My [32M] girlfriend [26F] is acting distant. We live together. I need advice.

My girlfriend and I have been together a year and things have been going great up until about a week or so ago. It seems like since the newness has worn of her attraction level for me has declined. She doesn’t text me nearly as much as she used to.

She has been going through emotional struggles due to some bad dreams about her father and one of her ex boyfriends. She took melatonin for the first time, and apparently the causes bad dreams for some people.

I feel like I need to give her more space or something. But it’s hard since we live together.

I don’t initiate contact with her anymore at all via text or phone calls. I think she needs to miss me in order to appreciate me more...

I hate games but that’s what this feels like. Almost like a test.

She stated that what she wanted after she had these dreams was to be on her own but she can’t support herself financially fully right now.

What the hell do I do to help get her head back in the game?