to be to fall for the "i'm on birth control" bit?

I've still got a bottle of drugs from 20 years ago that I've never used. Would you like a picture of it?

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-10-06T03:02:44+00:00

She didn't make a mistake. If it was a mistake she would get an abortion.

She wanted a kid. Either she wanted your kid, or she wanted you to think you were the dad. Get a f*cking paternity test.

_thechinaman_ · 2018-10-05T22:53:49+00:00

There is a post in the sidebar for this. Better LEARN HOW TO HUSTLE AND MAKE BANK so she can take it BUT once 18 years is up, you are free! I think. This is the real redpill. Welcome to MonkMode on SUPER HARD!

zeekt12 · 2018-10-06T00:54:24+00:00

GG.

Flee to Africa.

RedHoodhandles · 2018-10-06T05:03:29+00:00

Yeah try to get an abortion. And yes, every chick knows that antibiotics counteract the pill. That's common knowledge. Hell, I know that since my first gf.

So either you've got an exceptionally dumb bitch pregnant and will raise a dumb mother genes kid or she was getting pregnant on purpose and you will be used as money thrower. Take your pick.

edargham · 2018-10-06T05:30:28+00:00

Iron rule #4: Always be in control of the birth. Why weren’t you wearing a condom?

sherlockHolmes012 · 2018-10-06T06:26:31+00:00

Adoption may be a good route: 1) It absolves both you and her of all financial and parental responsibilities, no paternity test required 2) There's a decent probability the child will be raised by good parents (you and her have to approve who adopts your child after all). Also, thanks to feminism, the US has an insane number of financially independent women who now regret pursuing a career instead of a family. Adoption is the default backup to failed fertility treatments, which are becoming increasingly common; there's a legitimate market for unwanted children. 3) Most importantly, it might be an easier option to sell to her than abortion.

saucebyt · 2018-10-06T00:24:21+00:00

pray to god she has another miscarriage. (read the comments)

bluemoviebaz · 2018-10-05T22:42:42+00:00

Your fucked you idiot try and convince her to abort

TooToughToQuit · 2018-10-06T00:52:09+00:00

They might sound trolly and fucked up but here's my suggestion: start acting super beta and unattractive. Stop grooming, start getting acne on purpose (touch face with dirty hands), stop taking shower, and start looking ugly in the next few weeks/months. Act like a crazy schizophrenic as well if you're good at acting lol Think about it, if she starts to feel repulsed by you, she'll also start feeling repulsed by the thought of bearing a child of an ugly disgusting man, she might change her mind and start considering abortion. Once she gets abortion, dump her and get back on track.

If you feel like saving hundreds of thousands of dollars for the next 20 years, this is not a bad idea.

wkndatbernardus · 2018-10-06T01:58:00+00:00

Hopefully she has a good career and makes decent money and you're a degenerate with few job prospects. That way, you won't be on the hook for much child support. It's all about discrepancy of income when it comes to deciding CS so, I would try to make minimal money (not saying to be homeless, just minimize cash flow, if you can) between now and when the baby is born and you guys agree on a custody plan.

ExoticCatsAndCars · 2018-10-06T03:19:04+00:00

Dude get a DNA test but you need to raise your kid if it's yours. there's some things that go beyond this sub and dipping out of somebody's life because you weren't ready to have a kid? Nobody was ready. Man the fuck up and stop being a little bitch every time life gets a little difficult. Kids NEED strong fathers and if you can't do that go ahead and kill yourself.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-10-06T03:58:24+00:00

Happy Father's Day!

ThrowawayNLMD · 2018-10-06T04:17:58+00:00

"leave the Mom and Kid once they hit 18"

Yes, leave the kid at 18 so that there's a 50% chance he grows up a beta male amongst other beta males and turns into a depressed, anxious feminine adult who will never achieve true success because they barely had a true father figure. And on top of this, depending on where you live; you'll be left living alone and embarrassingly paying child support payments into the child's 20s, meanwhile your SMV decreases by the year on top of every time your little secret gets out.

Make decisions thinking decades ahead. Please do not fall for this horrible recommendation. Sack up and become the Father. Teach him to not do what you did.

AfterC · 2018-10-05T23:40:42+00:00

You can try the hail mary.

Convince her you want to have a child with her, but not yet. Say you want to abort, so you can both work on careers, then have a child. Promise her the beta bux dream.The second the abortion is done, you dump her.

Alternativly, the abortion pill - Mifepristone, also known as RU-486, can be found and put in her food or drinks. This is highly illegal but very effective the first 50 days of pregnancy. It will induce her period and a purging.

Charlie_Wright8312 · 2018-10-06T04:08:54+00:00

If you've exhausted all your options and she still gives birth in the end, please don't be that spineless prick who runs away from a responsibility. Sure, it's not your fault, she might even have conned you into this and that's just evil. Agreed. But the child needs a father or he/she is fucked. A single mother raising the child will destroy his/her entire life and future. Especially if the child is a boy, please make sure the mother doesn't screw up the child.

Women are pathetic at parenting boys, we all know that.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-10-06T08:17:13+00:00

How long has she been pregnant for? Ever heard of something called an abortion? Its like you guys guve zero fucks about your future. Just another child being raised by a single mom. Just get that shit aborted now.

Zanford · 2018-10-06T00:12:16+00:00

DO NOT say anything in a recorded medium (text, phone etc.) that could be used as evidence that you are probably the father or in a serious relationship with her.

Off the record, try to convince her that you are poor (aka getting child support money would be blood from a stone) and have a family history of genetic defects. Maybe she will magically overcome her 'I don't want to have an abortion cuz I once had a miscarriage' BS.

You are 100% within your rights to demand a pat test. Watch her face carefully at the moment you bring it up...look for flickers of doubt/guilt/worry. A girl who knows there's no chance of another father would be eager to take a test to prove it to you.

[deleted] · 2018-10-06T03:37:07+00:00

Her taking a pic of the pill bottle doesn't mean she's actually been taking it. Also they have to take it every day at the same time for it to work properly. I don't trust anyone to do that much less a girl.

I got one of my exes pregnant before I discovered TRP. I was 19 and I had a girl that was letting me bust in her and I thought it was the greatest thing in the world. So every year she goes to south america to visit her family and that year she went she wasn't good about taking her pill.

I busted in her the day she got back and lo and behold two weeks later I find out she's pregnant. And the aftermath ruined our relationship. We had talked about the scenario before, and we both agreed on getting an abortion. But it's a lot different for women once you actually have a future baby inside of you and I sympathize with that. I argued for her to get an abortion and because it started causing so many fights I just stopped being there for her like I should have. Didn't even call her the day she had the abortion because we were on such bad terms.

One of my biggest regrets. I understand the relationship was probably irreparable at that point, but I just wasn't being a decent person much less a boyfriend. I still think about how much of an asshole I was being during that time period.

Point is you have to tread carefully. You thought highly enough of this girl to LTR her. You nutted in her and you knew the risks of doing so. So be there for her even if it's not convenient for you. You don't want to be known around town as the guy who forced his girlfriend to have an abortion. Because although I didn't force my ex to get one, that's the reputation I got.

Title	LTR Got Pregnant
Author	Peter_B_Long
Upvotes	6
Comments	80
Date	October 5, 2018 10:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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